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Which fictional world would be the most fun to vacation in?

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Star Trek, I don’t just want a vacation—I want an experience. And Star Trek offers something no other fictional universe really does: a place where curiosity is the currency, kindness is the norm, and exploration is treated like a sacred calling. reflective storyteller like me who enjoys humor, liminality, and the feeling of stepping into a world that’s both familiar and just a little beyond reach.

Star Trek treats space not as a battlefield but as a cathedral. I would love:

• Nebulae that look like watercolor paintings
• Starfields that feel like quiet chapels
• Strange phenomena that make you question reality
• That moment when the ship drops out of warp and everything goes still

Star Trek is full of characters who feel like old friends.

• Picard’s calm wisdom
• Data’s earnest curiosity
• Spock’s dry humor
• Bones’ cranky compassion
• Janeway’s fierce loyalty

It’s the kind of environment that sparks reflection—the same energy I try bringing through my blogs and books.

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If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?

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I would pick the signing of “The Declaration of Independence” as a pivotal moment in history. I love this country deeply and feel incredibly fortunate to have experienced my life in this rich and diverse land. We have so many benefits and freedoms that we have enjoyed for so long, including the right to speak our minds, practice our beliefs, and pursue our dreams. Unfortunately, these liberties tend to be taken for granted by many. It is essential to remember that freedom is not free! It is a hard-won gift that came at a great cost, through the sacrifices of countless individuals who fought for our rights. Reflecting on this historical event inspires gratitude and a sense of responsibility to uphold these values for future generations.

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If you had to get a tattoo right now, what would it be and why?

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I’ve made it a solid eighty years on this planet without a tattoo, and I’m determined to keep my skin as blank as a canvas! As for pot and illegal drugs, I’m too advanced in age to start that rollercoaster ride at this stage; I prefer my thrills to come from the more traditional sources, like my nightly cup of decaf. I’ve seen what those substances do to people, and frankly, I’d rather avoid those misadventures. Now, alcohol and smoking? Well, they’ve been my partner-in-crime for years, giving me enough “me time” to balance my chaotic schedule. I often end up giggling at my choices and the life lessons they’ve slapped me with. While my escapades have undoubtedly added color to my story, I’m thankful for my streak of sanity that kept my body tattoo-free and my temptations mostly relegated to the snack aisle instead of the drug aisle. It’s proof that I’m living my best life—no permanent ink required, and I’m flourishing with my own brand of contentment, no external enhancements needed!

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How did you meet your significant other?

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I met my significant soulmate in a divorce support group, a place where we both found ourselves unexpectedly united in our shared heartaches. We had both been met with the sobering reality of being dumped by our former spouses, a situation that felt surreal at the time. Each of us walked into the group believing that our marriages were meant to last, that the vows we made were sacred and unbreakable—after all, we thought it was “till death do us part.” Boy, what a big surprise that turned out to be! Rejection is undeniably one of the hardest events to experience in life, a profound emotional upheaval that shakes the very foundation of one’s being. However, if it wasn’t for that seemingly painful experience, we might never have crossed paths and discovered the deep, abiding love that we share today. Now, after enjoying over forty wonderful years together, we can look back and see how that hurt and pain paved the way to something much more fulfilling than we ever imagined. It taught us resilience and opened our hearts to possibilities, reminding us that sometimes the end of one chapter can lead to the beautiful beginning of another.

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What’s a cultural tradition from your country that you love?

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The cultural tradition I enjoy the most is Thanksgiving. This is the only holiday that I know of that was planned to be celebrated on the last Thursday of November, and it has deep roots in American history, originating in this country. It was established to commemorate a successful growing season, serving as a time for gratitude and reflection on the harvest’s bounty. I do not know of any other country that celebrates on the last Thursday of November in a similar manner, making this holiday truly unique to the United States. The significance of Thanksgiving transcends mere food and festivities; it is an opportunity for families and friends to come together, share stories, and create cherished memories. Even if my understanding of history is incomplete or flawed, I am genuinely thankful for this time each year when we pause to express our appreciation for all that this country has given us, as well as the hope that it will continue to provide us with blessings and opportunities in the future.

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If you could relive one day from your past, which day would it be and why?

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I would like to see the day I was born, a moment frozen in time that holds so much significance. Able to see the expression on my mother and father, their eyes wide with wonder and perhaps a touch of fear. I would like to hear what I thought when I exited that nice warm cramped environment, and I was exposed to the bright lights and noise surrounding me, a cacophony of unfamiliar sounds that served as my introduction to the world. How did I feel when I actually got hungry, that primal instinct drawing my attention to the need for sustenance? Were the scales cold when I was weighed, that first encounter with the harsh reality of the outside world? Was circumcision as painful as I have imagined, an event shrouded in mystery that I’ve pondered over the years? How did I feel in those fleeting moments, scared or curious, overwhelmed by the vastness of life while still tethered to the safety of my origins? Did I sense the love that enveloped me, or was I too caught up in the whirlwind of new sensations to appreciate it fully?

Many times, in my life, I have wondered what it was like to experience birth, to feel the overwhelming surge of life entering the world, the moment when a new being takes its first breath and emerges into the vastness of existence. I imagine the sensations that might accompany this monumental event—the warmth of the surrounding environment, the sound of soothing voices, and the emotions of those who are welcoming this life. Each birth is a unique story, a profound beginning filled with hope and potential, stirring a sense of curiosity about what it truly means to start life afresh and to embrace the journey that lies ahead.

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What’s the last movie that made you cry?

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The movie that made me cry was a 1970 film starring Alli McGraw and Ryan O’Neil named Love Story. It was a real tearjerker that captured the hearts of many viewers with its poignant storyline and emotional depth. The film beautifully portrayed how life could be a tragedy, illustrating the struggles of love against the backdrop of illness and societal expectations. The chemistry between McGraw and O’Neil was palpable, making their characters’ journey even more impactful. As the story unfolded, it forced me to reflect on the fragility of life and the love that often blooms in the most unexpected circumstances, reminding us all of the bittersweet nature of human connections and the pain of loss.

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If you could erase one event from history, what would it be?

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I would like to erase the invention of the atomic bomb. Just think, we would be free from the fear of total annihilation, and wouldn’t have the dread of some nutcase or rogue government possessing such destructive power and potentially destroying the human population. The absence of this weapon would mean a world where international relations could thrive without the shadow of catastrophic conflict looming over us. We could focus on diplomacy, fostering understanding among nations, and preventing wars based on fear of escalation. Instead of investing vast sums into weaponry that could end civilization, resources could be directed towards tackling critical issues such as poverty, climate change, and healthcare. Imagine a society that prioritizes cooperation and innovation over destruction, fostering a safe and nurturing environment for generations to come.

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What’s a conspiracy theory you actually find believable?

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I asked AI and this isn’t believable to me. However, it is so unbelievable that I could not keep from posting it.

This one started as pure satire in 2017 but somehow gained actual believers (or at least very committed performers). The core claim: every bird you see is a government surveillance drone.

According to the theory, the U.S. government systematically eliminated all real birds between the 1950s and 2000s and replaced them with robotic look-alikes. These “birds” are packed with cameras, microphones, and tracking tech. They perch on power lines to recharge, “poop” chemicals or tracking devices, and fly in formation to map everything below. Pigeons are supposedly the most advanced models. The whole operation is framed as a massive cover-up for mass surveillance, with the CIA (or similar agencies) running the show.

There’s even lore about the “Bird Holocaust,” secret factories converting dead birds into drones, and public protests demanding the truth. The movement has marches, merchandise, and a very deadpan presentation that makes it hard to tell where the joke ends and the genuine belief begins for some people.

It’s peak internet absurdity—equal parts social commentary and full commitment to the bit.

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What’s a moment when you realized you were officially an adult?

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The time I remember the most happened in March 1964, a month that forever changed the course of my life. I received this unexpected letter, which felt heavy in my hands as I opened it, and it stated, “your friends and neighbors have selected you to become a member of The United States Army. I WAS DRAFTED!” Emotions surged through me as I read those words; a mix of pride, fear, and uncertainty flooded my mind. I could hardly fathom how the decisions of those around me could have such a profound impact on my future. The reality began to sink in that I was about to embark on a journey that would test my character, challenge my ideals, and shape my identity in ways I had yet to comprehend.

The next two years I spent time in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri, where I trained rigorously with fellow soldiers, honing my skills in various military exercises that would prepare us for the challenges ahead. Following that, I moved to Fort Huachuca, Arizona, a place known for its intense training programs and hot desert climate, which tested our resilience and adaptability. My journey then took me to Europe, where I had the opportunity to serve in Nuremberg and Darmstadt, Germany, experiencing the rich history and culture while working alongside international troops. Throughout this time, I was grateful that I did not have to go to Vietnam, as many of my peers did; instead, I focused on building valuable skills and relationships that would shape my military career.

This was a good experience though and do not regret it at all.

Daily writing prompt

If you had a time machine and could send just one message to your past self, what would it say?

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This is short and simple. Just learn to be yourself sooner than turning sixty. You were created to be yourself, not someone that you were told to be like. Embracing your true self is one of the most vital journeys you can undertake in life, as it not only leads to greater happiness but also allows you to connect authentically with others. Reflecting on your desires and values, free from external influences and societal expectations, is crucial. In a world that often pressures us to conform or fit into predetermined molds, remembering that your unique qualities and perspectives are what make you special can empower you. So take the time to explore who you are, voice your opinions, and pursue your passions. Ultimately, the sooner you start this journey, the more fulfilled your life will be, allowing you to walk confidently along your own path.

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What’s a moment when a stranger completely restored your faith in people?

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This happened to me in December 2024. Yes, it restored faith in total strangers.

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If your future self could send you one sentence, what do you hope it would say?

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“Tom, you have led a good life, you have learned a lot, and you are prepared to move onto bigger and better things.”

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What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life?

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As I have said many times, just be yourself and embrace the unique qualities that define who you are. It took me over sixty years to realize that I was created to be myself, with all my strengths and imperfections. After this important realization, I have become more at ease with my identity and my choices. For many years, I have been told by various voices, whether family, friends, or society at large, that I should be more like my brother or Johnny, or that there were numerous other examples that pointed to the fact that I needed improvement. These comparisons often left me feeling inadequate, as if there was a mold I was supposed to fit into, but I have since learned that true contentment comes from honoring my individuality and recognizing that everyone’s path is different. Embracing who I am not only brought me peace but also a deeper understanding of the richness that diversity brings to our lives.

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Do you think everything happens for a reason?

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I am a strong believer that our time on this earth is one long, unfolding learning experience. From the moment we arrive — tiny, unknowing, and wide‑eyed — life begins teaching us. At first the lessons are simple: how to breathe, how to trust a warm voice, how to reach for the things that spark our curiosity. But as the years gather, the lessons deepen. We learn from joy, from heartbreak, from the people who lift us up and the ones who challenge us. We learn from our mistakes, from our triumphs, and from the quiet moments when we finally understand something we’ve been wrestling with for decades.

And the learning never stops. It carries us through childhood, through the long middle stretch of adulthood, and right into the twilight of our days. Even in our final breath, life is still teaching us — about love, about letting go, about the strange beauty of having been here at all.

To live, in the truest sense, is to learn. Every day is a lesson, every experience a teacher, and every one of us a student until the very end.

Therefore, I think everything happens for a reason

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What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever?

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How the West Was Won Song

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What’s a promise you made to yourself that you’ve actually kept?

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When I was 28 years old, I made a promise to quit smoking for sure; it felt like a pivotal moment in my life. I must have attempted to quit smoking at least 100 times, and each time was a combination of hope and despair. I would be going okay, feeling strong and determined, but then some stressful event or significant change in my life would occur, and I would find myself resorting to that crutch of smoking once again. That familiar saying echoed in my mind: “Oh, just a few cigarettes and I will be able to stop smoking after the crisis is over.” Yet, I learned the hard way that this thinking is nothing but a bunch of baloney. You get addicted to that nicotine fix almost immediately, and before you know it, you’re back to smoking uncontrollably, trapped in a cycle that feels impossible to break. The fleeting moments of relief that a cigarette provided were quickly overshadowed by guilt and frustration, making me question my willpower and resolve every single time I lit up.

I must say again, stopping smoking was the best thing I have ever done for myself in my life. Not only did I free myself from the grips of that harmful addiction, but I also discovered a newfound sense of vitality that I never thought possible. It took me over a year to get rid of the feeling and urge to light just one cigarette. Then I realized how nasty that habit is and became a no smoking advocate. I speculate kicking that nasty habit gave me 20 or more years of time on this earth, allowing me to engage in activities I love, enjoy meaningful moments with my loved ones, and pursue my passions with greater enthusiasm. The journey wasn’t easy, but the rewards have undeniably transformed my life for the better, leaving me grateful for every smoke-free day.

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If you could have dinner with any fictional character, who would it be?

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If I could have dinner with a fictional character, it would be a fictional character of me. This would be our dinner and conversation.

Dinner With Your Fictional Self

The waiter has just left, and the two of you—real Tom and story-Tom—regard each other with the kind of curiosity usually reserved for mirrors that talk back.

Story-Tom leans back, folds his hands over his stomach, and gives you a grin that looks suspiciously familiar.

“Funny thing,” Story-Tom says, “I’ve been living in your head for years, and this is the first time you’ve invited me to dinner.”

Real-Tom raises an eyebrow. “You’re usually busy narrating my life. I figured you deserved a break.”

Story-Tom chuckles—your chuckle, but with a little more gravel. “Narrating? I’m just trying to keep up. You’re the one who keeps giving me new material.”

The food arrives: salmon for Story-Tom, chicken for Real-Tom. Story-Tom thanks the waiter with a nod that feels practiced, like he’s been thanking people for decades and has perfected the art.

I watch him cut into his salmon. “So,” you say, “what’s it like being the fictional version of me?”

Story-Tom pauses, fork halfway to his mouth. “Honestly? Easier. I get to skip the boring parts. No bills, no errands, no waiting in line at the DMV. I get the highlights—the porch snake, the sunsets, the memories that matter.”

I laugh. “I wouldn’t mind skipping a few of those errands myself.”

Story-Tom leans forward, eyes warm. “But you wouldn’t skip the stories. That’s the difference. I’m built from them. You’re the one who lived them.”

For a moment, the café feels quieter. The fan hums. Someone clinks a glass at the bar.

Real-Tom sips his iced tea. “Do you ever disagree with how I write you?”

“Oh, constantly,” Story-Tom says. “You make me too noble sometimes. Too reflective. I’d like a few more bad decisions, maybe a scandal or two.”

“You’re welcome to them,” Real-Tom says. “I’ve had my share.”

Story-Tom laughs again—this time with genuine delight. “That’s why I like you. You’re honest about the mess.”

We both eat for a while, comfortable in the way only two versions of the same person can be. When the plates are cleared, Story-Tom looks out the window at the foothills turning blue in the dusk.

“You know,” Story Tom says softly, “you’ve done a good job. With the life. With the stories. With the way you keep showing up.”

Real Tom feels something warm settle in his chest. “Thanks,” you say. “I try.”

Story-Tom nods. “Keep writing me. I’m not done yet.”

And neither are you.

Guess who was stuck with the bill.

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What is the best purchase you have ever made?

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June 18th, 2016, is when the best purchase has ever been made. It is our dream home, a beautiful haven that we have cherished for over ten years now. With its spacious layout and inviting ambiance, every corner of this house reflects warmth and comfort. No yard work for me means I can enjoy my weekends without the burden of maintaining the garden; the HOA provides yard maintenance, snow removal, and trash pickup, which is such a relief. It was time for me to give up my love for outdoor yard fun, realizing that this old body just can’t do as much as it used to. Instead of laboring in the sun, I can relax and savor my time at home. The double car garage is a fantastic bonus; it does not have to be used for storage because of the expansive basement, which has plenty of room for storage, a man cave where I can unwind, and a workshop for my creative projects. I take pride in knowing that I’ve created a space that perfectly balances leisure and functionality. I have always dreamt of a home like this, a place where memories can flourish, and the dream came true, offering a sanctuary where I feel truly at peace and fulfilled.

Yes, I have been very blessed in this life!

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What is the best excuse you have heard lately?

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Since I am in the crowd of senior citizens, I have noticed that the best excuse for everything they do or fail to do is often referred to as a “senior moment.” It seems that this term has become a comforting blanket that allows us to laugh at our little lapses in memory or the occasional forgetfulness that comes with age. This phenomenon provides a shared understanding among us, as we navigate through daily life, balancing the wisdom we have gained over the years with the funny mishaps that can sometimes occur. Each slip of the mind or moment of distraction is often met with knowing smiles and shared stories, creating a sense of camaraderie in our collective experience, making it a light-hearted way to embrace the changes that come with getting older.

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Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are?

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Since I am a firm believer that time on this earth is meant for learning, I see every moment as an opportunity to grow and evolve. We are constantly absorbing knowledge from various events, conversations, and interactions, often without even realizing it. Each experience, whether big or small, contributes to the vast repository of information stored in that wonderful brain of ours. This unique memory bank encompasses everything that has happened in our lives, from the mundane to the extraordinary. These events shape who we are, influencing our beliefs, values, and perspectives on the world around us. They serve as the building blocks of our identity, helping to mold our understanding and guiding us on our journey toward personal fulfillment. As we navigate through life, it’s essential to recognize the importance of these experiences, as they play a crucial role in defining not only our character but also our path ahead.

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If you had to be an animal for a week, which one would you be and why?

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To go along with what my wife has affectionately called me, “I am her giraffe.” After we met and became accustomed to each other, she commented that I remind her of a giraffe. I am tall and slender, especially in comparison to her, and that’s why I make her think of a giraffe; I always have my face in the trees, reaching for the highest branches, much like I reach for the boundless heights in life with her by my side. This unique characteristic of mine sparked a delightful chain reaction in her, leading her to start a whimsical collection of giraffes all over the house. Ceramics, glass, stuffed toys, paintings—you name it, she has it. Each piece tells a story, a memory from our adventures together, and they bring a playful vibrancy to our home. I have been her favorite giraffe for over forty years now, and every time I see her smile because of my towering presence in her life, I realize that being her giraffe is more than just a charming nickname; it’s a badge of honor that I wear with pride.

I’d rather be called a giraffe than other nicknames like walrus or confused sheep. As a giraffe, I can stand tall and snack on tasty leaves! Being tall allows me to see over trees and enjoy the view. I can stretch my neck to reach the best greens while soaking up the sun, feeling like royalty.

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What’s a piece of technology you’re convinced will exist in 20 years?

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AI (artificial intelligence) is the one piece of technology that will undoubtedly exist in 20 years, dramatically transforming various aspects of our daily lives, from healthcare and education to communication and transportation. As AI continues to evolve, its integration into these sectors will lead to unprecedented advancements, enabling more personalized and efficient services. The potential for AI to enhance decision-making processes, automate routine tasks, and provide valuable insights will not only improve productivity but also open new avenues for innovation and creativity, influencing how we interact with the world and each other.

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Are you a lifelong learner?

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Yes, I am a lifelong learner. I strongly believe that the purpose in life is to learn. You learn early that it is better to not poop in your diaper, setting the stage for a life filled with lessons. Then the learning begins; every experience, whether big or small, becomes an opportunity for growth. You spend your life learning from the events and people that enter your life and fulfill it in ways you might not expect. Each conversation, every moment of connection, adds depth to your understanding of the world. Even at my age, I am continually learning from the good and bad in this world, embracing the complexity of human nature. The pain, suffering, and comfort surrounding this world serve as the backdrop for my education. I find that even in my darkest moments, there are valuable lessons hidden within the shadows. I will learn as long as I am able to breathe, knowing that every breath brings the possibility of new insights and revelations, enriching my journey and expanding my horizons.

EVERY MORNING, I ASK MYSELF, “WHAT WILL I LEARN TODAY?’

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What’s one habit that has improved your life the most?

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Oral health is the one habit that improved my life. Growing up in the late forties and early fifties I have had a mouthful of cavities. I even had cavities in my baby teeth and wisdom teeth. During that time, they filled cavities with a composition that contained Mercury. Sometime later they realized that putting a Mercury compound in your mouth may not be that healthy. My gums always bled and many time felt uncomfortable.

After I returned from a tour in the army my life became more stabilized, I started to think about my filthy mouth. Quit smoking and started going to the dentist as a normal routine. I was introduced to soft pics, floss, and a Perio-aid. They replaced all my mercury fillings with a safer composite material. I cannot remember the last time I had a cavity. I know it has been over twenty-five years. The dentist now compliments me for my home care and tells me to keep it up.

I am sure fluoride had something to do with it. However, I am seeing that fluoride may not be that healthy and some are encouraging the discontinuation of reducing the use of fluoride.

Finally, oral health improved my lifestyle a lot, leading to increased confidence in social interactions and a greater willingness to engage in activities I once avoided due to hesitations about my smile; this positive change has also encouraged me to adopt a more disciplined routine of regular dental check-ups and better daily hygiene practices, ultimately contributing to my overall well-being and enhancing my quality of life.

Stopping smoking prolonged my life, Oral health Improved my life.

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What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years” — and what got you through it?

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The hardest part of my life was during and after my divorce. This came as a total surprise to me, completely shattering my perception of reality. I thought everything was good; we had built a life together, shared dreams, and made plans for the future. Then my then wife informed me she never loved me and that she just married me to escape the clutches of her parents’ farm. This revelation was like a dagger to my heart, leaving me reeling with confusion and disbelief. I also realized that there was an affair going on between her and my best friend, which added another layer of betrayal to the pain I was already feeling. The concept of losing not only a wife but also a former best friend was almost unbearable. It felt like my entire world had crumbled in an instant, and I was left to pick up the pieces of my shattered life, grappling with the emotional turmoil and the harsh reality of having trusted the very people who had turned my life upside down. The journey to heal from such deep wounds had been long and arduous, filled with moments of self-reflection, anger, and eventual acceptance.

I got through it by thinking positively that I would survive it and that better times are ahead. I focused on the possibilities of a brighter future, visualizing the happiness I wanted to achieve, which helped me stay motivated and resilient during challenging moments. Through introspection and determination, I found strength in my hopes and dreams. Eventually, it all worked out exactly as I envisioned, and I met my primary soulmate, who has been my anchor and support. Together, we have created a profound bond that has flourished over the years, resulting in more than forty years of a good, happy life rich with shared experiences, love, and laughter that I cherish deeply.

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What’s a book you think deserves a sequel?

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Since I am revealing my true self, I must admit that I’ve never been much of a book reader—shocking, I know! I mean, who wants to get lost in a world of ink and paper when there’s a perfectly good sunlit playground waiting outside? Back in grade school, I remember those summer assignments that demanded we read 5 or whatever dull number of books. A real snooze-fest! While my friends were outside playing tag or zooming around on their bikes like little speed demons, I was stuck in a boring corner, trying to make sense of plots that seemed as far away as the moon. I’d sit there, flipping pages like I was training for the world’s worst flipping page competition, while the sun was doing its best to warm my skin and laughter from the playground taunted me in the background. Looking back, it’s clear that I was yearning for adventure—not the kind found between the covers of a book, but the good old-fashioned kind that comes with scraped knees and dodging the “it” kid!

In high school, in a required class to graduate, you had to read the classics, which often felt like a chore compared to my true passion. During that time, I was deeply interested in cars, spending hours watching races and reading automotive magazines. I lived and breathed hot rods, dreaming of the day I customized my own vehicle. The roar of an engine or the shine of a well-polished chassis ignited a sense of excitement in me that no book ever could. After school, I would rush home to tinker with engines and study the intricacies of car design, always imagining how I could improve the performance of each model that caught my eye. Ultimately, while I appreciated the literature, my heart was always revving in the world of automobiles, where creativity met engineering in thrilling ways.

I never could find the time to read, mostly because my brain has a sneaky habit of going on spontaneous vacation trips while I’m still trying to read the first sentence. I’d open a book, and before I knew it, I was knee-deep in thought about whether I should have cereal or toast for breakfast—definitely a pressing matter! The words would become a jumbled soup, all tangled up like headphones in my pocket, and I’d be left wondering if the plot twist was just my imagination or if I really had just read three pages about a cat named Mr. Whiskers. It felt like a never-ending treadmill of frustration, where the thrill of reading was overshadowed by my own thoughts throwing a wild party. As a result, books pulled a disappearing act on me, turning reading into a chore instead of the joyful adventure it was supposed to be!

I really hope this doesn’t mean I’m getting kicked out of paradise because, honestly, the idea of missing out on a place where everyone is perpetually chill and basks in love sounds downright terrifying—like a birthday party without cake! paradise has always felt like my personal comfort zone, and I can practically hear the angels singing “Rocky Mountain High” on repeat! If my choices have thrown a wrench in my heavenly travel plans, please, just hand me the divine customer service number so I can beg for another life on this earth and a second chance, because the vibe up there is my ultimate goal.

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If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

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I have been to almost every state in the union, exploring the unique landscapes and vibrant cultures that each one offers. Except for Alaska, Kentucky, and North Dakota, I have also visited several countries in Europe, including Germany, where I marveled at the historical architecture, Switzerland, with its breathtaking alpine scenery, Hungary, rich in thermal baths and ruin bars, Austria, which captivated me with its classical music heritage, and Italy, where the cuisine and art brought my senses to life. I was born and raised in the Denver metro area, surrounded by the majestic Rocky Mountains, and I have no desire to live in any other part of the world. Yes, we have our issues, however a vibrant community, the beautiful natural surroundings, and the high quality of life here make me feel content and fulfilled. I am truly happy where I am, period.

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Is a little chaos actually good for us?

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A little chaos is not just good for us humans — it’s like a secret ingredient in our recipe for survival! This delightful messiness keeps us on our toes, making us navigate through life’s curveballs like a cat on a Roomba. Embracing chaos is like hitting the “magic” button on our learning machine, transforming us into wise sages (or maybe just slightly less confused beings) as we bond with ourselves and our fellow humans. In fact, those zany moments of turmoil often send our true potential rocketing to the surface, allowing us to whip up creative solutions and strut out of the chaos even more adaptable and ready to tackle whatever life throws at us next!

I am a strong believer that one of the main reasons we spend time on this earth is to learn. This journey of learning not only shapes our perspectives but also enriches our experiences. Chaos, in all its unpredictable forms, is an important part of this learning process. It challenges our resilience and pushes us out of our comfort zones, allowing us to discover strengths and insights we never knew we had. Embracing the chaos often leads to profound personal growth, enabling us to navigate through life with greater wisdom and understanding.

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What do you do to improve your sleep?

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Improving my sleep has become my newest hobby, mostly because my other hobbies (snacking, worrying, and reorganizing the junk drawer) weren’t helping. So I’ve developed a system. A dumb system. A system so dumb it loops back around and becomes almost impressive. For starters, I now perform a nightly ritual where I open the refrigerator and stare into it like it’s a portal to another dimension. I don’t take anything out. I don’t put anything in. I just stand there, letting the cold air hit my face while I contemplate whether leftover potato salad can teach me inner peace. It can’t. But the staring helps.

I’ve also decided my mattress needs “rotation,” which is a fancy way of saying If I flip it around and pretend I’ve accomplished something. The mattress is roughly the weight of a small elk, so the process is less “refreshing sleep hygiene” and more “accidental strength training.” After, I feel proud, even though the mattress feels exactly the same and my spine continues to complain.

Then there are the pillows. I now sleep with five of them, each serving a purpose I made up on the spot. One is for my head. One is for emotional support. One is to keep the emotional support pillow from getting too clingy. One is a mystery pillow whose origins I cannot explain. And one immediately falls to the floor and stays there until morning, fulfilling its destiny. I don’t know if this improves my sleep, but it does make my bed look like a low‑budget pillow fort.

Breathing exercises were supposed to help, too. I tried that inhale‑hold‑exhale routine everyone talks about. I inhaled for four seconds, held for seven, and then got distracted thinking about lasagna. By the time I remembered I was supposed to exhale, the moment had passed. I’m pretty sure the point is to try, though, and I did try, so I’m counting it as progress.

Eventually I lie down and attempt actual sleep. This is when my brain decides to host its nightly talent show. It asks important questions like “Did you lock the door?” and “What if raccoons can pick locks?” and “Why do humans have toes?” It also enjoys replaying embarrassing moments from decades ago, just to keep things spicy. But eventually, somehow, I drift off — not gracefully, more like a tranquilized moose collapsing in a meadow.

In the morning, I wake up feeling refreshed until I realize I’ve slept diagonally across the bed like a confused starfish. Still, I consider it an improvement. My sleep may not be perfect, but it’s better than it was, and at least now I have a system. A dumb system. But a system nonetheless.

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Hit 5,000 steps today and drop your achievement here — we’re cheering you on!

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5000 average human steps translate to about 2 to 2.5 miles, which might sound like a casual stroll for some. But for a gentleman over the age of 80, that distance can feel like traversing the Sahara! As the years roll by, our bodies seem to develop their own set of quirky challenges like muscle strength that takes more vacations than you do, joints that creak like an old wooden ship, and health conditions that would make a doctor raise an eyebrow. Throw in little mental gymnastics, as seniors often become paranoid about potential spills or fatigue that feels like it’s wearing a “Do Not Disturb” sign, and you’ve got a whole comedy show in motion! So, while walking is crucial for keeping those legs moving, it’s best to tackle those mile goals with a pinch of humor and perhaps a little bit of superhero support!

However, I do the best I can.

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What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts?

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Negative thoughts can slip in like uninvited guests, but the key is to acknowledge them without giving them control. Recognizing a thought as merely a passing event—like “I’m having the thought that I’m falling behind”—creates space to breathe and ground yourself in reality, whether it’s the feel of your feet on the floor or the sound of a bird. From there, gently check the thought with curiosity and redirect your focus to reflect your values, such as kindness or learning. Even small actions like a stretch or a sip of water can disrupt the spiral. Negative thoughts will come, but they don’t have to dominate; meet them with steadiness and compassion, remembering they are just thoughts, not truth.

Throughout life you are constantly learning. Negative thoughts are an inherent part of the learning process, and your education continues throughout your life. These thoughts often emerge during difficult situations, representing a natural response to unfamiliar experiences and uncertainties. Acknowledging these feelings can provide profound insights into your cognitive patterns and emotional reactions. By understanding that negative thoughts are commonplace and essential to growth, you can alter your perspective and utilize them as catalysts for personal development. This ongoing journey of learning fosters resilience, effective problem-solving, and adaptability, ultimately transforming you into a more robust and resourceful individual.

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What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger?

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I hated coffee when I was a kid. Seriously, who thought that bitter brew was a good idea? It was like drinking liquid regret! The kitchen would smell like an overenthusiastic barbecue gone wrong, and I’d scrunch up my nose like I just stepped in something suspicious. My parents would sip their steaming cups with expressions that resembled winning the lottery, as if they’d discovered some magical potion that I definitely wasn’t invited to! I’d much rather dive into a mug of hot chocolate, where the sweetness felt like a cozy hug instead of a slap in the face. As I slurped my milky delight, I’d overhear them going on about rich notes and subtle flavors like they were wine connoisseurs, and I couldn’t help but think that coffee was just for those weird grown-ups who enjoyed adulting too much!

Then, I found myself drafted into the army—a rollercoaster ride of chaos and confusion. I gave in to peer pressure about as easily as a kid to candy, jumping in on my fellow soldiers’ coffee habit like it was an elite club. Turns out, this magic potion we call coffee was their secret fuel for energy and buddy bonding! But here’s the kicker: milk was often MIA in army life, making black coffee not just a drink but a survival strategy. It was like a siren song I couldn’t resist—almost like smoking, except with fewer lung-related regrets! Once those caffeinated habits latched onto me, they were like a persistent shadow at a barbecue—always there! Fast forward eighty years, and my morning coffee is still my best buddy; it’s a warm hug in a mug that I can’t live without. Even now, when I hit up a local diner, the smell of fresh coffee zaps me back to those army days—reminiscing over simple sips amidst the organized chaos of life.

For over ten years the best time of day was breakfast with a hot cup of steaming coffee with that aroma of smoke in the room from that cigarette. I did wise up when I was 28 and quit the nasty habit of smoking. That was the best thing I ever did in my life. However, I will be enjoying that hot cup of coffee every morning until the last day.

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Which languages do you speak and how did that impact your life?

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I’ve spoken English my entire life. It’s the only language I ever learned well enough to use, and for a long time I never thought much about that. Growing up in the in the forties and fifties, speaking one language wasn’t unusual. It was simply the way things were.

But looking back from the vantage point of eighty‑plus years, I can see the ways this single language shaped my world.

English gave me the tools to write—first for YourHub.com, then for my blog, and eventually for the books. Every story, every memory, every reflection I’ve shared has come through this one language. It’s been my lifelong companion, the bridge between my thoughts and the page.

At the same time, speaking only English meant my world stayed a little smaller in certain ways. I’ve met people over the years whose first language wasn’t mine, and I sometimes wished I could step more easily into their world the way they stepped into mine. There’s a humility in realizing how much of human experience lives inside languages we don’t speak.

I have been to Italy and Germany where their primary language is not English. However, since English is so prominent in those countries. Not being able to speak their language was not much of a handicap.

English has carried me through conversations, friendships, military service, work, and now these later years of writing and reflection. It’s the language that helped me understand the world—and the one I use now to make sense of the life I’ve lived.

I don’t claim this as a grand insight, just an observation from someone who’s had a long time to think about it. One language can limit you in some ways, but it can also deepen your connection to the stories you’re able to tell. And for me, that’s been more than enough.

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What’s a common misconception people have about happiness?

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How many of us treat happiness like a destination. It’s easy to fall into the habit of saying, I’ll be happy when things settle down… when I retire… when I finally get this or finish that. I’ve said versions of that myself over the years.

But I’m starting to wonder if that mindset puts happiness on layaway. Maybe it doesn’t need to be postponed quite so far into the future. Maybe it’s already tucked into the smaller moments we tend to rush past—the first cup of coffee, a friendly wave from a neighbor, a memory that shows up out of nowhere and makes you smile.

I’m not claiming to have the formula figured out. Far from it. But I’ve noticed that the days when I slow down enough to notice the ordinary good things tend to feel a little lighter. A little more grounded.

So this isn’t advice, just an invitation: maybe happiness isn’t something we chase. Maybe it’s something we catch in the corner of our eye when we’re not trying so hard to find it.

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If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why?

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If I could magically master any skill, it would definitely be the art of marketing my fourteen books on Amazon—because who wouldn’t want to reach a broader audience and get the attention of readers who might actually enjoy the stories I’ve sweat over? Picture this: I’d whip up ad campaigns so captivating, they’d make your grandma want to buy a book even if she’s never turned a page in her life! I’d team up with influencers and bloggers in the literary world, like an Avengers squad, to make sure my masterpieces don’t just whisper in the shadows of obscurity but shout from the rooftops of the bestseller lists. Mastering these skills wouldn’t just get my books noticed; it’d create a whole fan club of enthusiastic readers who, instead of scrolling endlessly on their phones, would engage with my work like it was the latest gossip. Talk about turning my passion for writing into a wildly successful carnival ride!

Link to my author page on Amazon

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What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self?

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I would tell myself to Stop Smoking! I started smoking in 7th grade because of peer pressure, a curious attempt to fit in and be accepted by my friends, and once you are hooked, you are hooked bad, ensnared in a cycle that feels almost impossible to break. The initial thrill of rebellion quickly turned into a dependency that clouded my life and stole my breath, affecting my health and my ability to engage in activities I once loved. I finally quit when I was 28 filled with repeated attempts and numerous setbacks before I was successful in beating that nasty habit, a journey that taught me resilience and the importance of self-control, ultimately leading me to appreciate the freedom of living smoke-free.

Stopping smoking was the most difficult thing for me to do in my entire life.

Link to article I wrote in November 2023 about the same subject.

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What’s your favorite meme?

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That’s it!

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What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood?

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I don’t know why, but this theme song always made me feel great!

Link to my favorite Song

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What’s a fear you’ve overcome — and how did you do it?

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My fear was life. From being a toddler to now, I lived engulfed in a cloud of apprehension that seemed to follow me everywhere. I feared going to grade school, my heart racing at the thought of navigating the unknown social landscape. Then came junior high, where insecurities grew like weeds in my mind, and finally high school, a daunting arena filled with social hierarchies and expectations that felt insurmountable. It was all so fearful, an endless cycle of anxiety and self-doubt. Girls feared me, perhaps sensing my own fears reflected in their eyes, and it only deepened my isolation. My mother didn’t help at all when she echoed the stubborn echoes of societal expectations, saying, “Tom, remember, girls get pregnant and many girls get pregnant to land a husband,” words that lingered ominously in my mind, amplifying my worries, and turning every encounter with the opposite sex into a potential disaster. Each stage of my life felt like a battleground against the invisible forces of fear that sought to paralyze me, leaving me yearning for a sense of peace that seemed so far out of reach.

Getting drafted into the army feared me, as I couldn’t shake the anxiety that gripped my heart at the thought of leaving behind my family, friends, and the life I had carefully built. The uncertainty of military life, filled with rigorous training and the possibility of being deployed to dangerous locations, loomed over me like a dark cloud. My mind raced with questions about whether I would be capable of facing the challenges ahead, the fear of the unknown palpable as I envisioned the sacrifices I might have to make. I always wondered, “will I be able to shoot and kill?” Fortunately, I never had to encounter that situation.

Marriage feared me, an unrelenting shadow that loomed over my heart, whispering doubts and insecurities, convincing me that commitment was a cage rather than a sanctuary. In the quiet moments of reflection, I could almost hear the distant echoes of friends’ stories, tales of heartbreak and disillusionment, fueling my fears and reinforcing the belief that love was a fragile construct prone to unraveling at the slightest touch. As I navigated through the complexities of relationships, a nagging voice in my mind reminded me that vulnerability could lead to pain, and so I retreated, holding love at bay like a flickering flame that could easily be extinguished by the winds of reality.

A near death experience feared me, until I had a preview of time after death. In that moment, time seemed to stretch infinitely before me, enveloping me in an overwhelming sense of tranquility and serenity. The feeling of peace, TOTAL PEACE, is a feeling that cannot be explained, as if all my worries, fears, and doubts had been lifted away like autumn leaves blown by a gentle breeze. I found myself floating above my past, witnessing the moments that defined my life, each one infused with a clarity and understanding that had eluded me before. It was as though I had been given a glimpse into the vastness of existence beyond the physical realm, where love and acceptance reigned supreme. This profound experience transformed my perspective on life, imbuing my soul with solace and an unwavering sense of hope that transcends earthly struggles.

How did I overcome fear? Easy, I just did the best I could, focusing on my abilities and trusting in the process, and it always worked out in the end. Each time I faced a daunting challenge, I reminded myself that the only way to truly conquer my fears was to confront them head-on. By embracing the discomfort and pushing through, I discovered a newfound resilience within myself. I realized that fear was simply a stepping stone towards personal growth, and each experience taught me valuable lessons that shaped my character and strengthened my resolve. Ultimately, it was the commitment to act, despite my fears, that led to experiences far richer and more rewarding than I had initially imagined.

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Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

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People sometimes ask if I believe in soulmates, and I don’t hesitate. You bet I do. Not in the Hollywood sense, not in the lightning‑bolt, fireworks‑over-the-city sense. I believe in the quieter kind—the souls who cross our path and leave fingerprints on our life that never quite fade.

A soulmate isn’t always a spouse or a lover. Sometimes it’s a friend, a teacher, a stranger who says one sentence you never forget. Sometimes it’s someone you knew for a season, someone you lost too soon, someone who showed up at exactly the right moment and changed the direction of your life without ever knowing it.

A soulmate is anyone whose presence rearranges something inside you.

I’ve had my share of those in my lifetime. People who helped me see myself more clearly. People who taught me how to be braver, kinder, more awake. People who reminded me that connection is the real currency of this world.

And maybe that’s why I write so much. Words are my way of honoring those connections—past, present, and the ones still waiting around the corner. Writing is how I keep the conversation going with the souls who’ve walked with me, even if only for a short stretch of the road.

So yes, I believe in soulmates. Not because it’s romantic, but because it’s true. Some people are simply meant to find us.

Throughout my life, I have encountered significant individuals who resonate deeply with my soul. During my formative years, I met Jim, Jerry, and Sandra. In my time serving in the army, I crossed paths with Angelo and Vince. As I embarked on my professional journey, I encountered Jack, Darlene, and numerous others. In retirement and during my spiritual pursuits, I met Bill, Mel, Delores, Scott, and Stan. Even in the realm of the digital age, I found soulmates such as Blake and Barbara. Each time I identified a soulmate, an immediate and profound connection emerged, devoid of awkwardness, revealing the undeniable truth that our paths were destined to converge.

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What’s something you’d love to see in the future, but know you probably won’t live to witness?

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A Hope for Quieter Hearts

Lately, I find myself wishing—deep in my bones—that the hate and anger in this country would finally begin to fade. Not because I’m naïve, and not because I expect everyone to suddenly hold hands and sing in harmony. I just believe we’re capable of better than the constant shouting, the suspicion, the quickness to assume the worst in each other.

Maybe that’s why I write so much.

Every story, every blog post, every book is my small attempt to put something gentler into the world. Something human. Something that reminds us we’re more alike than we are different. I don’t have the power to change the national mood, but I can change the tone of my own little corner of it.

And maybe—just maybe—that’s how things begin to shift.

Not with grand speeches or sweeping declarations, but with ordinary people choosing kindness over cruelty, curiosity over judgment, connection over division. With people who still believe in listening. With people who still believe in each other.

I can’t control the world, but I can control the words I send into it. And I choose to send out words that soften instead of sharpen, that open instead of close, that remind instead of accuse.

If enough of us do that—quietly, consistently, stubbornly—maybe the temperature will drop. Maybe the noise will settle. Maybe we’ll remember how to talk to one another again.

I’d love to see that happen. And until it does, I’ll keep writing toward it.

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What are the biggest benefits of minimalist living?

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When I saw this prompt, I thought, “what is minimalist living”? I didn’t have a clue what this was. I am over eighty and have led a sheltered life. Therefore, I went to AI and asked for an explanation. Here is what Mr. Hypertyper replied with.

Minimalist living is a lifestyle philosophy focused on intentionally owning and doing less to create space for what truly matters. It emphasizes simplicity, purpose, and freedom from excess—whether that’s physical clutter, unnecessary commitments, or distractions.

becomingminimalist.comCore IdeaAt its heart, minimalism is the idea that “less is more.” It’s not about extreme deprivation, living in an empty room, or rejecting all possessions. Instead, it’s about curating your life so that everything you keep serves a purpose, brings joy, or adds real value.

theminimalists.comPopular definitions include:

• Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan Nicodemus (The Minimalists): “Minimalism is the thing that gets us past the things so we can make room for life’s most important things—which actually aren’t things at all.” theminimalists.com
• Joshua Becker (Becoming Minimalist): Intentionally promoting what you value most and removing everything that distracts you from it. becomingminimalist.com

It applies beyond stuff—to your time, relationships, schedule, digital life, and spending habits.Key Principles

• Intentionality: Regularly ask, “Does this add value to my life?” If not, let it go.
• Quality over quantity: Choose fewer, better items that last.
• Focus on experiences: Prioritize relationships, health, passions, growth, and contribution over material accumulation.
• Mindful consumption: Avoid impulse buys and “just in case” items.
• Simplicity: Reduce decisions, clutter, and obligations for more clarity and freedom. conni.me

What Minimalist Living Looks Like in Practice

• Home: Fewer possessions, clear surfaces, multifunctional furniture, and a calm aesthetic. Think neutral colors, natural light, and only items you use regularly.
• Wardrobe: A small “capsule” collection of versatile, high-quality clothes.
• Schedule: Saying no to non-essential commitments to free up time.
• Finances: Lower spending leads to less debt and more savings.
• Mindset: Gratitude for what you have and contentment without constant “more.” sofi.com

Here are some visual examples of minimalist living rooms:https://artifacts.grokusercontent.com/third-party-image

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thespruce.comBenefits

• Less stress — Fewer things to manage and clean.
• More time and freedom — Less maintenance, shopping, and decision fatigue.
• Financial savings — Reduced spending on unnecessary items.
• Better focus and productivity — A clearer environment supports a clearer mind.
• Environmental impact — Less consumption means less waste.
• Greater happiness — More room for meaningful experiences and relationships. becomingminimalist.com

Getting StartedYou don’t have to go extreme. Start small:

1. Declutter one area (e.g., a drawer or countertop).
2. Apply the “one in, one out” rule for new purchases.
3. Reflect on your values—what do you want more time/energy for? bemorewithless.com

Minimalism is highly personal—your version might look very different from someone else’s. It’s a tool for living more deliberately, not a rigid set of rules. Many people find it leads to greater peace, purpose, and joy.

Now that I learned what Minimalism living is I have no desire to even think about this kind of lifestyle.

I am happy with my current lifestyle

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What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it?

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Don’t let your hormones lead your life. I still remember the advice my mother gave me when I was a teenager; she always emphasized the importance of being in control of my emotions and desires. She told me that hormone drive is a natural part of life and is something everyone experiences, but there are many other facets of life that deserve our attention and energy beyond just sexual satisfaction. For instance, pursuing personal passions, developing deep friendships, and focusing on academic or career goals can bring true fulfillment and happiness. Yes, it took me some time to understand her wisdom, but I’m glad I eventually embraced it, finding balance in my life and discovering that there’s so much more to experience beyond the initial urges and impulses that hormones can bring.

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What is the meaning of life?

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This is a complex subject, and mankind has been searching for an answer since the beginning of history. The quest for understanding often leads to profound contemplation and exploration, as people from various cultures and eras strive to unravel the mysteries that govern our existence. Scholars, philosophers, and thinkers have dedicated their lives to studying this intricate topic, each contributing unique perspectives that enhance our overall comprehension. The journey of discovery is not merely about finding definitive answers; it is also about engaging with the questions that have puzzled humanity for centuries and encouraging a dialogue that transcends generations.

Since this is a complex issue all I can is contribute my opinion on the topic.

First, I was born and raised a Catholic and naturally this will affect my opinion on the meaning. From childhood to adulthood, I was told by my mother and grandmother that I must earn the privilege to enjoy time in heaven and that was the meaning or purpose of life. The religion during that time had lots of tough and in my opinion meaningless rules. For example, if you ate meat on Friday or missed Sunday mass that could be a reason to be deprived of heaven. Sure, there was confession, but how could you remember every bad human type of action you were guilty of. I could go on for an entire blog on the rules. In my opinion religion was based on fear that you had to prove that you were worthy of heaven.

As my life continued, I became aware of other faiths and religions and began to wonder. What about these millions of humans that were never exposed to Christianity? What about them? It was hard to accept that their meaning and purpose of life was different than mine.

As my journey of life continued, various events happened to me that shaped my perspectives and experiences profoundly. I was drafted into the army, a moment that marked a significant turning point in my life, and during this time, I met hundreds of people from all parts of the country. Each individual had their own unique story, background, and struggles, which opened my eyes to the diversity of human experiences. Through countless conversations and shared moments, I came to the realization that most people are basically good, driven by a desire for connection and understanding. Despite the challenges and hardships, they faced, they were all just trying to make it through whatever they are exposed to in their lives, each one navigating their personal battles with resilience and hope. This experience reinforced my belief in the inherent kindness that exists in humanity, even in the face of adversity.

Next event that changed my life tremendously was I had to experience a marriage breakup and divorce. I was trying to lead a good life and earning my ticket to time after earth. This turned my life upside down because I was told that marriage lasts until death. What am I to do? Live alone? I don’t think so. I am a normal healthy male that wants and needs a mate with all the fringe benefits. I survived this challenge and continued on with my life.

I could continue, but my biography is not the purpose of this prompt.

In conclusion, life is a big learning experience with chances for growth and self-discovery. As a child, you learn that not going in your diaper is important, teaching you about boundaries and self-control. The first eighteen years are vital, filled with lessons that prepare you for future events. Every moment, whether happy or difficult, helps shape your perspectives and values. You learn from each experience, gaining resilience and wisdom. After each event, I pause to reflect and ask, “What did I learn?” This practice helps me understand the situation and apply what I’ve learned, allowing me to grow personally and professionally. Embracing this mindset turns ordinary moments into valuable lessons, enriching my life overall and preparing for time after life on this earth.

FROM BIRTH TO DEATH, LIFE IS ONE GIGANTIC LEARNING EXPERIENCE.

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What’s a word or phrase that annoys you?

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What annoys me is a conversation with someone who finishes a statement with “You know!”
It feels as though they seek validation for their thoughts, implying their point should be inherently understood. This habit can disrupt discussions requiring depth, making the listener feel unintelligent or out of the loop. It creates an air of condescension, suggesting the speaker believes their audience lacks the insight to grasp their point without such reminders, ultimately detracting from the conversation’s quality and leaving me frustrated.

I avoid having conversations with people I know that uses this phrase many times. It is one of those things that irritates me, “you know!”

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What’s a moment that made you realize you were stronger than you thought?

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Three years ago, I faced a medical crisis I could never have imagined: a massive blood clot lodged between my lungs. When the doctor explained the procedure, he told me their best outcomes came when the patient stayed awake—fully conscious—while they entered the artery in the groin, threaded their way up to the clot, and attempted to remove it.

I chose that option.

The only sharp pain came at the beginning, when they made the incision to insert the camera, tools, and vacuum device. After that, the numbing medication did its work. I could feel pressure, movement, the sense of something happening inside me—but no pain. It was surreal, lying there awake while a team worked to save my life.

About halfway through, something shifted. I wasn’t hurting, but a wave of deep, unexplainable sickness washed over me. A heaviness. A fading. And because I was awake, I heard everything—including the nurse’s voice saying, “Doctor, the blood pressure is dropping fast.”

In that instant, I thought I had died.

I remember saying, clearly and calmly, “Here I am, Lord.”
And that was the moment I discovered a strength I never knew I had.

There was no fear. No panic. No clinging to the world behind me. Instead, I felt a peace so complete it defies description—TOTAL PEACE, unlike anything I had ever known in my earthly life. I don’t know where I went, exactly. The best way I can explain it is that I felt as if I were in a waiting area, suspended between two possibilities: whether the doctors would bring me back, or whether my journey would continue elsewhere.

They did bring me back. I woke on the operating table, alive.

That moment changed me. All my life, I had heard that death was something to fear, something to brace for, something dark and terrifying. And for most of my life, I believed it. I carried that fear quietly, the way many people do.

But in that one extraordinary moment—when I thought I had crossed over—I felt no fear at all. Only peace. Only readiness. Only strength.

I survived, and I am grateful. But the experience left me with a truth I carry every day:
I am stronger than I ever imagined, and I no longer fear dying.