A Dream Turned into a Tale

Somewhere after I retired, I had a vivid and lifelike dream. It was a dream that I will never forget and the implications. I took that dream and made it into a story. Here is the introductory paragraph.

When Tom drifts into sleep one ordinary night, he’s pulled into a vivid dream where Sandra—his grounded, quietly magnetic grade‑school companion he hasn’t thought of in forty years—appears exactly as she was in high school. She shows him three lives they might have lived together, each one tender, unsettling, and impossibly real. Shaken awake, Tom searches for her… only to discover she died three days earlier. What follows is a decades‑long reflection on connection, timing, and the mysteries that refuse to fade. Three Days After Sandra is a haunting, heartfelt novella about the questions we never knew we asked, the lives we never lived, and the quiet ways the past sometimes reaches forward—not to change our path, but to remind us that it mattered.

The small paper back is available on Amazon, and the Kindle edition will be available January 9th.

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Understanding Life and Death: Near-Death Insights

Daily writing prompt
What are your thoughts on the concept of living a very long life?

Since I am over eighty years old, I would say I qualify to post on this subject. As long as I am able to get around and be relatively healthy, I am all for living a long time on this earth, embracing each day with gratitude and joy. The experiences and wisdom I have accumulated over the years have enriched my life in countless ways, allowing me to cherish the moments spent with loved ones, explore new passions, and reflect on the beauty of existence. However, on the other hand, if my health declines to the point where I become immobilized and handicapped, requiring constant care and assistance, I hope that I do not have to endure pain and suffering in this vegetative state. It is a sobering thought to consider the quality of life we maintain as we grow older, and I sincerely hope for a peaceful and dignified transition, surrounded by the love and support of my family, should that inevitable time come.

Almost three years ago, I encountered a profound near-death experience that changed my perspective on life and existence forever. During that fleeting moment, I was granted a preview of what lies beyond this earthly realm, and the insight I received about life after death was both illuminating and comforting. This transformative experience removed all fear and anguish from my heart regarding the inevitable passage of time that we will all face at some point in our lives. I came to understand that death is not an end but a transition, a journey into a new phase of existence where love and light prevail. In sharing this perspective, I hope to alleviate the anxiety that many feel towards mortality, encouraging others to embrace life with a renewed sense of purpose and peace.

The Quiet Power of Friendship

Friendship isn’t loud most of the time. It doesn’t always arrive with grand gestures or cinematic speeches. More often, it shows up in the steady, ordinary ways—someone remembering your laugh, someone texting you a photo because it “felt like you,” someone who knows when to talk and when to simply sit beside you in the quiet.

The older we get, the more miraculous these connections feel. Not because they’re rare, but because they’re chosen. Two people deciding, again and again, to stay in each other’s orbit. To witness each other’s seasons. To hold space for the versions of us that are still becoming.


You don’t have to navigate the world alone. Somewhere out there is a friend—maybe one you’ve known for decades, or perhaps one you haven’t met yet—who will make the ordinary days feel a little lighter. This connection can transform even the simplest moments into precious memories, a shared laughter over coffee, or deep discussions under the stars. It’s this bond, both old and new, that reminds us we are not alone in our journeys. Embrace the opportunity to reach out, to connect, and to rediscover the joy that comes from the company of others, as life becomes richer when shared with those we hold dear.

And you, in your own way, are that person for someone else.

Friendship is proof that life keeps offering us unexpected companions for the road, reminding us that we are never truly alone in our journeys. All we have to do is walk with them, embracing the moments of laughter, sharing our stories, and supporting one another through the challenges that arise. It’s in these connections that we find strength and joy, enhancing our experiences and creating lasting memories that enrich our lives.

Loveland’s Heartwarming Valentine Re-Mailing Tradition

Loveland, Colorado, known as the Sweetheart City, has a beloved tradition of re-mailing and specially postmarking Valentine’s Day cards that’s been charming people worldwide for nearly 80 years.The Valentine Re-Mailing Program began in 1947, initiated by Postmaster Elmer Ivers and Loveland Chamber of Commerce President Ted Thompson. It started as a way to capitalize on the city’s romantic name, and it quickly grew into the largest valentine re-mailing program of its kind in the world. Each year, around 100,000 to 160,000 cards arrive from all 50 U.S. states and over 100 countries. Here’s how it works: People send pre-addressed and pre-stamped Valentine’s Day envelopes (or cards) inside a larger envelope to the Loveland post office. Volunteers then handstamp each one with a unique cachet (a decorative design, often featuring a love-themed poem or message) created by a local artist through an annual contest, plus a special Loveland postmark. The cards are then re-mailed to their recipients, arriving with that extra touch of romance from the Sweetheart City

The tradition has expanded over the years with related events like the Sweetheart Festival, crowning a Miss Loveland Valentine (a tradition since 1962), heart-decorated streetlamps, and group weddings. In 2026, the program will celebrate its 80th anniversary. It’s a heartfelt way Loveland spreads love globally—one stamped envelope at a time!

Loveland Colorado’s address: Postmaster
Attention: Valentine Re-Mailing
446 E. 29th Street
Loveland, CO 80538-9998

Navigating Life’s Uncertainties

Daily writing prompt
Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

I spend more time thinking about the future, contemplating the myriad possibilities that lie ahead. As a senior, I am acutely aware that my time on earth could be soon or extend for another twenty years or more. Each day I find myself reflecting on the legacy I wish to leave behind, the relationships I want to nurture, and the dreams I still wish to fulfill. The uncertainty of life fuels my motivation to make each moment count and encourages me to embrace both the challenges and joys that come my way, as I navigate this stage of my life with hope and resilience.

I often find myself contemplating the profound question, “how will my time on earth end?” Will I be peacefully walking along one day, only to have an unforeseen mishap occur, leading to a sudden fall or perhaps my untimely death? Or will the end come in the form of a serious accident, shrouded in chaos and uncertainty? Alternatively, could it be that I will find my life eclipsed by the shadow of a relentless illness, one that forces me to endure countless years enveloped in pain and suffering? These thoughts swirl in my mind, weaving a tapestry of fear and curiosity about what lies beyond this mortal existence, leaving me to ponder the meaning of life and the inevitability of its conclusion.

I have been pretty healthy throughout my life, and I’ve always taken my well-being seriously, engaging in regular exercise and maintaining a balanced diet. The most serious health event was almost three years ago when I had a near-death experience due to a gigantic blood clot that formed between my lungs, quite unexpectedly. I remember how terrifying it was to realize that my life was hanging in the balance. Fortunately, I was one of the lucky 3 to 5 percent who survived this kind of event, which has left me with a profound appreciation for life and the fragility of health. This experience not only changed my perspective but also motivated me to advocate for awareness about blood clots and to share my story with others, emphasizing the importance of paying attention to our bodies and the signs they give us. Never massage a cramp in the leg. It may be a blood clot, and the massage may break the clot loose and migrate to the lung and heart to become a life-threatening serious event.

I often think about important events and memories in my life, getting lost in a mix of happy moments and achievements. It’s interesting how certain experiences bring back strong feelings, reminding me of places and people that have shaped me. From joyful childhood times to key career milestones, each memory is like a thread in my personal history. Reflecting on these moments gives me nostalgia and reminds me of the lessons learned and strength gained. It helps me appreciate my journey and understand my future goals better.

Navigating Daily Challenges in My Golden Years

Daily writing prompt
What are your biggest challenges?

Since I am over eighty, my biggest challenge is to stay healthy and alert, which requires me to be more mindful of my daily habits and routines. I focus on maintaining a balanced diet. Additionally, engaging my mind through reading, puzzles, and social interactions like blogging, helps me stay mentally sharp and connected to the world around me. It’s a continuous journey that demands dedication and resilience, but I believe that by prioritizing my health, I can enjoy my golden years to the fullest.

HAPPY NEW YEARS!

NO, I DIDN’T CELEBRATE LAST NIGHT. I WAS ASLEEP BEFORE 11PM !

Reflections on Life’s Moments

Daily writing prompt
What makes you feel nostalgic?

Eighty plus years make me feel nostalgic, as I reflect on the countless memories that have shaped my life and the world around me; from the laughter of cherished friends to the bittersweet moments of loss, each experience is a thread woven into the tapestry of my existence, reminding me of the passage of time and the wisdom gained through both joy and adversity.

I remember rotary phones, standard automobile transmissions, and homes being built around my home, all symbols of a much simpler time. The warmth of community was tangible as neighbors gathered to lend a helping hand. I also think about my working life, spending over forty years dedicated to my profession, which shaped not only my identity but also my understanding of hard work and perseverance. My time in the military instilled a deep sense of discipline and camaraderie that would stay with me forever. The introduction of television was a pivotal moment, transforming leisure time, and then came color TV, which brought stories and information to life in vivid hues, captivating our imaginations. I could go on and on, reminiscing about how these innovations marked milestones in our lives. It is truly amazing how technology has progressed in the last eighty years, ushering in changes that shape our daily lives in ways we could never have anticipated.

Why December 29 Feels Like a Time Out

December 29th is the official champion of boredom—a flat, forgotten pause between the sugar rush of Christmas cookies and the loud fireworks of New Year’s Eve. The decorations are hanging on by a thread, their once-vibrant hues looking more like they’ve been through a color wash cycle than a festive celebration. The leftovers are dwindling, each bite a reminder that last night’s feast was a mere memory, and everyone is too pooped to launch any exciting New Year’s plans. Emails sit neglected, like those weird relatives who just won’t leave the party, streets are emptier than a buffet line post-frenzy, echoing the tedium of the day, and even the internet seems to be taking a coffee break, bombarding us with the same old memes we’ve already scrolled past seven times. It’s a day meant for aimless scrolling, sneaky naps, and wondering why time has decided to become a sloth—every minute feels like it’s auditioning for a role in a slow-motion film. There’s a collective urge to just groan, a pause in the usual chaos, where life’s hustle and bustle takes a backseat to a frivolous stillness. Absolutely, hilariously dull, this day stands in stark contrast to the upcoming festivities, serving as an invitation for some quiet reflection and an exaggerated appreciation for the impending whirlwind of New Year celebrations.

Maybe it’s the weather.

Happy Birthday Dad!

Today, December 26th, is my dad’s birthday, a day that holds both joyful and bittersweet memories for our family. Born in 1907, he witnessed a rapidly changing world until he moved on in 1985. Celebrating his birthday the day after Christmas often meant that his special day was intertwined with the holiday festivities; he would receive a combination present of birthday and Christmas gifts, which sometimes felt like a double-edged sword. I wonder if that arrangement bothered him on some level, yet he brought it up often, sharing stories of how he tried to carve out his identity amidst the holiday cheer. Despite the potential overshadowing of his birthday by Christmas celebrations, he always managed to find joy in the season, ensuring that those around him felt the warmth and happiness that came with the holidays. His unique birthday has left a lasting impression on me, reminding me each year of the importance of celebrating not only special occasions but the individuality that each person brings to those moments.

Happy Birthday Dad, thank you for everything you did for me and I love you!

Embracing Life

Daily writing prompt
Who are the biggest influences in your life?

The biggest influence in my life is the confidence that there is time after life on this planet; this belief gives me a sense of peace and purpose, encouraging me to embrace each moment fully and to pursue my dreams without hesitation. It reassures me that the journey is as significant as the destination, allowing me to appreciate the beauty of human connections and the lessons learned along the way. Knowing that life continues in some form after our time here inspires me to live authentically and compassionately, fostering deep relationships and creating a legacy that I hope will resonate beyond my earthly existence.

1942: A Year of Change and Family Legacy

Daily writing prompt
Share what you know about the year you were born.

On December 7, 1941, I was in my mother’s womb, slowly growing to be born the following March of 1942, amidst a world that was rapidly changing. Everything I know is what I was told, stories passed down from my parents and relatives who lived through those tumultuous times. It was the early stages of World War II, a conflict that would reshape the world and alter the lives of millions. Homeowners had victory gardens to help combat the nationwide shortage of food, as every family did their part to support the war effort. Gas stamps were issued, and gasoline was rationed, creating a sense of scarcity that permeated daily life. The day I was born, there was double daylight saving time, a unique occurrence that my parents often reminisced about. They told me if the time had been normal, I would have been born just the day before, which adds a peculiar twist to my birth story. My dad was in some kind of reserve militia, a precautionary measure in case things took a turn for the worse. He was not drafted, as he worked at Gates Rubber Company in a position deemed critical for the war effort, producing materials essential for military vehicles. I can’t remember my age when I started to recall specific events in my life, but when those memories began to emerge, I felt an undeniable connection to the history that surrounded me, a history that was not only my family’s but one that was intertwined with the very fabric of a nation in turmoil.

Thomas Edison’s Christmas Lights

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In the tapestry of holiday traditions, few moments shine as brightly as when Thomas Edison, the wizard of Menlo Park, illuminated the first string of electric Christmas tree lights on December 22, 1882. This wasn’t just a festive experiment; it was a moment that would redefine holiday celebrations for generations to come.

Back in 1882, Christmas decorations were predominantly made of candles, which, while beautiful, posed a significant fire hazard. Imagine the scene: the glow of candles on evergreen branches, a sight both enchanting and dangerous. Enter Thomas Edison, who had already made headlines with his incandescent light bulb. Edison’s associate, Edward H. Johnson, took the idea a step further. On December 22, 1882, Johnson, an inventor in his own right and Edison’s partner, adorned his Christmas tree in his New York City home with 80 hand-wired red, white, and blue electric bulbs. This wasn’t just for show; it was a demonstration of what electric lights could do for safety and aesthetics in holiday decor.

The spectacle was reported in the Detroit Post and Tribune, describing how “one can hardly imagine anything prettier.” This wasn’t just a novelty; it marked the beginning of a new era for Christmas decor. Edison’s electric lights were safer than candles, reusable, and didn’t require the constant attention to prevent fires. However, the technology was initially too expensive for the average household. A string of lights could cost as much as a month’s salary for many workers.

But as with many of Edison’s inventions, the price came down over time, and the idea caught on. By the early 20th century, electric Christmas lights had become more accessible, thanks to innovations in manufacturing and a growing electrical infrastructure. Companies like General Electric started producing pre-wired sets, making it easier for families to illuminate their celebrations.

This invention did more than just light up trees; it influenced how we celebrate and remember Christmas. The warm glow of electric lights became synonymous with the holiday spirit, symbolizing joy, warmth, and togetherness. It transformed the Christmas tree from a fire hazard into a centerpiece of safety and celebration. Over the years, the tradition evolved with colored lights, blinking patterns, and eventually, LED technology, which brought energy efficiency into the mix.

Today, when we string up our lights, whether they’re classic incandescent, energy-saving LEDs, or even smart lights that dance to music, we’re participating in a tradition that began with Edison and Johnson’s pioneering demonstration. It’s a reminder of how innovation can create enduring cultural practices. Each twinkle of a light on a Christmas tree is a nod to human ingenuity, turning a simple act of decoration into a celebration of progress and festivity.

In conclusion, Thomas Edison’s contribution to Christmas traditions in 1882 goes beyond mere decoration; it was a beacon of innovation that has continued to evolve. As we plug in our lights each year, we’re not just decorating for the holidays; we’re partaking in a legacy of light, safety, and joy that began with a single, bright idea over a century ago. This year, as you look at your twinkling tree, remember the spark of genius that made it all possible.

Flying W Ranch at Colorado Springs

Daily writing prompt
What was the last thing you did for play or fun?

The last thing we did for fun was going to the Flying W Ranch in Colorado Springs, a family-friendly destination that offers a unique blend of Western heritage and entertainment. We visited the ranch prior to June of 2012 and thoroughly enjoyed our time there, indulging in the wonderful atmosphere that showcased the spirit of the Wild West. Unfortunately, in June 2012, a devastating wildfire consumed the entire location, leaving many heartbroken over the loss of such a cherished place. However, the resilience of the owners and their team has led to its remarkable rebuilding, and it has since reopened its doors to the public. The ranch is just as nice, if not more so, as it was before the fire, boasting improved facilities and even more engaging shows that delight visitors of all ages. If you ever have the opportunity to visit Colorado Springs, make sure to put the Flying W Ranch on your list of things to do, as it promises an unforgettable experience filled with laughter, music, and the beauty of the Colorado landscape.

The Flying W Ranch in Colorado Springs website link

My Father’s Influence: Shaping Who I Am

Daily writing prompt
Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

My father was a significant influence in my life. He supported me from my birth through my journey into adulthood and beyond, encouraging me to chase my dreams. He taught me the importance of hard work, integrity, and kindness, shaping who I am today. His faith in my abilities gave me the confidence to tackle challenges and aim for success, knowing I had a reliable foundation. His presence offered comfort and instilled a deep appreciation for family that I still hold dear.

He took me fishing on bright summer mornings, enjoyable trips to the mountains where we would hike and explore nature, and exciting ball games that fostered a love for sports. He patiently taught me how to drive and repair cars, sharing stories and skills that connected us. He was always there, a steadfast presence in my life, guiding me through both challenges and triumphs. Dad loved my mother, and his affection extended to Grandma, my mother’s mother, who lived with us until I was fifteen. This arrangement was not just about family; it was a lesson in love, respect, and the importance of multi-generational bonds. Living with Grandma enriched our household, providing wisdom and warmth, which helped shape the family dynamics and instilled values that I would carry with me throughout my life.

Sure, he wasn’t perfect. There were rare moments where his underlying temper came out of hiding and showed its ugly face, often catching those around him off guard, leaving them unsure of how to react. He was not one of the best people persons; social interactions often felt like walking on eggshells, as he struggled to read the emotions of others and respond appropriately. I was told that he was a mid-life baby, born ten years after his brother and sister, which seemed to set him apart from the very beginning. Growing up on a farm, many years without siblings to share in the joys and challenges of childhood, I speculate that this isolation is one of the primary reasons he didn’t learn people skills. Instead of developing bonds and understanding the nuances of friendships and relationships, he became accustomed to solitude, finding comfort in the routine of farm life rather than the chaos of family dynamics, which ultimately shaped his worldview and interactions with others.

My dad has greatly influenced who I am today, and I loved him for his constant support and guidance. His teachings have shaped my values, and I treasure the memories we created together. Whether through laughter or hard lessons, he has always been my anchor, offering wisdom and encouragement that helped me move forward.

Reflecting on a Year

Daily writing prompt
Is your life today what you pictured a year ago?

I would say life is close to what I anticipated, with its ups and downs adding both color and depth to the experience. I have been retired close to twenty years, a milestone that has offered me a unique perspective on the world around me. I haven’t won the lottery, which I once dreamed of, but I have survived a near-death experience a few years ago that reshaped my outlook on life. My health has been relatively the same as a year ago; I’ve made it a priority to stay active and engaged, finding joy in simple pleasures and meaningful connections. I am just living out my bonus years for the last 2 1/2 years, cherishing each day as a gift. How long will my bonus years be, who knows? Perhaps I will find new adventures waiting around the corner, as I continue to embrace the unpredictability of life and savor each moment as it comes.

Financial Tools and Technologies

Daily writing prompt
What skills or lessons have you learned recently?

First, I learned and used the Zelle app, which turned out to be an incredibly convenient financial tool. One day, I found myself needing to give a relative some cash for an expected expense. Rather than going through the hassle of locating an ATM, waiting in line, and withdrawing cash—which often feels like a chore—I had a lightbulb moment. It occurred to me that I could simply use Zelle to transfer money directly from my bank account to theirs with just a few taps on my laptop. This not only saved me time but also made the entire process so much easier and more efficient. The thought of bypassing physical cash transactions and embracing digital solutions felt like a significant step forward in managing my finances.

However, I do not put banking information apps on my smart phone. An acquaintance somehow lost or had her smartphone stolen and it had no pin number assigned to it, and she had banking apps on her phone. Here account was drained and she could not recoup it. An expensive lesson to learn.

I also learned from a former naval officer that mine sweepers are built from wood. Apparently, they use some electromagnetic energy to sweep the mines, which is fascinating because it highlights the specialized technology employed by the navy. Furthermore, metal vessels cannot be used due to a significant kind of interference; the presence of metal could disrupt the delicate signals that these wooden boats rely on to effectively detect and neutralize underwater mines. This unique design choice not only ensures operational efficiency but also reflects a long-standing tradition in naval engineering, where functionality and adaptability are paramount.

Finally, it goes to show that life is one continuous learning process. One of the important reasons for life is to learn as much as possible.

Is Evil Winning?

After hearing about the mass murder in Australia. The Brown University killings and the murders of Rob Reiner and wife. One wonders, is evil winning?

All you see on the news is hate, anger, and disagreements about everything. Peace-loving people must be wondering, “what is happening in this world?” I know I am. Being over eighty, I have never seen so much violence and useless attacks on the innocent. It has never been this bad, and the questions linger in our minds: how did we arrive at this point of such discontent? Communities that once thrived on cooperation now seem divided by strife, and everyday interactions are tainted by fear and suspicion. It’s a troubling environment that breeds hopelessness, leaving many to ask themselves if there’s a path toward healing. What is it going to take to turn this around? Perhaps it starts with each individual choosing kindness over hostility, fostering empathy, and making a conscious effort to unite rather than divide.

IS EVIL WINNING ?

Life Lessons from a Squirrel

I stepped onto the patio, expecting the usual tranquility, and instead found a tiny, fluffy tyrant in my favorite chair. It was a squirrel, gripping a nut between its paws like a tiny, furry overlord inspecting its spoils. Its bushy tail flicked with an air of arrogance, as if it knew it ruled this domain. The sun shone brightly, casting playful shadows around, but all I could do was watch this audacious creature claim its throne. The little tyrant seemed oblivious to my presence, chattering softly as it gnawed on the nut, pausing only to assess the surroundings, making sure no rival dared to challenge its rule over my beloved chair. The unexpected scene brought a smile to my face, reminding me that even in moments of solitude, life’s surprises could bring a sense of joy and laughter.

I paused. The squirrel stopped chewing.

“Excuse me,” I finally said, doing my best impression of a polite but firm landlord. “That’s my spot.”

The squirrel didn’t flinch. It just gave me a slow, almost judgmental blink, then resumed its crunching with an air of nonchalance that was both amusing and slightly infuriating. The look on its face was one of pure, entitled defiance, as if to communicate that it considered itself the rightful owner of this patch of earth. It was a face that said, “I have worked my tail off burying treasures all over your lawn, carefully stashing away nuggets of nourishment for future feasts. I deserve this ergonomic cushion and this premium acorn, the fruits of my industrious labor on your property.” With each bite, it seemed to relish not only the acorn but also the power it held over my fleeting human annoyance, basking in its small triumph over the mundane elements of suburban life.

“Listen, buddy,” I muttered, taking a hesitant step forward. “I pay the mortgage here. This furniture is not communal.”

The squirrel abruptly raised the nut like it was a ceremonial goblet, ready to deliver a rousing toast to its woodland pals, then tossed the half-eaten shell onto the spotless deck tiles with the flair of a drama queen. It took a moment to stretch, fluffing its bushy tail like a luxurious feather boa, and let out a cheeky little tch-tch-tch—which, if you ask me, clearly means, “Scram, peasant! Return only when you’ve got gourmet treats.”

Realizing I had just been bested in a staring contest and a territorial dispute by a furry little ninja with a bushy tail, I let out a dramatic sigh, retreated indoors, and peeked through the sliding glass door as the squirrel polished off its snack like a culinary critic, groomed its whiskers with all the flair of a runway model, and then pranced away—leaving me to reconsider my life choices and the necessity of purchasing a less popular chair, perhaps one that doesn’t double as a battleground.

The Gift of Speaking: Transforming Ideas into Words

Daily writing prompt
What is something others do that sparks your admiration?

The thing that sparks my admiration is speaking ability — that rare gift of turning thoughts into words that not only inform but inspire. It’s more than just fluency or vocabulary; it’s the power to shape silence into meaning, to command attention without demanding it. A skilled speaker can weave stories that linger, arguments that persuade, and truths that resonate long after the sound has faded.

I admire how speaking ability bridges worlds: it connects the speaker’s inner vision with the listener’s imagination. It transforms ideas into shared experiences, carrying emotions across the invisible space between people. Whether it’s the calm authority of a leader, the lyrical cadence of a poet, or the heartfelt honesty of a friend, speaking ability is a spark that ignites admiration because it reveals not just what someone knows, but who they are.

I suppose this admiration stems from my less-than-stellar speaking skills. My voice has all the charisma of a wet noodle, making me feel like I don’t exactly belong at the podium. Gifted with a voice that lacks resonance and clarity, I was hoping to captivate my audience with my charm—spoiler alert: it didn’t work. I’ve got hundreds of podcasts on my website, each brimming with topics I’m passionate about, and I originally used my own voice for them, aiming for that personal touch. But after a few episodes, I realized my natural talent leaned more towards monotone ennui than engaging storytelling. So, I made the executive decision to switch to an AI voice, saving my listeners from potential yawns and letting me dive into content creation without a battle against my delivery. With the AI voice, I discovered a level of professional quality and enthusiasm that made my podcasts feel like a joyride rather than a snooze fest, all while my own voice still hitches a ride on the struggle bus!

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Tale of Love and Legacy After Death

Audio Podcast 10 minutes

When Tom closed his eyes for the last time, he expected silence. Instead, he awoke to the sound of ticking—soft, steady, like the heartbeat of the universe resonating around him. As he slowly opened his eyes, he found himself standing in a vast hall that seemed to stretch indefinitely, filled with clocks of every imaginable shape and size. Some were grand pendulum clocks, their weights swinging gracefully with a sound reminiscent of ancient rhythms; others were delicate pocket watches, intricately designed, their tiny mechanisms whirring with a dance of precision. Still others were strange contraptions, with gears and levers that seemed to pulse in sync with the emotions of those who passed by, measuring not just seconds but the fleeting nature of emotions, the weight of memories, and the ethereal quality of dreams. Each clock held a story within, a testament to the lives they had touched, whispering secrets of time lost and found, weaving a tapestry of existence that Tom couldn’t help but reach out to touch, mesmerized by the enormity of this timeless gathering.

A figure approached, cloaked in shimmering light that danced and flickered like stars captured in a gentle breeze. “Welcome,” the figure said, voice warm as sunrise, filling the air with a sense of hope and promise. “You’ve arrived at the Workshop of Time, a sanctuary where moments are crafted and destinies are shaped. Here, every tick of the clock holds a secret, and every whisper of the wind carries echoes of the past. Step inside and let the magic unfold.”

Tom blinked. “Am I… dead?”

The figure smiled. “You are beyond death. Here, time is not something that slips away—it is something you can hold, shape, and share.”

Tom wandered among the clocks, each meticulously crafted timepiece echoing with the cadence of his life. Each one ticked with a rhythm that felt familiar, a heartbeat of nostalgia pulsing through the air. He touched a small brass watch and gasped—it showed the moment he first held his daughter, her tiny fingers curling around his thumb, a connection that made time stand still. Another clock displayed the laughter of his wife on their wedding day, frozen in golden light, their joyful smiles captured forever as if the very essence of love had been encased within the delicate gears. Every tick resonated with emotion, and every clock was a memory, preserved and alive, serving as a portal to moments long past but never forgotten, each one a chapter in the story of his life that played back in vivid detail, rich with sentiment and longing.

“Why am I here?” Tom asked.

The figure gestured to the hall, his expression a mix of serenity and wisdom. “Because you lived with love,” he continued, his voice resonating within the vast, ethereal space. “Time after death is not punishment or reward—it is continuation, a beautiful thread in the tapestry of existence. In this realm, you are given the priceless gift of your moments, each one a precious bead that can be woven into eternity. Every laugh shared, every tear shed, and every gesture of kindness sparkles here, creating a luminous mosaic that transcends the boundaries of life as you knew it. Your experiences do not vanish; they transform into something greater, enriching the very fabric of the universe.”

Tom felt a surge of joy as he stood at the threshold of this extraordinary realm. He had always feared death as an ending, but here, it revealed itself as a vast library of beginnings, filled with countless tales waiting to be discovered. With each step he took, he explored deeper into the ethereal space, finding clocks that belonged not only to him but to others who had touched his life. He marveled at the intricacies of the mechanisms, each tick echoing memories long cherished. He saw his mother’s gentle lullabies, which once wrapped him in comfort during stormy nights, his father’s quiet pride reflected in his watchful gaze, and his friends’ shared adventures that burst forth like vibrant fireworks of laughter and love. Each clock was a portal to its own story, intricately connected, with threads of time weaving into a beautiful tapestry of lives intertwined. The realization washed over him—these moments were not lost but rather preserved, eternally vibrant, resonating with every heartbeat in this enchanting library of existence.

He noticed one clock that had stopped, a relic of time now rendered still. Its hands were frozen at the moment his daughter cried at his funeral, capturing that profound sense of loss in a single, poignant moment. Tom touched it gently, and suddenly he was there—not as a ghost, but as a presence of comfort that transcended the boundaries of life and death. His daughter felt an inexplicable warmth in her heart, a soothing embrace that whispered to her, reassuring her that her father’s love had not vanished into the void, but lingered around her like a gentle breeze. The clock ticked again, bringing with it the rhythm of hope and memories that were not lost; Tom realized he could still give time to those he loved, guiding their hearts as they navigated the turbulent waters of grief, reminding them that even in his absence, his spirit would always be watching over them, encouraging them to cherish every moment and connection.

The figure explained, “Here, you may send moments back. A whisper of courage, a spark of joy, a reminder of love. Time after death is not about watching—it is about giving.”

Tom spent what felt like days—or perhaps centuries—learning to guide the clocks, mastering the delicate art of intertwining time with emotion. He sent his wife a dream of their wedding dance, filling the night with nostalgia and love, so she awoke smiling, the memory of their happiest moments woven into her thoughts. He gave his grandson a sudden burst of confidence before a school recital, ensuring that the young boy could shine brightly under the stage lights, his heart brimming with courage and joy. He even offered strangers small gifts: a sense of peace in grief during their darkest moments, a laugh in loneliness that sparked connection where despair lingered. Each act made the clocks glow brighter, illuminating not just the passage of time but the shared threads of humanity that bind us all together, reminding Tom of the profound magic he held in his hands.

But Tom also discovered something unexpected. There were clocks yet unwound—moments that had not happened, glimmers of possibilities hanging delicately in the air. He touched one and, to his amazement, saw his daughter years from now, vibrant and joyful, holding her own child, a precious bundle of laughter and innocence in her arms. Her eyes sparkled with love as she shared stories, just as he had once done with her. Another clock showed his grandson as an old man, wise and content, recounting tales by a fire, his voice warm and rich, surrounded by family who hung on every word. In this surreal space, time after death unfolded like a tapestry, revealing not only fragments of the past but also a profound window into the future, where love, legacy, and the beauty of life intertwined seamlessly, reminding him that though he might be gone, the essence of his existence would continue to resonate through the lives he cherished.

“Can I change these moments?” Tom asked.

The figure shook their head gently, their eyes reflecting a deep wisdom that seemed to transcend time. “The future belongs to the living, filled with untapped potential and the promise of change. But you can bless it, just as a gardener plants seeds in fertile soil. You can lace it with hope, weaving the threads of your aspirations and dreams into the very fabric of what is yet to come, creating a vibrant tapestry that inspires those who follow in your footsteps.”

So Tom did. He infused his daughter’s future with courage, helping her to face life’s challenges head-on, while he imbued his grandson’s journey with kindness, teaching him the importance of empathy and understanding towards others. In his mind, he envisioned a world beyond their own, filled with compassion, where people reached out to one another in times of need, fostering a deep sense of community. He realized that every soul in the Workshop was doing the same, weaving threads of love and hope into the fabric of time, each individual adding their unique touch to the grand tapestry of existence. That was why humanity, despite its struggles and trials, always found ways to heal and grow—because unseen hands were guiding them, orchestrating a beautiful symphony of resilience that echoed through generations, connecting them all in a profound and meaningful way.

Eventually, Tom asked, “Will I ever leave this place?”

The figure’s eyes sparkled with a light that seemed to hold the wisdom of ages. “When you are ready, I will explain the truths that lie beyond the veil of mortality. Time after death is not a prison; rather, it is a magnificent gift, a chance for the soul to reflect and grow. Some souls choose to stay and weave forever, binding their essence to the tapestry of existence, creating intricate patterns of memories and lessons learned. Others, however, are drawn to move on to realms beyond even time itself, exploring dimensions that the living cannot fathom. The choice is yours, a profound decision that opens the door to infinite possibilities.”

Tom looked around the hall, at the endless clocks glowing with memory and possibility. He felt no fear, no sorrow. Only gratitude. Death had not taken him from life—it had given him a new way to live.

He sat beside a clock that held his favorite moment: his family gathered around a table, laughter spilling like music, vibrant and full of life. The memory felt as though it was alive, resonating with warmth and togetherness that wrapped around him like a cozy blanket. He wound it gently, sending that joy outward into the world, where it danced on the air like a whisper of happiness. Somewhere, a lonely stranger smiled without knowing why, as if touched by the intangible essence of that cherished time. Somewhere, a child laughed at nothing at all, finding joy in the simplest of things—a leaf, a shadow, or a wayward breeze. Tom closed his eyes, listening to the rhythmic ticking, feeling each pulse echo within him, and he sensed eternity open like a glorious sunrise, illuminating the depths of his heart and reminding him that moments of love and laughter are timeless treasures that transcend the limitations of time itself.

The Cartoons That Shape Our Lives

Daily writing prompt
What’s your favorite cartoon?

My favorite cartoon is life. Even though there are many trying and heart-breaking moments that challenge us and test our resilience, there are far more times that have made life a cartoon book full of great memories, vibrant colors, and hilarious antics. These moments, filled with laughter and joy, remind us that despite the struggles, every experience contributes to our unique story. The rollercoaster of emotions we navigate shapes our character, and like a well-crafted cartoon, life brings a perfect blend of comedy, adventure, and heartfelt connections that we cherish deeply.

Focus on Positive Activities Instead of Negativity

Daily writing prompt
What could you do less of?

I could spend less time watching and reading current news, as it often fills me with a sense of despair. It is so depressing and disappointing learning about all the hate and anger around the world; the constant barrage of negative headlines can be overwhelming and suffocating. Instead of immersing myself in this toxic cycle,

I’m just one voting person in a world that feels like a chaotic circus on a rollercoaster, leaving me feeling like I’m stuck in the front row with popcorn but no clue how to enjoy the show. Maybe it’s time to tune out the loud clowns and focus on the dazzling magic tricks in my own life that sprinkle some joy and fulfillment. By cultivating gratitude for the tiny triumphs, like finally conquering that stubborn jar of pickles or finding a good parking spot, I can redirect my energy to appreciating the delightful things—whether it’s goofing around with loved ones, diving into hobbies that spark my passion like a caffeinated squirrel, or simply soaking in the wild beauty of nature, like the fascinating dance of squirrels stealing my snacks. These moments remind me that even when the world looks like a giant game of whack-a-mole, there’s still plenty of glitter to be found in the everyday adventures that make my life an entertaining ride!

The Day That Changed America

December 7, 1941 was the day of the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor, a surprise strike that killed over 2,400 Americans and propelled the United States into World War II. It is remembered as “a date which will live in infamy,” marking a turning point in global history.

December 7, 1941 remains etched in American memory not only as a devastating military defeat but also as the moment the nation united against a global threat that would require the collective effort of its citizens. The attack, which came without warning, claimed the lives of thousands and left a deep scar on the American psyche, leading to an outpouring of patriotism and resolve. This pivotal event transformed the U.S. into a central force in World War II, catalyzing a military buildup and a surge of enlistment that would see millions of Americans take up arms. The impact of this day reshaped the course of the 20th century, not only solidifying the United States’ role on the world stage but also serving as a catalyst for significant social changes, including shifts in gender roles as women entered the workforce in unprecedented numbers in support of the war effort. The legacy of December 7th is thus not only a somber reminder of loss but also a testament to resilience and unity in the face of adversity.

The Attack on Pearl Harbor

  • Date & Location: Sunday morning, December 7, 1941, at Pearl Harbor, Hawaii.
  • Attackers: The Imperial Japanese Navy launched 353 aircraft from six carriers in two waves.
  • Targets: U.S. battleships, cruisers, destroyers, and airfields.
  • Damage:
    • 8 battleships were damaged, with the USS Arizona and USS Oklahoma destroyed.
    • Nearly 20 naval vessels were sunk or heavily damaged.
    • Over 300 aircraft were destroyed or disabled.
  • Casualties: More than 2,400 Americans killed and about 1,000 wounded.

Immediate Consequences

  • President Franklin D. Roosevelt addressed Congress the next day, calling December 7 “a date which will live in infamy.”
  • The U.S. declared war on Japan on December 8, 1941, officially entering World War II.
  • Germany and Italy soon declared war on the U.S., expanding the conflict into a truly global war.

Historical Significance

  • Turning Point: The attack ended American isolationism and mobilized the nation for total war.
  • Symbol of Sacrifice: The wreck of the USS Arizona remains a memorial site, honoring those who died.
  • Legacy: Pearl Harbor is remembered annually, with ceremonies across the U.S. to honor the fallen.

We can never forget Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941

Why I Love the Isle of Capri

Daily writing prompt
Do you have a favorite place you have visited? Where is it?

I have been to my favorite place twice, and each visit has deepened my connection to it. My favorite place is the enchanting Isle of Capri, Italy, with its breathtaking views, crystal-clear waters, and vibrant flowers that seem to bloom with a passion of their own. I don’t know what specifically attracts me to this place; perhaps it’s the rich history, the charming streets, or the aroma of fresh lemon as it wafts through the air. I just feel attached to it somehow, as if it beckons me with an invisible thread that ties my soul to its shores. Maybe in a previous life, my time on earth evolved around this area, where I explored its hidden coves and savored the delicious local cuisine, forming memories that linger still. No one knows for sure, but whenever I am there, I feel an inexplicable sense of belonging that makes me yearn to return time and again.





How Lanterns Bring Community Together

On December 4th, the town of Lamar woke to a strange sight: lanterns hanging from every tree, fence, and lamppost, transforming the quiet streets into a whimsical wonderland. No one knew who had placed them there, and the air buzzed with excitement and curiosity as neighbors stepped outside to take in the surreal scene. They weren’t ordinary lanterns either; each one glowed with a soft golden light, as if the sun itself had been captured inside, casting a warm and inviting glow that chased away the early morning chill. Young children giggled and pointed, while older residents shared theories about the mysterious decorator, invoking stories of holiday magic and community spirit. The entire town felt more alive, united in this unexpected celebration of light amid the brisk December air, creating an enchanting atmosphere that encouraged everyone to take a moment to appreciate the beauty surrounding them.

Children ran through the streets pointing them out, their laughter ringing in the air like sweet music, and elders paused in their errands to marvel at the enchanting scene unfolding before them. The lanterns didn’t flicker or fade, even as the day wore on, their steady glow casting a magical light that seemed to dance across the cobblestones. By evening, as the sun dipped below the horizon, the whole town gathered in the square, bathed in their warm glow, exchanging stories and laughter, creating bonds that felt as timeless as the lanterns themselves, illuminating not just the night but the very essence of community.

That’s when the mayor noticed something remarkable: each lantern bore a name. Not famous names, not saints or heroes, but the names of ordinary townsfolk, the baker, known for his warm bread that filled the air with delightful aromas each morning; the schoolteacher, who dedicated her life to nurturing young minds and fostering a love for learning; the quiet man who swept the sidewalks, tirelessly keeping the town clean and inviting with a gentle smile. Every person found their name shining on a lantern, illuminating the essence of the community, reminding all who passed by of the heart and soul that resided within their small town, where each individual played an important role in the tapestry of their shared lives.

The mystery deepened, but so did the joy as it interwove into the fabric of their lives. People began to see themselves differently, uncovering layers of potential they never knew existed. The baker realized his bread had been feeding more than stomachs it had been feeding hope, fueling dreams that spread like wildfire in the hearts of the community. The schoolteacher saw that her lessons had planted seeds that grew into courage, blossoming into unyielding determination that inspired her students to reach for the stars. Even the quiet man, often overlooked, discovered that his small kindnesses had lit paths for others, illuminating the darkness for those who felt lost and alone, and empowering them to forge their own journeys toward a brighter future.

No one ever discovered who hung the lanterns. Some said it was magic, others whispered it was the work of angels. But the truth didn’t matter. What mattered was the reminder: every life, no matter how ordinary, carries light.

From that day forward, December 4th became Lamar’s “Lantern Day,” a deeply cherished annual tradition that brought the community together in a heartfelt celebration of gratitude and acknowledgment. Each year, the townsfolk hung lanterns for one another, thoughtfully choosing names and stories that shed light on the quiet contributions often overlooked. The streets came alive with laughter and the warm, flickering glow of countless lanterns, each carrying its own special tale of kindness and support. As they gathered in the square, sharing memories and heartfelt messages, the atmosphere transformed into a beautiful tapestry of vibrant colors and shared joy. And with each passing year, the square shone even brighter, not only from the brilliance of the lanterns themselves but from the profound realization that, in their own unique ways, everyone is a bearer of light, contributing to the warmth and spirit of their beloved community.

Life Lessons from Age

Daily writing prompt
What is one thing you would change about yourself?

I am at the age where I do not have that much time on this earth left. I am over eighty, and with each passing day, I feel the weight of my years more acutely. Life, with all its joys and sorrows, has molded me into the person I am today, and I often reflect on the countless memories I hold dear. Who knows when the grim reaper knocks on my door for the final time? This uncertainty brings a mix of acceptance and urgency, prompting me to savor each moment, cherish my relationships, and impart the wisdom I have gained over the years. It is a delicate dance between gratitude for the life I have lived and the poignant awareness that time waits for no one.

I have noticed though that as I aged, I have become friendlier and carrying on conversations more than my younger years, embracing this newfound openness with enthusiasm. I find myself engaging in dialogues with friends and strangers alike, discovering that each interaction holds the potential for a meaningful connection. This change has not only enriched my life but also deepened my understanding of others’ perspectives and experiences. I would say that has been a good change and don’t regret it, as it has fostered a sense of community and belonging that was less pronounced in my earlier days.

I strongly feel that one of the main purposes of this time on earth is to learn as much as possible. Every time I experience an event in my life. I recap this event with, “what did I learn from this experience?”

Night Owl vs. Early Bird

Daily writing prompt
Are you more of a night or morning person?

I would say I have been a morning person more of my life than an evening person. Most of my lifestyle was in the morning or daytime, which I found to be the most vibrant and productive hours of the day. During my growing up years, I always woke up early, relishing the quiet and fresh air that seemed to invigorate me. I remember the sun just beginning to rise, casting a warm glow across the neighborhood, urging me to seize the day. Many times, I would eagerly head over to the houses of the neighborhood kids to play, only to discover that they were still in bed, wrapped up in their blankets and lost in dreams. This routine not only sparked my adventurous spirit but also taught me the joy of being active while others were still waking up, creating a sense of accomplishment before breakfast even rolled around.

In the tail end of my working years, I was on the graveyard shift of work, a grueling schedule that turned my life upside down. This was the worst 4 years of my life, a period marked by relentless exhaustion and social isolation. My biological clock never adjusted to this unnatural rhythm, leaving me feeling like a ghost haunting the night while the world around me functioned normally. Who really wanted to endure such grave hours when the rest of society was enjoying their evenings and weekends? It felt as if I was living in a parallel universe where time moved differently. I was perpetually tired all the time, struggling to find moments of rest during the day, and each morning felt like a Herculean effort just to emerge from the fog of sleep. On my days off, while others reveled in leisure, I found myself trapped in a cycle of fatigue, unable to fully enjoy the fleeting hours of sunshine and connection.

The Natural Cycle of Meat Eating

Daily writing prompt
What are your feelings about eating meat?

I have been eating meat all my life. Therefore, I do not feel guilty about eating meat or any other kind of feeling about the subject. Thousands of living species eat other species to obtain nourishment to survive on this planet, and this natural behavior highlights the inherent cycle of life. It is just a part of life on this planet, where each organism plays a significant role in the ecosystem. In fact, the food web is intricately designed, demonstrating how predators, prey, and plants coexist in a delicate balance. By participating in this cycle, I am simply embracing the reality of nature’s design, where various forms of life sustain each other in a continuous flow of energy and nutrients that allows the planet to thrive.

Evolution of Black Friday

Black Friday began as a term for financial crisis in 1869 but evolved into the post‑Thanksgiving shopping frenzy we know today.

The first recorded use of “Black Friday” referred not to shopping, but to the U.S. gold market crash on September 24, 1869, when financiers Jay Gould and Jim Fisk attempted to corner the gold market, causing economic chaos.

Decades later, in the 1950s and 1960s, police in Philadelphia used “Black Friday” to describe the chaotic crowds and traffic that flooded the city the day after Thanksgiving, as shoppers and tourists arrived for the Army–Navy football game.

Retailers disliked the negative connotation, and some tried to rebrand it as “Big Friday.” However, the name stuck.

By the 1980s, marketers reshaped the meaning: “Black Friday” came to symbolize the point when stores moved from operating “in the red” (losses) to “in the black” (profits) thanks to holiday shopping.

This shift transformed the day into a national shopping tradition, with retailers offering steep discounts to kick off the holiday season.

While originally American, Black Friday has spread worldwide. Countries like now observe it, often adapting the concept to local culture.

In Mexico, for example, a similar event called “El Buen Fin” (“The Good Weekend”) takes place.

The rise of online shopping brought new traditions: Cyber Monday (launched in 2005) and Small Business Saturday.

Today, Black Friday is less about one day of discounts and more about extended sales events, often starting weeks before Thanksgiving.

 In conclusion, Black Friday’s journey runs from a 19th‑century financial disaster to Philadelphia’s traffic nightmare, to a global shopping phenomenon that now blends in‑store chaos with digital deals.

Thanksgiving Day

Thanksgiving is more than turkey and pie—it’s a day rooted in gratitude, history, and togetherness.

Every year on the fourth Thursday of November, families across the United States gather to celebrate Thanksgiving. While many picture the famous 1621 feast between the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag tribe, historians remind us that thanksgiving observances existed long before and after that moment. Early colonists, Indigenous peoples, and even communities in Europe held harvest festivals to honor abundance and survival. Over time, these traditions evolved into the national holiday we know today.

The modern Thanksgiving was officially proclaimed by President Abraham Lincoln in 1863, during the Civil War, as a way to unite a divided nation. Since then, it has grown into a holiday that blends solemn reflection with joyful celebration.

The centerpiece of Thanksgiving is the meal: roast turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie. Yet food is only part of the story. Families often watch football, volunteer at shelters, or tune in to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, a tradition that began in 1924 with costumed employees and live animals, later evolving into the iconic balloon-filled spectacle.

At its heart, Thanksgiving is about gratitude—pausing to appreciate blessings, both big and small. It’s also a time to acknowledge the complex history behind the holiday. While the Plymouth story is often romanticized, it’s important to remember the diverse communities and traditions that shaped this day.

Today, Thanksgiving invites us to slow down, share a meal, and reflect on what truly matters: family, community, and thankfulness. Whether through laughter around the table, a quiet moment of prayer, or acts of kindness, the spirit of Thanksgiving continues to remind us that gratitude is timeless.

Navigating Thanksgiving Eve Safety First

Move over, Turkey Day. The night before Thanksgiving (infamously dubbed Drinksgiving, Blackout Wednesday, or simply “the busiest bar night of the year”) is when America truly lets loose, reveling in a unique blend of nostalgia and celebration. For anyone in their twenties or thirties who’s headed home for the holiday, Wednesday night is sacred, a ritual steeped in years of cherished memories. College friends flood back into town, high-school group chats explode with excitement, and suddenly everyone you’ve ever known is at the same sticky-floored bar you swore you’d never return to, drawn by the magnetic pull of shared histories and familiar faces. It’s a hometown reunion disguised as a bar crawl, filled with laughter that echoes off the walls, stories that rekindle old bonds, and the thrill of reliving youthful escapades. As the night unfolds, there’s an unmistakable electricity in the air, a sense of community that reminds us all why we ventured out in the first place: to reconnect, reminisce, and make new memories before diving into the family festivities of Thanksgiving Day.

While the bars overflow, grocery stores hit peak chaos (people sprinting for cranberry sauce and extra wine like it’s the apocalypse), and airports groan under the weight of the year’s heaviest travel day, the atmosphere is electric with a mix of excitement and anxiety. Friends gather in dimly lit corners of crowded pubs, swapping holiday plans and reminiscing about the good old days, all while keeping a watchful eye on the clock as they know they have to be up early for family gatherings. In the end, Thanksgiving Eve isn’t about gratitude; it’s about one glorious, slightly reckless night with the friends who knew you before you had a “real job” (right before you have to sit across from your aunt and explain, yes, you’re still single) and navigate the sometimes awkward, yet endearing family dynamics that come with the holiday season. As laughter fills the air and memories are shared over clinking glasses, there’s a sense of warmth in the chaos, making this night a cherished tradition worth every frantic moment.

No wonder the police forces are ramping up their relentless hunt for reckless drivers who have no business being behind the wheel, especially given the shocking surge in traffic accidents driven by their absurdly negligent behavior. With each year that goes by, the chaos on our roads escalates, fueled by impaired or distracted drivers who seem to disregard the safety of others. In response, law enforcement is not just cranking up their vigilance; they’re deploying harsher measures and leveraging cutting-edge technology to root out those who threaten public safety, determined to reclaim our roads and make them safer for everyone else. Therefore, do not drink and get behind that steering wheel.

So, raise a glass to Blackout Wednesday: the unofficial start of the holiday season, and the reason half the country needs three plates of stuffing just to recover.

The Beauty of a Quiet Morning

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As I sat on my front porch, the morning air crisp and the coffee steaming in my mug, I watched the world wake up, relishing the tranquility of this serene moment. The street was quiet, save for the soft chirping of sparrows flitting between the trees, their lively songs weaving a soft symphony that filled the stillness. Dew glistened on the grass, catching the first rays of sunlight like scattered diamonds, creating a shimmering carpet that invited the day to unfold. In the distance, the faint rustling of leaves hinted at the gentle breeze, carrying with it the aromatic scent of blooming flowers and freshly cut grass, making each breath a reminder of nature’s rejuvenation. I felt a sense of peace wash over me as I took a sip from my mug, savoring the warmth that matched the gentle glow of dawn, and in that moment, I understood the beauty of simply being present.

Across the road, old Mr. Roberts shuffled out in his plaid slippers, retrieving his newspaper with a habitual grunt that echoed softly in the morning air. He paused for a moment, squinting at something in his garden, his brow furrowing in curiosity. I followed his gaze and saw it—a small, scruffy fox, its russet fur damp from the night’s dew, nosing cautiously around his rosebushes, clearly searching for something to eat. The creature seemed oblivious to the world around it, its attention wholly absorbed in its task. Suddenly, it froze, locking eyes with Mr. Roberts, who had been tending to his own garden nearby, the sunlight reflecting off his watering can. The fox stood still, tense and alert, before it made a split-second decision and darted off, a streak of fire vanishing into the hedge, leaving only the faint rustle of leaves and a lingering sense of wonder in the crisp morning air.

Moments later, a delivery van rumbled by its tires humming on the asphalt as if eager to explore the winding streets of our neighborhood. The driver, a young woman with a bright pink cap that seemed to glow under the afternoon sun, hopped out with a sense of urgency, dropping a package—carefully wrapped in cheerful brown paper—at the neighbor’s door. She waved at me with a friendly gesture, her smile quick but warm, before hastily getting back into her vehicle and speeding off, disappearing around the corner. A gentle breeze stirred, carrying the enchanting scent of blooming lilacs from Mrs. Pomeranian yard next door, where her tabby cat, Whiskers, prowled the porch railing with an air of feline authority, eyeing the sparrows with lazy menace, as if plotting a playful ambush while soaking up the golden rays of sunlight pouring down.

Then, something peculiar caught my attention. At the end of the street, where the pavement met the woods, a solitary figure stood—a child, perhaps ten years old, clad in a bright red hoodie that starkly contrasted with the muted hues of twilight. Clutched tightly in their small hand was a single blue balloon, vibrant and buoyant, swaying gently in the evening breeze. The balloon appeared almost luminescent against the backdrop of the encroaching darkness, an ethereal symbol of childhood joy and innocence. They remained motionless, their gaze fixed intently down the road, as if anticipating something or someone, an unwritten story unfolding in their young mind. The air was thick with the scent of damp earth and fallen leaves, and the sounds of the evening—a distant rustle of branches, the soft chirping of crickets—seemed to fade into a hush around this moment. The balloon bobbed softly, reflecting the waning sunlight and drawing my gaze like a signal, as though it held secrets waiting to be discovered. I blinked, and in that brief moment of darkness, they were gone, as though they had slipped into the mist that clung to the trees, disappearing into the encroaching shadows. I sipped my coffee, its warmth anchoring me amidst the surreal nature of the scene, contemplating whether I had conjured the vision or if the child had indeed existed, a fleeting specter lingering at the edge of my awareness, a haunting reminder of the fragile line between reality and the ethereal whispers of a fading day.

The morning rolled on, ordinary yet alive with small mysteries, each moment a thread in the tapestry of the day, weaving together the subtle scents of dew-kissed grass and the gentle rustle of leaves as the breeze danced through the trees. The sun, cautiously peeking above the horizon, painted the sky in hues of orange and pink, inviting the world to awaken from its slumber, while birds serenaded the dawn with their cheerful melodies, hinting at the adventures that lay ahead. Each tick of the clock echoed like a heartbeat, amplifying the feeling that life was teeming with possibilities, as the coffee brewed its rich aroma in the background, inviting those willing to savor the fleeting beauty of the morning.

This is a short story from Tales of TOMT 2.0 Book Two Can be purchased at Amazon. Link

Who Is TomT2.0? Discover His Journey

Just a refresher of who is TomT2.0?

https://tomt2.com/about-tom-t2-0/

Some may ask, who is Tom T 2.0? I was 2tts and I am sure not very many know the story behind Tom T 2.0. Therefore, I will give you a brief biography.

Born and raised in Denver Colorado, a long time ago. I was in my mother’s womb when Pearl Harbor was attacked by the Japanese. I lived in the same home until after high school. Grandma, my mother’s mother lived with us and a brother. It was a small house, 864 sq ft. But it was home, and we all loved the home.

After high school I got a job with the company who was building the Titan ICBM missile for the government. There was the military draft during that time and was drafted maybe three or four years later. I then became a Viet Nam era veteran. I don’t know how this happened but the seven men I was drafted with went to Viet Nam and I was sent to Germany. I’m still proud that I served the country during that time.

After my military service I started working for a large television and electronics manufacturing company in their distribution of the products arm. I met my future wife, got married and have two sons with this relationship. Life was what every normal healthy male dream of. Unfortunately, this dream only lasts about eleven years. I became divorced and my job disappeared because the company was sold and closed thirteen distributing warehouses across the nation. Here I was mid-life, divorced and out of work.

For about five years I had many jobs, mostly temporary employment mainly because the unemployment rate was around seven percent. My parents also passed away during that time also. First, my mother with cancer and two years later my father from a heart attack. This was a tough period in my life.

Finally, I found permanent work in a high-tech environment where they used lasers to cut micro components used in the electronic industry. This was a very interesting position and I enjoyed working there. During that time, I also met my future wife and have been happily married for over thirty years now. We met after childbearing years, but she blessed me with two stepdaughters and two stepsons. I love them as much as my biological sons.

Around thirteen years later it was time to retire. That was seventeen years ago. Since my parents both passed away in their mid-seventies, I thought I would follow the legacy. I have passed this legacy by over five years, and I predict I will have many more years now since I experienced a near death experience around six months ago and survived. The doctors and lab tests all say there appears to be no long-term damage and the chances look good for many more years.

For many years I have been 2tts. After my near-death experience I feel that there is a purpose for this opportunity. Now I am Tom T 2.0. It has been close to eight months since the near-death experience, and I am still searching for the reason. Maybe this site is the opportunity I am looking for.

In conclusion, life has been good. I do not regret any part of my life, even the tough times. In the good times and the bad times, I always think, what did I learn from this experience and how will it make me be a better person?

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Meet Mr. Hypertype

Today, I decided to name my laptop. Not because it begged for a cute nickname, or because it aced a performance review. No, it was because November 21st shouted, “Go ahead, give it a name!” Who knew the calendar could be so bossy?

Meet Mr. Hypertype. He’s like a grumpy cat before coffee, shuts down faster than my phone battery amidst a crisis, and has a special talent for making me doubt my own memory—did I really hit ‘save’ or just dream I did? But hey, he’s my quirky little gremlin, and now that he’s got a name, I guess we’re officially a team!


So, if you haven’t given your gadget a name yet, now’s the time! Choose one that sparks joy, induces a dramatic sigh, or makes you facepalm. Today isn’t just about the ridiculousness of it all—it’s about bonding, even with our quirky little metal friends!

Embracing the Calm of November 20th

There’s something peculiar about November 20th. It’s not quite Thanksgiving, not yet the holiday rush. It’s the pause before the crescendo—the day that slips between the cracks of calendars and celebrations.

But maybe that’s its charm.

On this day, the trees are half-bare, like they’re undecided. The air carries a whisper of winter, but still smells faintly of fallen leaves. People start to speak in future tense: “We’ll get the turkey,” “We’ll decorate soon,” “We’ll slow down eventually.” But today? Today is still ours.

It’s a perfect day for small rebellions:

  • Write a letter to someone who wouldn’t expect it.
  • Take a walk without your phone.
  • Start a story with no ending in mind.

Because November 20th is a liminal space—a quiet spark before the storm. And sometimes, the most interesting things happen in the in-between.

Navigating Life with My Intuition

Daily writing prompt
Do you trust your instincts?

Yes, I trust my instincts. Throughout my life, I attempted to make decisions against my immediate instincts, and many times, those decisions proved to be wrong, leading to missed opportunities and unwanted outcomes. This struggle between logic and intuition created a constant inner conflict, and I often found myself overanalyzing situations rather than embracing my gut feelings.

Unfortunately, it took me many years to acknowledge and trust my instincts fully. Now, I go by my instincts instead of second-guessing them, allowing myself to navigate life’s complexities with a newfound clarity.

Although this journey toward self-trust has been enlightening, I can’t help but reflect on the fact that I am now in my senior years, and the days of making major decisions are over. Nonetheless, I have learned that even in this stage of life, embracing my instincts continues to guide me, providing a sense of peace and certainty in a world that often feels overwhelming.

Aging and Health Challenges

Yes, I am indeed slowing down. At over eighty years of age, I have been retired since 2006. My journey on WordPress began in 2009, and I ventured onto Substack in 2023. However, I have ceased my postings on the Substack platform, as the responsibility of managing two sites became more akin to a job rather than an enlightening pursuit.

I faced a life-threatening ordeal over two and a half years ago due to a Pulmonary Saddle Embolism, which involves a critical blood clot situated between the lungs. Upon further investigation, I learned that the survival rate for this condition is shockingly low, ranging from three to five percent. I am profoundly thankful to be one of the few fortunate survivors. Recently, however, I received a diagnosis of arthritic degeneration in my lower back, a condition that severely restricts my ability to engage in activities I once relished.

My primary concern lies in my motivation and endurance. Recently, I have found it increasingly challenging to inspire myself to tackle various tasks. Furthermore, when I do engage in an activity, my endurance tends to be quite limited. I recently underwent a wellness exam, during which no serious issues were identified. My blood oxygen level was above 90, with a normal pulse rate and respiration; however, they extracted six vials of blood, whereas the standard procedure typically involves only three. The purpose of the additional three vials remains unclear to me. The results returned indicated all readings were within the normal range. Currently, my health condition remains an enigma.

In conclusion, I will be reducing the frequency of my posts on WordPress. On a positive note, this may be a temporary situation, and I hope that my motivation and endurance will eventually return to their prior levels.

Living in Denver Métro Area

Daily writing prompt
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

I am happy where I am. Born and raised in Denver metro area. Been to Germany, Switzerland, Italy. Have been to most of the states including Hawaii. Ten years ago, we moved into our dream home. We are happy living in a suburb of Denver Colorado.

Building a Knife Collection

I have never found much in my life. However, a few years ago my wife and I went to a local restaurant for lunch. When I got out of the car I looked down and saw this knife laying on the pavement. I speculate someone lost it when they got in or out of their car.

When I got home and did an internet search on Ken Onion Design. The one I found that looked similar to the knife I found had a price of $132.00 and ranged from $70.00 to $300.00. I would never spend that much for a knife.

I am not much of a knife person. I never carried one for protection or self-defense. The largest knife I have ever used was a steak knife. I hated bayonet training in the army. It was so cave man.

Daily writing prompt
What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)?

This find motivated me to build a display case with all the knives I have collected in my life. Since I am retired, I am always looking for projects to do. Better than just having them lay in a drawer.

The Third Knock

Audio Podcast 8 1/2 minutes

When Clara moved into the old duplex on Sycamore Street, she felt a strange mix of excitement and trepidation. The landlord, an elderly gentleman with a knowing smile and twinkling eyes, gave her one important rule: “Never open the door after the third knock.” He didn’t elaborate further, but Clara could sense an underlying weight to his words, as if they held secrets tightly bound to the history of the house. Each time she heard a knock echoing through the hardwood floors late at night, she was reminded of his warning, stirring a curiosity that battled with her instincts to heed his advice. As the days passed, the duplex began to feel both inviting and ominous, a place where shadows flickered just out of sight, and the air crackled with unspoken stories waiting to unfold.

She laughed at the time, the sound echoing softly in the dimly lit room. The place was cheap, the neighborhood quiet, and the rule sounded like the kind of local superstition that came with creaky floorboards and drafty windows, whispers of tales hidden within the walls. It was the sort of belief that made the timid hesitate and the skeptical roll their eyes in disdain. With an adventurous spirit and a hint of rebellion, she signed the lease anyway, convinced that the charm of rustic living and the allure of mystery would outweigh any ghostly encounters lurking in the shadows. After all, every home held its secrets, and she was ready to uncover them.

The first night passed uneventfully. The second, she heard it—three knocks at 2:13 a.m. Sharp. Not loud, not frantic. Just… deliberate.

Knock.
Knock.
Knock.

She froze in bed, heart hammering against her ribs as she strained to hear even the faintest sound. No footsteps echoed in the hallway. No voice called out to her, offering reassurance or inviting her to respond. Just silence enveloped the room after the third knock, heavy and foreboding. The darkness felt suffocating, and her mind raced with possibilities. She didn’t open the door, paralyzed by a mix of fear and curiosity, wondering who could be on the other side and why they would come at this late hour.

The next morning, she asked her neighbor, an elderly woman named Mrs. Ellison, about it. The woman’s face drained of color, her eyes wide with a mixture of fear and disbelief. “You heard it already?” she whispered, glancing nervously around as though the walls themselves might be listening. “It usually waits a week before it shows itself,” she added, her voice trembling slightly. The weight of unspoken words hung between them, and the atmosphere felt thick with an unshakeable tension, as Mrs. Ellison’s hands wrung a faded shawl tightly in her lap, revealing the depth of her concern.

Clara pressed for more, her curiosity bubbling over, but Mrs. Ellison only muttered, with a distant look in her eyes, “It’s not a person. It’s a promise.” The weight of those words lingered in the air, thick with unspoken truths, as Clara tried to decipher their meaning. What kind of promise could hold such significance? There was a palpable tension that filled the room, as if the very walls were guarding secrets that had long been tucked away, waiting for the right moment to be revealed.

That night, Clara stayed up, phone in hand, determined to record it. At 2:13 a.m., it came again.

Knock.
Knock.
Knock.

She crept to the door and peered through the peephole, her heart racing with anticipation and fear. No one was there. Just the porch light flickering irregularly, casting eerie shadows that danced on the walls of the dimly lit hallway. She held her breath, straining to hear any sound outside, hoping for a sign that she was not alone, but only the faint rustling of leaves reached her ears, deepening her unease.

She posted the audio online, eager to share her excitement with the world. However, to her dismay, people began to say it was fake, dismissing her efforts before even listening fully. One user, seemingly concerned, messaged her privately: “Don’t open it. Not even a crack. It learns your voice.” This cryptic warning sent a chill down her spine, making her question the very nature of what she had uploaded and the implications it might have for her safety and privacy. Uncertain of what to do next, she pondered over the mysterious message, her mind racing with possibilities of what the audio could truly represent and who might be watching.

On the fourth night, the knocks came earlier—1:47 a.m.—and louder.

KNOCK.
KNOCK.
KNOCK.

She screamed, “Go away!” and the knocking stopped abruptly, echoing in the silence that followed. But the next morning, her front doormat was gone, vanished without a trace. In its place: a small, wet footprint imprinted in the mud, its details unmistakably distinct. Bare. Child-sized, as if a small child had innocently wandered onto her porch during the night, leaving behind a hint of mystery that sent chills down her spine. The air felt thick with an unshakeable tension, as she scanned the surroundings, half-expecting to see a figure lurking just beyond her line of sight, hidden among the shadows of the early morning light.

By the sixth night, she was sleeping with the lights on, the soft glow casting long shadows across her room. The knocks came at 12:03 a.m. this time, precise and unsettling, echoing through the silence of the house. Heart pounding in her chest, she lay frozen in bed, listening intently. After the third knock, a chill ran down her spine as she heard a whisper through the door, thin and eerie, like a breath carried on the wind. It seemed to call her name, weaving an unsettling spell that wrapped around her thoughts, compelling her to confront whatever lay beyond the threshold. Doubt and fear clashed within her, leaving her torn between the safety of her sanctuary and the inexplicable pull of the unknown.

“Clara…”

She hadn’t told anyone her name.

She moved a chair under the doorknob to secure the door and called the landlord, her hands trembling slightly as she pressed the phone to her ear. He didn’t answer, leaving her feeling increasingly anxious and alone. With her heart racing, she decided to call the police for assistance, hoping they would be able to bring her some peace of mind. When the officers arrived, they carefully canvassed the apartment, finding no prints, no signs of forced entry, which only deepened her sense of unease. But as the officer paused before leaving, a concerned look crossed his face, and he turned back to her, as if sensing the gravity of her fear and uncertainty.

“You’re in 3B, right?” he asked, his tone laced with curiosity and concern. “That’s the unit where the girl disappeared last year, you know. Same story as before – strange sounds echoing in the night, whispers of something lurking just beyond the walls. They said she reported hearing persistent knocks, like someone was trying to get her attention. Then, one fateful night, in a moment of brave foolishness or perhaps sheer desperation, she opened the door, seeking answers to the unsettling mystery that surrounded her.”

Clara didn’t sleep that night. She sat in the hallway, staring at the door, knife in hand.

At 11:59 p.m., the first knock came.

KNOCK.

She held her breath.

KNOCK.

The doorknob twitched.

KNOCK.

She screamed, her voice echoing through the dimly lit hallway. But this time, the door creaked open—just a sliver, revealing a sliver of darkness beyond that seemed to pulse with an ominous energy. She hadn’t touched it, her heart racing in her chest as she felt a chill crawl down her spine, the air thick with tension as if the very walls were holding their breath, waiting for what might come next.

A hand, pale and too long, reached through the gap, its fingers stretching out like brittle vines in search of something unseen, curling as if beckoning the darkness closer, while the remnants of a cold breeze whispered eerie secrets around it, reminding one that every shadow held a story waiting to be unearthed.

She slammed the door shut, locked it, and ran to the bedroom, her heart racing with a mixture of fear and adrenaline. But the window was open, flapping slightly in the cool night air. She hadn’t opened it; the last thing she remembered was ensuring everything was securely closed before the unsettling noises had started. Now, she hesitated, caught between the urge to escape and the instinct to investigate the peculiar situation that had crept into her once safe haven.

The last thing she saw before the lights went out was a small, wet footprint on her pillow.

What happened after that? Let your imagination run wild.

Veterans Day.

Audio Podcast 3 minutes.

Celebrated this year on Tuesday, November 11, this holiday honors the significant contributions and sacrifices made by veterans. It is a full holiday for federal offices, banks, and many businesses, resulting in closures that allow individuals to reflect on the importance of service and sacrifice. On this day, no mail delivery occurs, providing a moment of pause for the nation to appreciate the freedoms we enjoy, and various events may be held throughout communities to commemorate and celebrate the bravery of those who have served in the armed forces.

Originally called Armistice Day, proclaimed in 1919 by President Woodrow Wilson to mark the end of World War I on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, this significant day was intended to honor the bravery and sacrifices of those who fought in this monumental conflict. Over the years, as the nation recognized the myriad contributions of all its military veterans, it became clear that a broader celebration was necessary to reflect the valor demonstrated throughout various conflicts. This led to its renaming to Veterans Day in 1954 by President Dwight D. Eisenhower, aimed at honoring veterans of all wars, allowing Americans to pay tribute not only to those who served in World War I but also to honor the service and sacrifices of past and current military personnel from every branch of the armed forces. This day serves as a poignant reminder of the cost of freedom and the importance of expressing gratitude to those who have dedicated their lives to serving the nation.

Veterans Day honors all veterans who have served in the military, recognizing their sacrifices and commitment to defending our freedoms; in contrast, Memorial Day, celebrated on the last Monday in May, specifically honors those brave men and women who gave their lives in service to our country, remembering their ultimate sacrifice and the impact they made on our nation’s history, as families and communities gather to pay their respects and express gratitude for the freedoms we enjoy today.

Thank a veteran personally. Being a veteran, I know how much a personal interaction means, as it fosters a sense of connection and appreciation that can sometimes feel absent in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Taking the time to express gratitude through a simple thank-you or engaging in a heartfelt conversation can have a profound impact. It not only honors their sacrifices but also reinforces their sense of belonging to a community that values their service. Your acknowledgment can uplift their spirits and show them that their contributions are recognized and valued.

Fly the U.S. flag proudly, representing the values and ideals that our nation stands for. It serves as a symbol of the sacrifices made by countless individuals who fought for our freedom and democracy. Whether displayed at homes, schools, or public buildings, the flag reminds us of our responsibility to uphold the principles of liberty and justice for all, uniting us in our shared identity as Americans.

How Pets Enhance Your Life

Daily writing prompt
What is good about having a pet?

Having a pet can significantly enhance your physical, emotional, and social well-being, creating a profound impact on your daily life. Pets offer companionship, providing unconditional love and support that can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and isolation. Furthermore, studies have shown that interacting with pets can reduce stress levels by triggering the release of feel-good hormones, such as oxytocin, which promotes relaxation. The presence of a furry friend can even contribute to better heart health by encouraging regular physical activity, such as walking or playing, which lowers blood pressure and reduces the risk of heart disease. As you bond with your pet, you also open doors to social interactions, whether it be meeting fellow pet owners at the park or participating in community events, fostering a sense of belonging and enhancing your overall quality of life.

While pets offer many benefits, such as companionship, emotional support, and opportunities for exercise and social interaction, they also require a significant investment of time, money, and emotional energy. Caring for a pet involves daily responsibilities, including feeding, grooming, and exercise, which can be demanding for busy individuals or families. Additionally, not everyone experiences the same positive effects from having pets; for some, the presence of animals may inadvertently increase stress levels due to various factors, including high energy needs or behavioral issues. Furthermore, certain individuals may be susceptible to allergies triggered by pet dander, fur, or even saliva, which can complicate the joy of pet ownership. Ultimately, it’s essential to consider both the rewarding aspects and the potential drawbacks of welcoming a furry friend into your life.

I had many pets. One was a turtle. This was in the day they used to paint the shells of the turtles. Goldfish, they were kind of boring. I won a baby duck at a bazaar once and it was a terrific pet one summer. When fall came and we didn’t have a place to keep it, my parents gave it to a needy family, and they had it for thanksgiving. I didn’t find out until many years later. Many cats, Sandy, Jughead, Boots, Lucy and others that I can’t think of. No dogs though, because we didn’t have a fenced yard. I made sure my sons had dogs when they grew up. You can become very attached to pets and they feel like part of the family. The loyalty a pet shows is priceless.

Buyer’s Remorse

Daily writing prompt
Name the most expensive personal item you’ve ever purchased (not your home or car).

This was a leather jacket I purchased during a trip to Italy in 2007. Nice jacket, but for six hundred dollars? I now have buyer’s remorse for this out of extraordinary event for me. Where was my common sense?

Why Fridays Feel So Special

Audio Podcast 3 minutes

Fridays have a special charm. They mark not just the end of the workweek, but the start of new possibilities. There’s a buzz of excitement in the air as people feel relieved and eager for the weekend. With each passing hour, the mood lifts, as thoughts turn to weekend plans, hanging out with friends, or enjoying some relaxation. This change in energy fosters connections, with shared smiles among strangers and renewed teamwork among coworkers, all ready to embrace the joy the weekend brings. Ultimately, Fridays offer a reminder of hope and the chance to unwind and discover what truly makes us happy.

From the moment we wake up, Friday feels special. The coffee tastes better, filling the air with warmth, while the commute seems easier, as if the world is inviting us to celebrate the weekend. Even the inbox feels less stressful, as we look forward to a break from work. Why? Because Friday represents freedom. It’s a promise of rest, fun, connection, and creativity—a reminder that the week’s stresses are fading away. Plans start to take shape as we think of friends and family, and every conversation shines with excitement for what’s to come. Whether it’s a cozy night in or an impromptu outing, Friday opens the door to new possibilities, allowing our dreams and aspirations to grow.

Friday allows us to relax and get excited for the weekend. It’s a day when we start thinking about our plans, whether that’s taking spontaneous road trips, enjoying cozy movie nights, or simply sleeping in to catch up on rest. As 5 PM approaches, we dream of the adventures ahead, the fun times with friends at happy hour, or the peaceful moments with a good book. It’s a chance to unwind and appreciate the simple pleasures of Fridays, reminding us of the work-life balance we seek.

Fridays remind us that life is not only about work but also about finding balance. They prompt us to reflect on our week, appreciate our progress, and look ahead with hope. It’s a chance to celebrate small achievements, nurture relationships, reconnect with ourselves, practice self-care, and recharge for upcoming challenges with renewed energy and enthusiasm.

Even if the week was tough, Friday offers a reset. It’s proof that time moves forward, and so do we.

Fridays are not just any day—they’re like the grand finale of a week-long soap opera where the coffee is finally strong enough to fry an egg! They come waving a flag that reads, “Joy is just around the corner, folks!” As we throw our calendars in the air, excitement bubbles like a shaken soda can, transforming the mundane into a party. It’s the day where we bench-press our plans and share a feast of laughs over questionable takeout or wild adventures that may or may not involve getting lost. So here’s to the glorious chaos of Fridays: a day that turns our ‘meh’ into ‘heck yeah,’ reminding us to embrace life with open arms, celebrate every tiny win like we just discovered a new pizza topping, and create legendary memories that we’ll forget by Monday!

Autumn’s Call to Reflect and Grow

Audio Podcast 3 1/2 minutes

Autumn is not just about colorful leaves and warm clothes — it’s a time for change that encourages us to welcome new beginnings. As nature shifts from bright summer colors to softer tones, it invites us to reflect on our own lives. November 6th, sitting between Halloween and Thanksgiving, is a great moment to pause and appreciate the beauty around us. This season promotes introspection and encourages us to think about our journeys and the changes we go through. The air becomes cooler, signaling a transition not just in seasons but also a reminder to be mindful as we look toward winter. It’s a time to value small moments, connect with loved ones, and possibly set goals for the new year, finding joy in both endings and fresh starts.

Just as trees shed their leaves to prepare for winter, we too can release what no longer serves us. This might mean decluttering your physical space, reevaluating commitments, or simply letting go of outdated beliefs that no longer resonate with our true selves. It could involve assessing friendships and relationships that drain our energy and considering whether they uplift us or hold us back. Ask yourself: What am I holding onto that’s weighing me down? Reflecting on these aspects can lead to powerful realizations and the opportunity to create a more meaningful existence. Letting go isn’t about loss — it’s about making room for growth, allowing new opportunities and experiences to enter, fostering personal development and rejuvenation as we embrace the changes ahead.

The slower pace of fall encourages reflection. With shorter days and cooler weather, we naturally look inward, making it a good time for personal growth. This season allows us to embrace change and adapt our thoughts and feelings. Use this time to reconnect with your values and goals, letting autumn’s stillness help you understand yourself better. Activities like journaling, meditation, or quiet walks through fallen leaves can help you focus on what matters while enjoying the beauty around you. As the landscape changes, let your thoughts evolve, guiding you toward intentional actions in the future.

While spring symbolizes rebirth, autumn serves as a quieter time of preparation, where nature slows down and reflects. It’s an opportunity to plant seeds in your mind and spirit for future growth. As days shorten and the air cools, take a moment to set intentions for the person you wish to become in the new year. Consider the habits you want to develop, like reading, exercising, or practicing mindfulness. Think about the relationships you want to nurture and those you may need to strengthen or let go. This autumn, take the chance to prepare for the growth that spring will bring and build a solid foundation for your goals.

There’s something wonderfully comforting about fall rituals — lighting candles (without setting anything on fire), enjoying warm drinks topped with whipped cream, and gathering with loved ones to share laughter and stories that are probably exaggerated, all while staying cozy under blankets as the chill in the air drives us indoors. These simple pleasures, like indulging in a homemade pie that seems to call your name or taking a leisurely stroll through the colorful leaves, can be surprisingly uplifting for your mind and soul. Embrace them; appreciate the warmth (both literal and from the oversized sweater you call “vintage”) that these rituals bring during this changing season. Let November 6th be a day to appreciate slowing down, lament the impending disappearance of pumpkin spice lattes, and enjoy the moment as you cherish simple joys (like finishing the last piece of pie) with those around you, fully engaging in the delightful chaos of the season.

The Need for More Time

Yes, I need time; I am over eighty, but I feel an undeniable urgency for more time to accomplish the things that still linger on my to-do list. Two and a half years ago, I experienced a near-death experience that profoundly changed my perspective on life and survival. Since then, I have reevaluated my priorities and realized that there are countless stories yet to be told, relationships to nurture, and dreams that beckon my attention. I am still not finished with all that I wish to achieve, and as each day passes, my desire for more time grows stronger. I need more time to embrace life fully and make every moment count.

Daily writing prompt
Do you need time?