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Embracing Life’s Journey

Since I am near my journey of life to come to an end, I find myself reflecting on the myriad of experiences that have shaped me into who I am today. The time may be tomorrow or ten years from now; each moment seems fleeting yet profound in its own way. As I look back, I see not only the joyous moments but also the challenges that have tested my spirit and resilience. I ponder the legacy I will leave behind and the stories that will linger in the hearts of those I cherish. Only time will tell how this chapter will conclude, but for now, I strive to embrace each day with gratitude and an open heart.

Many things gave me direction in life. My parents and spiritual religious training were the primary factors in my young age, instilling in me values of compassion, integrity, and perseverance. Their guidance shaped my understanding of the world and encouraged me to seek a deeper meaning in my actions. Beyond just teachings, the experiences shared during family gatherings and moments of reflection on spiritual teachings created a strong foundation, allowing me to navigate challenges with resilience and purpose. As I grew older, I began to recognize how these early influences not only directed my choices but also inspired me to strive for personal growth and a greater connection with those around me.

As my journey progressed, the multitude of experiences I encountered—military service that instilled discipline and camaraderie, the joys and challenges of marriage, the heart-wrenching moments of divorce, the pursuit of fulfilling employment, the struggles of unemployment, the reflective phase of retirement, and a near-death experience that profoundly shifted my perspective—gave me direction through various segments of my life, guiding me to appreciate the nuances of resilience, the importance of relationships, and the invaluable lessons learned from both triumphs and tribulations that shaped the person I am today.

Now, since I am retired and near journeys end, my direction in life is just to be myself, embracing the freedom that comes with this new chapter. I find joy in simple pleasures like sipping my morning coffee while watching the sunrise, reflecting on the memories I’ve made over the years and the lessons learned along the way. This phase allows me to explore new hobbies, reconnect with old friends, and savor the beauty of each day without the pressures of a hectic schedule, which often seemed overwhelming during my working years. It’s a time for self-discovery, where I can truly delve into my passions and appreciate the small moments that make life rich and fulfilling, whether it’s tending to my garden, taking leisurely walks in nature, or getting lost in cyber space. I am expressing and sharing this in my blogging, hoping to inspire others to appreciate the joys of life and embrace their own journeys with open hearts and minds. Through my words, I connect with a broader community, exchanging stories and gaining insights that enrich my experiences further, making this chapter not only about reflection but also about connection and growth.

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What gives you direction in life?
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Past experiences

What gives me direction in my life? Everything that I have learned or experienced in my life.

From birth until now everything that I have learned or experienced in life gave me direction. I learned the necessities in life like going to the bathroom in the toilet instead of my diaper. My mother raised me as a Catholic and that gave me direction in my young years. Going to kindergarten and twelve more years of schooling added on to this direction of life.

Army service gave me a vast source of knowledge of how to deal with many different personalities and cultures. You meet hundreds of people from different parts of the country, and this was a great help in my later years dealing with people. This learning experience was very helpful in my journey of life and do not regret it one bit.

Employment in private industry, marriage, raising children, divorce and the heartaches and hurt involved in all of the above made me realize that the perfect life I have dreamed of may not come true. These events made me realize that my dreams may not be the purpose for my time on this planet.

After a period of time, I found a new direction with a new loving wife and her loving family. This told me there is light at the end of dark tunnels. Following this I retired and discovered that “Every day is Saturday.” and the stress of full-time employment is over. We also moved into the home of my dream. These events also gave me a direction in life.

A little over a year ago I was standing in front of deaths door and Dr. Death was holding the door open. I survived and as my wife says, “your room was not ready yet.” Again, another life experience has changed my direction in life. Life is not over and according to statistics the survival rate of my illness was three to five percent.

In conclusion, many events in my life and learning experiences has changed my life. I believe the purpose in life is to learn, and one should learn as much as then can in this short visit on planet of earth.

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