Month: March 2025

We Are All Unique

What makes a person unique is a mix of factors—like a recipe with endless variations. At the core, it’s their genetics, experiences, and choices. DNA provides the foundation, determining traits like eye color or a tendency to enjoy bad jokes. But that’s just the beginning—identical twins may have similar genetic codes but can still be very different.

Experiences shape us. Where you’re born, who raises you, the books you read, the people you meet, the challenges you face, and the successes you pursue make each person’s journey unique. No two people have the same story, even if they grow up close. A kid from a busy city and one from a quiet village may both love soccer, but their playing style and dreams will be different.

Then there’s choice—how you respond, what you appreciate, the peculiarities you embrace. One person may complain about a rainy day, while another enjoys it with an umbrella and dances. Personality comes from this mix: your humor, your stubbornness, your odd fondness for collecting bottle caps. It’s not only about what happens, but how you view it through your own perspective.

Even the tiniest quirks—like that epic scar from your legendary bike crash or a go-to song that’s forever stuck in your head because of an embarrassing memory—add some serious spice to the dish that is you. Philosophers might sip their lattes and ponder it’s all about your brain’s cosmic consciousness, that elusive unicorn of self-awareness. Scientists, on the other hand, would probably throw around terms like neural patterns or microbiome shenanigans (yep, even your gut bacteria have opinions). But honestly, it’s the chaotic, beautifully messy mix of nature, nurture, and your stubborn will that makes you one-of-a-kind. So, what do you think makes you the delightful weirdo that you are?

Daily writing prompt
Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?
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My Car Speaks Out


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I am a 2022 Honda HRV, a compact yet mighty crossover, designed to navigate the urban jungle with a touch of adventure. My story begins in the bright, bustling lot of a Honda dealership, where I gleamed under the sun, my coat of Urban Gray Metallic catching the eyes of passersby.

My owner, Tom, found me on a crisp autumn day. He circled around, inspecting my sleek lines and spacious interior. I could feel his approval as he ran his hands over my alloy wheels and checked out my cargo space. There was an instant connection, and soon, I was rolling out of the dealership, my engine purring with excitement.

The first journey with Tom was memorable. We ventured out of the city, and I found myself navigating through winding country roads, my all-wheel-drive system gripping the pavement with confidence. The scenery was a blur of colors, but I felt every curve, every incline, as if I were part of the landscape itself.

Life with Tom was full of small adventures. We’d often drive to the local park where he’d open my tailgate, revealing the convenience of my Magic Seat feature, perfect for his weekend camping gear or a quick picnic. I loved those moments when the sun set, casting golden rays through my windows, warming the interior while Tom enjoyed his Gatorade.

Winter arrived, and I proved my mettle. With my heated seats and climate control, we kept cozy even on the chilliest days. The snow didn’t daunt me; my snow mode ensured we navigated through the white landscapes with ease. There was a sense of pride when I managed to get us out of the snowy parking lots where others were stuck.

But it wasn’t all about the adventures. I was there for the mundane too – the daily commutes, the grocery runs, the quiet drives to the library or to visit friends. Each journey, no matter how short, was a chance for me to serve and to be appreciated. Tom would sometimes talk to me, not expecting a reply, but I listened. I heard about his day, his plans, his hopes. It made me feel like more than just a vehicle; I was a companion.

Then there was the music. Tom loved his tunes, and my audio system was just right for him, filling the cabin with his favorite beats, making each drive a little concert. The joy of music, the beat matching the rhythm of my engine, it was a harmony unique to us. Tom was overjoyed when he discovered my UBS feature. Now he can bring thousands of his favorites copied onto a thumb drive and never hear the same song twice.

One day, we took a long road trip. The open road was liberating, the horizon endless. My fuel efficiency meant fewer stops, more miles under my wheels. We saw mountains, forests, and at one point, we pulled over at a viewpoint. Tom sat on my hood, watching the sunset, and I felt a sense of accomplishment for bringing him to such a beautiful place.

As time passed, I’ve seen maintenance days – oil changes, tire rotations – but each visit to the mechanic was a testament to how well Tom cared for me. I was not just a machine; I was a part of his life, his story.

Now, as I sit here, perhaps parked in the garage, I look back on these days with fondness. I’ve been more than a vehicle; I’ve been a part of Tom’s journey, his companion through the seasons, through the ups and downs. Here’s to many more adventures, to the bond that forms between a car and its owner, to the road less traveled, and to the road yet to come.

Why the Big Rush?

When I was five, I was in kindergarten, and thinking about what I wanted to be was the farthest thing from my mind. Instead, I spent my days playing with colorful blocks, making new friends, and exploring the world around me with unfiltered curiosity and imagination. I was allowed to enjoy my younger years, filled with laughter and carefree adventures. I am old enough to remember when childhood was a time for innocence and wonder, when the biggest concern was whether to choose the red crayon or the blue one for my next drawing. Now, it seems that society does not allow young people to savor those precious moments of their younger years, as they are bombarded with expectations and pressures far beyond their age. The topic of sex never came up until junior high, which is now referred to as middle school, and it baffles me. I don’t know what the big rush is for introducing such complex adult issues to children who should still be focused on discovering the joy of playing tag or riding a bike for the first time. It’s as if the essence of being young is being overshadowed by an urgent push to grow up too fast.

Daily writing prompt
When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up?
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Retirement Ramblings

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Retirement is a highlight in one’s life, representing freedom and the culmination of decades of hard work and dedication. You work many years, and the ultimate goal is to retire in comfort and enjoy your remaining years with a sense of peace and fulfillment. Retirement is one of the American dreams that can come true, offering opportunities to travel, pursue hobbies, or simply relax in the company of loved ones. It takes meticulous planning and disciplined saving to reach this desired goal, ensuring that you can sustain your lifestyle and meet your needs during this new phase of life. Additionally, it takes a little luck for all the cards to fall in place so that retirement can happen, including factors like market conditions, health, and unexpected life events. The journey to retirement is both a financial and emotional endeavor, demanding foresight and resilience to navigate the challenges along the way.

Since I retired eighteen years ago, I will share what I did to help me live comfortably in retirement. First, I made sure all my credit cards were paid off, ensuring that I was not burdened with unnecessary debt. The only balances I had in credit cards were monthly expenses, such as groceries and utilities, and they were paid off totally every month to avoid interest charges. I also took the time to thoroughly inquire about what my social security monthly amount would be, as well as the small pension amounts we would receive after retirement, understanding the importance of knowing our financial limits. Additionally, I reviewed the condition of the vehicles in our household, assessing how many years they would realistically last before needing replacement, which helped with long-term planning. Then, I made a tentative budget to see if our retirement income would cover the necessary expenses every month, analyzing all aspects of our financial needs. Entertainment items, such as trips and vacations, which were important for our quality of life, would come out of our savings rather than our monthly income. After careful consideration and planning, the decision was made to retire, with the hope that our finances would not only support us but would last longer than our lifetimes, allowing us to enjoy this new chapter without the constant stress of financial insecurity.

Everything was doing ok until the financial crash of 2008. At that time, our portfolio showed unrealized losses to be over one half of our total assets, which was quite alarming. The decision had to be made to sell the stocks and change the unrealized losses to realized losses, a choice that weighed heavily on my mind. Since I didn’t need the money immediately, I elected to keep the stock, hoping that the value of the investment would eventually return to the purchase price before making a sale. It was a gamble that I felt was worth taking, as selling in a downturn often leads to regret. We didn’t make any money, but we didn’t lose any either, which was a small consolation in such volatile times. It took about seven years to finally regain all our original investments, a journey filled with uncertainty and anxiety. These were scary times, marked by constant headlines of market turmoil and fears of a prolonged recession. In light of this turmoil, the decision was made to pull out of the stock market completely and invest solely in secure assets, like bonds and real estate, which appeared to offer a more stable return. I was just becoming too old to live with that stress and insecurity; my health was starting to feel the strain of worrying over fluctuating markets. Since then, we have been okay financially, cautiously navigating this new approach to investing, and it has provided a greater sense of peace and security in our lives.

As you become older, health issues tend to hamper retirement plans, often causing individuals to rethink their aspirations and dreams. The vacations and trips that once seemed so enticing and achievable now appear to be shelved because of these unforeseen health challenges. We have had over eighteen years of comfortable retirement, filled with cherished memories and joyful experiences, and we feel very fortunate to have enjoyed these years. Each day brings a new opportunity to appreciate the simple pleasures of life, but we are also mindful of the limitations that can come with aging. Hopefully, we will have many more years to explore the world around us, to create lasting memories with loved ones, and to continue embracing life with the same vigor and enthusiasm we once had.

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We All Use It, But Don’t Know How

Most people don’t fully understand how Wi-Fi works, even though they use it daily. They see it as a magical connection to the internet, but it’s really just radio waves—signals moving between a router and their device. The router takes data from a wired connection, changes it into a radio signal (usually at 2.4 or 5 GHz), and sends it out. Your device catches that signal, interprets it, and sends signals back. Walls, distance, and other devices can interfere with these signals.

The confusion arises when people don’t understand why their connection is poor—devices like microwaves and cordless phones share the same radio frequencies, causing interference. Also, “faster Wi-Fi” isn’t useful if your internet provider’s connection is still slow. It’s essential technology, but many don’t grasp the basics of signal strength, bandwidth, and interference.

Daily writing prompt
What’s something most people don’t understand?
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Should I Join Tik Tok?

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Since Tik Tok has been on the news lately I thought maybe I should become a member to expand my coverage. I didn’t know much about the app, so I went to Grok, Elon’s favorite AI and asked it. Here is how it responded.

As a blogger who works with written and audio content, joining TikTok could be a solid move depending on your goals and how much you’re willing to adapt your style. TikTok’s all about short-form video—15 seconds to 3 minutes—so it’s not a natural fit for long written posts or audio deep-dives. But it could work as a way to expand your reach and pull people into your existing platforms.

Here’s the breakdown:

Pros:

  1. Audience Growth: TikTok’s algorithm is insane at pushing content to new people. If you’ve got a niche (say, storytelling, lifestyle, or commentary), you could tease your written or audio work with quick, punchy videos and drive traffic back to your blog or podcast.
  2. Creative Audio Angle: Since you do audio, you could lean into TikTok’s sound features—create original voiceovers, snippets of your podcast, or pair your voice with trending visuals. Audio-driven content does well there.
  3. Cross-Promotion: A 30-second clip summarizing a blog post or a dramatic reading could hook viewers and send them to your full work. It’s like a trailer for your brand.

Cons:

  1. Time Investment: TikTok rewards consistency and video editing chops. If you’re not into making visuals or learning the platform’s quirks, it might feel like a grind on top of your blogging.
  2. Format Shift: Your written and audio strengths don’t fully translate without some reworking. You’d need to distill your ideas into bite-sized, attention-grabbing bits—less depth, more flash.
  3. Audience Mismatch: TikTok skews younger (Gen Z and Millennials). If your blog’s readers are older or prefer long-form, they might not bite.

What You Could Try:

  • Teasers: Record a quick audio snippet of your latest post or episode, slap some text or visuals on it, and end with a “link in bio” nudge (you’d need a TikTok business account or 1,000 followers for links).
  • Behind-the-Scenes: Show your blogging process—writing, recording, brainstorming—in a casual, relatable way.

If you’re up for experimenting and don’t mind the video learning curve, it could be a cool way to amplify your voice. But if you’d rather double down on platforms that fit your current groove (like X for written thoughts or podcast apps for audio), that’s valid too. What’s your main goal—growth, fun, or something else?

Yep, there are definitely older people on TikTok—it’s not just a Gen Z playground! While the platform started with a younger crowd, its user base has broadened over time. Here’s the rundown:

The Numbers:

  • TikTok’s core demographic is still young—about 60% of U.S. users are between 16 and 34, according to 2023 stats from Statista. But older folks are carving out space.
  • Around 25% of U.S. users are 35–54, and roughly 10% are 55+, per recent demographic breakdowns (e.g., Pew Research, 2023). That’s millions of people—small compared to the kids, but growing.
  • Globally, TikTok claims over 1 billion monthly active users (as of late 2024), so even a small percentage of older users adds up.

Older Creators & Vibes:

  • Boomers and Gen X Are There: You’ve got folks like @grandadjoe1933 (70+ and cracking jokes), @lynnalanamode (a 60-something fashionista), or @dancinggrannies (self-explanatory). They’re not the majority, but they’re thriving in niches like humor, life advice, cooking, or nostalgia.
  • Silver TikTok: There’s even a loose term for it—“Silver TikTok”—where older users share everything from retirement stories to DIY hacks. It’s less dance-heavy, more relatable or quirky.
  • Engagement: Older creators often get love because they stand out. Viewers find it refreshing or endearing when a 50+ person nails a trend or just does their own thing.

As a Blogger:

  • If your audience skews older, there’s an underserved pocket on TikTok you could tap into. Think quick tips, storytelling, or “day in the life” stuff that resonates with the 35+ crowd. They’re there, just scrolling quieter than the teens.
  • The catch? Older users might not engage as much with super trendy, fast-cut content—they often prefer authenticity or slower pacing.

So, yes, older people are on TikTok, and their presence is growing as the platform matures. If you’re eyeing that demographic, you could test the waters with content that bridges your style and their interests. Want me to dig into specific older TikTokers or trends for inspiration?

Alright, let’s dig into TikTok and see if there’s more specific info about older users that could sway your decision as a blogger! You’re into written and audio content, so I’ll focus on how older folks (let’s say 35+) are showing up on the platform, what they’re doing, and whether that aligns with your vibe.

Older People on TikTok: The Raw Data

  • User Stats: By mid-2024, about 45% of weekly TikTok users in the U.S. were 35 and older, up from 35% in 2022 (YouGov data). That’s a decent chunk—nearly half the platform’s regular scrollers aren’t teens or 20-somethings. Of those, 27% are 45+, and even the 55+ crowd is creeping in at around 3-4% globally, though it’s higher in some spots (like Boomers jumping on faster than other platforms, per a 2023 study).
  • Growth Trend: TikTok’s not just a kid’s app anymore. Usage among U.S. adults doubled from 11% to 21% weekly between 2022 and 2024. Older users are hopping on, and they’re not just lurking—engagement’s up too. Around 45-48% of 45-54 and 55+ weekly users are posting or commenting now, compared to way lower rates a couple years back.

What Are They Doing There?

  • Content They Like: Older users lean toward “fun/entertaining” stuff (same as everyone), but they’re also into life lessons, cooking, fashion tips, and nostalgia—think retro vibes or “how I did it back in the day.” Less dance challenges, more practical or relatable content.
  • Creators in the Mix: There’s a wave of older influencers killing it. Examples:
    • @grandadjoe1933: 70+, British, does comedy and heartwarming bits—over 2 million followers.
    • @lynnalanamode: 60s, stylish as hell, mixes fashion with life advice.
    • @j_dog_1929: 91, Canadian, 2 million followers, teams up with her grandson for quirky skits and brand deals (like Paramount Pictures).
    • @excusemygrandma: Multi-gen duo (Kim and Grandma Gail) doing fashion, dating advice, and Gen Z slang breakdowns—big with older viewers who like the generational twist.
  • Niche Communities: Subcultures like #SilverTok (aging gracefully) or #StyleOver50 are popping off. These aren’t just watchers—they’re active, sharing their own takes.

Could This Work for You?

  • Your Angle: As a written/audio blogger, you’re not about quick dance vids, but TikTok’s older crowd might dig your style if you adapt. Think:
    • Audio Clips: Drop a 30-second podcast teaser with text overlay—maybe a storytelling bit or a hot take from your blog. Older users like substance over flash.
    • Written to Visual: Turn a blog post into a quick “3 Tips” slideshow with your voice narrating. Something like “3 Ways I Learned to Blog Smarter After 40” could hit with the 35+ crew.
    • Nostalgia Play: If your content’s got a reflective edge, lean into that—older folks love a throwback vibe.
  • Audience Fit: If your current readers/listeners are 35-55, they’re already on TikTok or could be nudged there. You’d be meeting them where they’re scrolling, not chasing a teen crowd that might not care.

The Catch

  • Learning Curve: You’d need to figure out video basics—nothing fancy, but enough to make it snappy. Older creators often keep it raw and real, which works, but it’s still a shift from writing or recording audio.
  • Time Sink: TikTok loves frequent posts. Can you carve out time to experiment without burning out on your main gig?
  • Reach vs. Depth: You’ll get eyes fast, but they might not stick for your long-form stuff unless you hook ‘em hard.

After reading all this, I thought, “well maybe I should become a member.” It sounded more positive than negative, and I was curious to see what it had to offer. I made the jump and opened an account since I couldn’t preview the site without creating an account. Having access to the account, I started researching its features and layout, and the first thing I immediately noticed was that it has a kind of childish and immature aesthetic that didn’t resonate with my style. I was just thinking of making small video clips directing the viewers to my website TomT2.0 in hopes of drawing in an audience that reflected my age and interests. I am looking to attract older viewers, closer to my age, who might appreciate my content more than a younger crowd. In the response from Grok, it stated that there were indeed older people on the site, which gave me a bit of hope. Unfortunately, after close to an hour of exploring, I could not find any site or person that might be genuinely interested in my website or the content I wanted to create. If there are older viewers on the site, they keep them well hidden. It felt somewhat disheartening, and I began to wonder if TikTok was really the right platform for me after all. After weighing my options and considering the lack of connections, I ultimately decided that TikTok was not for me and deleted the account. It was beneficial to check it out, though, as it gave me valuable insights into social media dynamics and helped me clarify the type of audience I wanted to engage with.

I Do Not Have a Job

I am over eighty; therefore, I don’t have an income-based job. However, I have found immense joy and fulfillment in blogging, an activity that has transformed dramatically over the years. As I reflect on my journey, I will cover how technology has changed my blogging experience, from the days of simple text-based posts to the intricate multimedia content I can now create. With the emergence of user-friendly platforms and tools, I can now easily share not just my words but also photos, videos, and interactive elements that engage my readers in ways I never thought possible. This evolution has allowed me to connect with a wider audience, fostering a sense of community and engagement that enriches my life as I share my thoughts and experiences online.

Recently, the emerging AI (artificial intelligence) asset has been a large factor for me, revolutionizing the way I approach my writing process. There were times when I began to struggle with a prompt to write about since most of the significant events in my life have already been covered extensively. This often left me feeling uninspired and at a loss for new topics. However, since the introduction of AI tools into my routine, this problem is no longer evident, providing me with a wealth of ideas and perspectives that I hadn’t previously considered. In fact, I am now a week ahead of blogs just waiting to be released at a specific time, allowing me to focus on refining my work rather than scrambling for inspiration at the last minute. The research time has decreased significantly since AI makes it so simple now, allowing me to access relevant information and insights quickly. AI has also aided me in adding content to my postings, offering suggestions for improvements and enhancing the overall quality of my writing, which has empowered me to express my thoughts in a more articulate and engaging manner.

Another feature I like is screen snipping. It is so easy to insert a graphic by snipping and pasting, which has truly transformed the way I work. I no longer need to download a photo or graphic; with just a few clicks, I can capture any part of my screen quickly. This saves me precious time and helps to keep my workflow smooth and uninterrupted. Now I just snip and paste, allowing me to focus on my projects without the hassle of unnecessary downloads or file management. Overall, this functionality has streamlined my creative process significantly, enabling me to produce high-quality content with greater efficiency.

Yes, I used AI on the post. and it took me less than 45 minutes.

Daily writing prompt
How has technology changed your job?
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Rover and Socks

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Rover: Hey, Socks! What’s the deal with your windowsill throne? Do you think you’re the queen of England or just auditioning for a feline royal reality show? I mean, lounging there like you own the place, with your snooty little nose in the air while the birds put on their daily aerial show—do you even lift a paw? I can’t decide if you’re a majestic ruler or just an expert sunbather. Seriously, what goes through that fluffy head of yours as you plot world domination from your sunny perch?

Socks: Because I do own the place, Rover. It’s a tough job being this fabulous, but someone’s got to do it! You see, it’s called being superior—a title that comes with the royal perks of elegance and grace, which apparently you missed out on while frolicking in a tail-chasing frenzy. Meanwhile, I’m up here surveying my domain, looking regal from the highest perch while you tumble into yet another round of your never-ending antics. It’s a demanding life of leisure and poise, one that requires a level of finesse that clearly zipped right past your wagging tail!

Rover: Tail-chasing is all the rage! Seriously, you should give it a whirl instead of snoozing like a bear in hibernation. Live a little! There’s nothing quite like the sheer thrill of zooming in circles, wind flapping your fur like those ridiculous car ads, and feeling like the king of your own hilarious chase. It’s not just a game; it’s a cardio workout disguised as fun! Just think, you can turn the most boring day into an epic adventure with a little tail-twirling chaos. So let that inner goofball shine, lose yourself in the delight of chasing your own tail, and who knows—you might just discover the secret to a happier life is all in the spin!

Cat: Napping is basically my superpower, you drooling furball! I’m just recharging my batteries for the crucial duties ahead—like my not-so-secret mission of judging the humans, who hilariously think they run this place. While I blissfully doze, I’m orchestrating my next regal takeover, all while mildly entertained by their daily circus acts. It’s a riot watching them dash around, tackling one errand after another, completely oblivious to the divine joys of a sunbeam or a rogue feather swaying in the breeze. Trust me, my naps aren’t just for show; they’re tactical retreats, moments for plotting my rightful reign over this household!

Rover: Judging? I’d rather lick ‘em! They’re the best treats I could ever imagine. Who else gives me delicious snacks just for sitting? It’s like magic! Every time I hear that rustle of the treat bag, my tail wags furiously, and I can hardly contain my excitement. The way they reward me makes me feel so loved and appreciated; it’s not just about the food, but the bond we share whenever I perform my best tricks.

Socks: Ugh, your standards are so low. I get treats for existing, and it’s called finesse. You see, it’s not just about being present; it’s about the charm and grace I bring to the room. I flaunt my adorable little paws and my irresistibly fluffy fur, and that’s what gets me those delightful snacks. Why settle for less when I can dazzle everyone with my quirks? After all, who wouldn’t want to spoil a pet with such an unmatched personality? It’s all part of the game, and trust me, I’m winning it every day!

Rover: Finesse? More like laziness. Bet you can’t catch a ball like I can! I’ve perfected my techniques after countless hours of practice in the park, chasing after sticks and bouncing balls, leaving my friends in awe of my skills. With my lightning-quick reflexes and unmatched enthusiasm, there’s no doubt that I am the ultimate fetch champion. So, bring it on! Let’s see you try to keep up with my agility and catching prowess!

Socks: Why would I catch a ball when I can catch a mouse? That’s skill, not just slobbering after a toy. While the other dogs might chase after those brightly colored balls, I find a thrill in the chase that’s much more adventurous and exciting. The soft rustling of tiny paws, the quick darting here and there, and the challenge of outsmarting my furry little opponent. It’s a game of wits, and it requires precision and agility that goes beyond mere instinct. I relish the satisfaction of a well-executed capture, proving that I’m not just a plaything chaser but a true hunter at heart.

Rover: Mice are boring. You ever try barking at the mailman? Gets the blood pumping! There’s nothing quite like the excitement of watching him approach, the way my fur bristles with anticipation as I prepare to make my move. The thrill builds in my chest, and I can’t help but let out a few barks, expressing my excitement and guarding my territory. With every delivery, it’s a new adventure, a chance to showcase my protective instincts and earn my place as the watchdog of the house. Plus, the look on the mailman’s face is priceless; it’s like I’m a part of a comedy show that’s never quite the same from one day to the next!

Socks: And wake up the whole neighborhood? No thanks. I prefer a quiet stalk—stealth is my style. There’s something exhilarating about moving silently, slipping through the shadows where only the faintest whispers of wind can be heard. Each paw step is deliberate, calculated, as I navigate across the familiar terrain, evading the blaring sounds of daily life. The thrill of remaining unnoticed, blending into the dusk, allows me to observe without being seen, to feel the pulse of the night without disturbing its serenity. It’s a dance of caution and cunning, where the thrill of the hunt mingles with the peace of solitude.

Rover: Stealth? You mean sneaking into my bed when I’m not looking, like a shadow in the night, quietly tiptoeing across the floor, as if on a secret mission? It’s as if you have mastered the art of silent approach, waiting for the perfect moment to curl up beside me, while I’m blissfully unaware, wrapped up in my dreams.

Socks: It is not sneaking it is claiming what is mine. You are just too dumb to notice.

Rover: Well, I’ll share it with you anyway. You’re not so bad, Socks; in fact, I’ve come to appreciate your company more than I initially thought I would. It’s surprising how two different personalities can find common ground and enjoy each other’s presence. I’ve seen your cleverness in navigating tricky situations, and it’s made me respect you a little more. After all, who would have thought that a dog and a cat could share stories under the stars and laugh at the silliest things together?

Socks: Hmph. You’re tolerable, I suppose… for a loud, smelly beast. Despite your constant racket, which often disrupts my peaceful moments, there’s an undeniable charm in your antics. Your boisterous nature might be overwhelming at times, but it certainly brings a unique energy to the room. I find myself reluctantly drawn to your quirks; the way you bound around with excitement, even if it leaves a trail of chaos behind. So, while I may refer to you as a beast, I must admit that your presence adds a layer of unpredictability that, oddly enough, I can appreciate.

Rover: Wanna chase the squirrel outside together? It looks like it’s darting around in the yard, and I can already feel the excitement building inside me! Just imagine the thrill of running after it, weaving through the trees and bushes while enjoying the fresh air and sunshine. What do you say we head out, let our energy loose, and see if we can catch that little critter before it scurries up a tree?

Socks: …Fine. But I’m leading. When it comes to navigating through this tangled mess, I know exactly where to go. I’ve got a plan in mind, a clear direction that’s been brewing for a while. You may have ideas too, but it’s time to trust my instincts on this one. We can’t afford to waste time wandering aimlessly, and I promise to keep everyone focused and on track. So let’s gear up and follow my lead, because I have a feeling this is going to be quite the adventure.

A Surprising Tale

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Here’s a story crafted to keep you guessing until the final line: 

The old house on the hill had stood empty for decades, its windows dark and its walls weathered by time. Clara had passed it every day on her way to town, always wondering about the stories it held. One crisp autumn evening, as the sun dipped low, she noticed something different—a faint flicker of light in the upstairs window. Curiosity tugged at her, and against her better judgment, she decided to investigate. 

The front door creaked open with surprising ease, as if it had been waiting for her. Inside, the air was thick with dust, and the faint scent of lavender lingered. Jada’s footsteps echoed on the warped wooden floor as she climbed the stairs, drawn to the room where she’d seen the light. The door at the top was ajar, and a soft glow spilled out. 

In the room sat a woman, her back to Jada, hunched over a small table. She wore a faded dress, its hem frayed, and her silver hair cascaded down her back. A single candle burned before her, casting long shadows across the walls. Jada hesitated, then cleared her throat. 

The woman didn’t turn. “I’ve been expecting you,” she said, her voice low and steady. 

Jada froze. “Expecting me? I don’t even know you.” 

“You don’t need to,” the woman replied. “You’re here for the truth, aren’t you?” 

Jada’s heart thudded. She hadn’t told anyone she was coming, hadn’t even known herself until moments ago. “What truth?” she asked, stepping closer. 

The woman gestured to a chair across the table. “Sit. I’ll show you.” 

On the table lay a small wooden box, intricately carved with swirling patterns. The woman slid it toward Jada. “Open it,” she said. 

Hands trembling, Jada lifted the lid. Inside was a photograph, yellowed with age. It showed a young girl, no more than five, with wide eyes and a shy smile, standing in front of this very house. A man and woman stood beside her, their faces blurred by time. Clara frowned. “Who is this?” 

The woman finally turned, her face illuminated by the candlelight. Her eyes were sharp, piercing, and oddly familiar. “Look closer,” she said. 

Jada studied the photo again, then gasped. The girl’s dress—the same faded fabric, the same frayed hem—matched the one the woman wore now. “That’s… you?” she stammered. 

The woman nodded. “I’ve waited a long time for you to come back.” 

“Come back?” Jada’s mind raced. “I’ve never been here before.” 

The woman smiled faintly, a sad curve to her lips. “You have. You just don’t remember.” 

Jada’s gaze darted between the photo and the woman, confusion mounting. Then the woman reached across the table, her cold fingers brushing Jada’s hand. A jolt surged through her, and suddenly, memories flooded in—running through these halls as a child, laughter echoing, the smell of lavender in her mother’s arms. She stumbled back, clutching her head. “What’s happening?” 

“You were taken from this house,” the woman said softly. “Taken from me. I’ve been here ever since, waiting.” 

Jada’s breath hitched. The blurred faces in the photo sharpened in her mind’s eye—her parents, younger, happier. And then she understood. The woman wasn’t just a stranger. She was her grandmother, preserved by some strange force in this house, tethered to it all these years. 

But the real truth hit her as she looked down at her own hands—hands that now shimmered faintly, translucent in the candlelight. She hadn’t just come to uncover a secret. She’d come because she, too, had died long ago, and this house was calling her home. 

The key detail—that Jada is a ghost— Did it catch you off guard? 

Premonition

I am sure you have heard, “go by your gut feeling or your first choice is your best choice.” Throughout my 80 plus years, I have discovered that this is what has worked out for me many times in various situations, whether it was in making significant life decisions or simply choosing what to eat for dinner. Trusting my instincts has often led me to unexpected opportunities and fulfilling experiences that I might have missed had I overthought my choices. I would like to improve my skills at this though, learning to balance that initial intuition with thoughtful consideration, so I can refine my decision-making process, ensure I am making the most informed choices, and perhaps even develop a deeper understanding of when to trust my gut and when to analyze the details more closely.

A premonition is a strong feeling that something is about to happen, often without clear evidence. It’s like an intuitive hunch or gut instinct warning you about a future event—sometimes positive but often connected to unease or danger. It reflects your mind picking up subtle cues from your environment that your conscious brain hasn’t processed yet. Historically, people have linked premonitions to dreams and sudden chills, and while science doesn’t fully endorse it as a “sixth sense,” psychology suggests it could arise from pattern recognition or heightened awareness.

Improving premonition isn’t like training a muscle—you can’t hit the gym for it—but you can sharpen related skills. First, pay attention to your intuition; track those weird vibes and what follows, using a journal to spot patterns. Second, notice your surroundings—body language, tone shifts, or weather changes may signal what your brain’s recognizing. Meditation can quiet mental noise, helping you hear your inner voice. Trust yourself more; doubt drowns instinct, so if something feels off, don’t brush it aside.

It’s not foolproof—your brain can misfire with anxiety or wishful thinking—but over time, you might get better at sifting the real signals from the static. I have never had gigantic premonitions like a gigantic world-changing event; rather, mine have manifested as subtle indications, mere whispers of what was yet to come, often tied to events that have unfolded near me in my life. There have been times when a voice or spirit has aided or prompted me into these premonitions, guiding my intuition in ways I couldn’t fully comprehend. Who knows if that is a fact or a figment of my imagination? Throughout my life, I have encountered people with unusual skills and heightened sensitivities, and many have told me that I possess a gift of my own. I responded, “what are you imagining?” as a way to probe deeper into their perspectives. Maybe I do have a gift, and if it is indeed true, it would be fascinating to explore the depths of this unknown ability and see how it could be utilized in my everyday life. The thought of harnessing this potential stirs a curiosity within me, making me wonder about the possibilities that lie ahead and how they might intertwine with my reality.

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My Biggest Sin

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Here’s a list of things that most people would agree should be avoided:

  1. Lying – Deliberately deceiving someone for personal gain or to harm them.
  2. Stealing – Taking something that doesn’t belong to you without permission.
  3. Cheating – Being unfaithful to wife.
  4. Hurting others – Physically or emotionally causing harm to people or animals.
  5. Breaking promises – Failing to follow through on commitments without good reason.
  6. Wasting resources – Carelessly using up things like food, water, or time that others could benefit from.
  7. Blaming others unfairly – Shifting responsibility onto someone who isn’t at fault.
  8. Being cruel – Intentionally causing suffering for no justifiable reason.

So, what is my biggest sin? I would say my biggest fault is taking people too much for granted. Here are people I should have been more considerate of instead of taking them for granted.

  1. My parents – They were always there for me throughout my childhood and beyond. They fed me, they protected me from harm, and they never stopped loving me, even when I was a jerk and made mistakes. Their unwavering support and guidance shaped who I am today.
  2. My grandma – I grew up with her by my side, and she played an immensely important role in shaping my character and guiding my decisions. She helped me in the future with what she said when I was young, sharing wisdom that stayed with me throughout my life.
  3. My wife – I don’t know what I would do without her. She has been my rock and my support through thick and thin. Yet many times I take for granted that she will be there until death do us part, always ready with a kind word or a warm smile, making each day brighter and full of love.
  4. My two sons – They are an important part of my life. Yet again I have taken them for granted, not fully appreciating the joy, laughter, and lessons they bring to each day, reminding me of the beauty present in the simplest moments we share together.
  5. My two stepdaughters and two stepsons – They are an important part of my life, bringing their unique perspectives and experiences that enrich our family dynamics and create lasting memories together.
  6. The American way of life – Emphasizes individualism, personal freedom, and the pursuit of happiness, where citizens have the opportunity to achieve their dreams through hard work and determination, set against a backdrop of diverse cultures and values that coexist and contribute to the nation’s unique identity.
  7. The first responders and military– who bravely put their lives on the line each day, ensuring our safety and security in times of crisis and conflict.
  8. Friends, relatives and neighbors-You meet thousands of people throughout your life, you experience conflicts and disagreements, and you develop many friendships along the way. These friendships, which often bring joy and support, many times I have taken for granted, and they eventually disappear, leaving behind a sense of nostalgia for what once was and a realization of how important these connections truly are. It serves as a reminder to cherish and nurture the relationships that influence our lives so profoundly.

Finally, as I age, I am becoming more aware of my shortfall and am attempting to stop taking people for granted and show more appreciation at the moment. This realization has led me to reflect deeply on my relationships and the little acts of kindness that often go unnoticed. I find myself making a conscious effort to express gratitude, whether it’s a simple thank you for someone’s help or a heartfelt note acknowledging their support and presence in my life. I understand now that these small gestures can strengthen bonds and foster a sense of community and love among those I cherish. Embracing this mindset has not only enhanced my interactions but has also enriched my own sense of fulfillment and happiness as I navigate this journey of life.

Spring and Fall

These seasons have a unique charm. Spring offers fresh vibes with temperatures usually between 50°F and 70°F, bringing blooming flowers, longer days, and crisp air. Fall contrasts with a cozy, winding-down feel—vibrant leaves in red, orange, and gold, and a temperature range starting warm and cooling to perfect sweater weather.

Spring: This season is like the universe hitting the snooze button on winter—it’s all about waking up (and sneezing, thanks to all those flowers). Temperatures start off as if they just rolled out of bed—chilly in the 40s or 50s°F—and then slowly decide to get their act together and climb into the 60s or low 70s, depending on where you hide on the map. It’s when the world finally says goodbye to winter: trees are like “Look at me, I’m budding!” and flowers like tulips and daffodils are popping up like they just won a game of whack-a-mole. The air is filled with that fresh smell of rain and soil, making you wonder if the outdoors has finally taken a shower. Days get longer, sunlight becomes your new best friend, and there’s this quiet buzz—like everything’s stretching after an epic catnap. It’s the Goldilocks zone of weather—not too hot, not too cold, but just right for procrastinating in the garden.

Fall: Nature’s version of a slow-motion exit from summer. Temps start off in the comfy high 60s or 70s°F, then suddenly decide they’re auditioning for a horror movie and plummet into the 50s and 40s! The highlight? The leaves! They’re like confetti at a parade gone wild, transforming into a kaleidoscope of red, orange, and yellow, only to land by your feet in crunchy piles reminiscent of potato chips. The air takes on a crispness that feels like nature’s way of saying, “Prepare yourself!” while wafting hints of decaying leaves and woodsmoke, if you’re lucky enough to live near a cozy bonfire instead of a stinky dumpster. It’s that magical sweater time when you finally get to show off that oversized knit you bought on impulse—cozy without the threat of frostbite! And the days get shorter, creating a mix of nostalgia and an overwhelming urge to binge-watch your favorite shows under a mountain of blankets.

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An Era, Not Just One Teacher

Time in the military between 1964 and 1966 shaped me in profound ways. It was not just one teacher who influenced me, but rather the unique combination of experiences that came from being away from home for the very first time. The vast number of people I encountered, each hailing from different walks of life and various locations across the United States, provided invaluable lessons that extended far beyond the classroom. The school of hard knocks truly became my best teacher, as I learned to adapt, persevere, and appreciate the diverse perspectives around me. These experiences not only forged my sense of resilience but also deepened my understanding of camaraderie, commitment, and what it means to serve a greater purpose. Each moment spent navigating challenges alongside my fellow servicemen and women was a steppingstone that contributed to my personal growth and shaped the person I am today.

From 1964 to 1966, during the Cold War, the U.S. became more involved in Vietnam, a period characterized by escalating military presence and political tension. I vividly experienced the early buildup of troops, which increased dramatically from about 16,000 in 1964 to over 180,000 by the end of 1966, reflecting a significant commitment to the conflict. This time was marked by intense training and the looming possibility of combat for those poised to be deployed, as the nation grappled with its foreign policy decisions. Friends and fellow soldiers around me prepared for the arduous journey ahead, sharing hopes and fears about what awaited them in the jungles of Southeast Asia. I was sent to Germany instead of Vietnam, where I engaged in various military exercises and learned valuable skills, yet I will always wonder why I was assigned there, particularly since everyone I was drafted with went to Vietnam, leaving me with a lingering sense of curiosity about the path not taken and the experiences I missed during that tumultuous era.

I learned to adapt quickly, whether it was navigating basic training, handling diverse equipment, or facing the uncertainty of deployment to Viet Nam, where every day brought new challenges and opportunities for growth. For many, this period forged a profound sense of identity and purpose, even if it came with hardship and moments of doubt. This transformative time in my life not only changed my outlook on life but was also instrumental in shaping how I treated people around me. During those intense experiences, I discovered that most people are inherently good and are trying to do what is best in the situations they find themselves in, often showing remarkable resilience and kindness in the face of adversity. That period was a life-changing era for me, filled with lessons that continue to resonate. I will never regret that I served and am incredibly proud to say that I am a United States veteran.

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Who was your most influential teacher? Why?
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Wishing Time

One might wish they could spend more time pursuing what truly matters to them—whether that’s connecting with loved ones, engaging in heartfelt conversations that strengthen relationships, learning something new that sparks joy and fuels curiosity, or simply finding moments of peace amidst the chaos of everyday life. The search for meaningful experiences often leads individuals to prioritize what brings them fulfillment and happiness, allowing them to create cherished memories and deepen their understanding of the world around them. Ultimately, this quest for significance is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, guiding each person’s journey towards a more enriched and satisfying existence.

For example, carving out time to read a book, take a walk in nature, or work on a passion project could bring a sense of fulfillment. It’s less about adding “more” to an already full day and more about prioritizing what feels meaningful.

Therefore, my wish would be that I have more time to spend with loved ones, with each moment becoming a cherished memory that we can look back on fondly. I am at the age where I have realized that I took way too many people for granted, overlooking the value of their presence and the warmth of our shared experiences. Now, with the lessons learned from time slipping away too fast, I would like to rectify this fact by intentionally carving out time in my schedule to reconnect, listen to their stories, and create new adventures together that celebrate our bonds. Embracing the opportunity to nurture these relationships will not only enrich my life but also allow me to express my gratitude for their unwavering support and love.

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What do you wish you could do more every day?
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My Legacy 2nd Edition

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On May 21, 2024, I posted this blog. I have been interested in AI (artificial intelligence) lately and I thought I would try something. The first section is the original post and the second is the same post, but I used AI to enhance the post.

ORIGINAL

I never thought much about a legacy until after my near-death experience in February of 2023. My Bloodclot (Podcast). After the event I started to reconcile my life and thought, “why was I given a second chance?” I must have some unfinished business to do before my journey is over. I am just a mere mortal. I do not jump over tall buildings or stop speeding bullets. All I have is over eighty years of life on this earth. Searching for the purpose of a second chance I have decided to write about events and experiences in my life. Last August I remembered I had a site on WordPress and became active in the site. Since then, I have posted many events. Is this the purpose for the second chance? Who knows for sure.

The legacy I want to leave behind is, He was a good man. He tried to do the right thing. He was fair and didn’t take advantage of his fellow man. His faith of God and life after death was strong.

I hope my two sons remember me as a good father who did what he thought was right and necessary so they can live a good and productive life.

I hope my spouses do not regret that the years they spent with me was good years together and do not regret the years together.

I hope my stepchildren do not regret that I came into their lives and can call me stepdad with pride.

I hope all the other people I have come in contact with can say, “he was a good man!”

This is the same posting but was enhanced with AI.

I never thought much about a legacy until after my near-death experience in February of 2023. My Bloodclot (Podcast). After the event, I started to reconcile my life and thought, “why was I given a second chance?” This profound question resonated within me, leading me to reflect deeper on the moments that shaped my existence. I must have some unfinished business to do before my journey is over, some stories yet to tell. I am just a mere mortal, trying to navigate the complexities of life. I do not jump over tall buildings or stop speeding bullets; rather, I face each day with the wisdom that only comes from lived experience. All I have is over eighty years of life on this earth, each year contributing to my understanding of joy, sorrow, triumph, and loss. Searching for the purpose of a second chance, I have decided to write about events and experiences in my life, hoping that sharing my journey might resonate with others facing their own trials and tribulations. Last August, I remembered I had a site on WordPress and became active in the site, driven by a newfound sense of urgency to connect and share. Since then, I have posted many events that reflect my growth and transformation. Is this the purpose for the second chance? Who knows for sure, but I am committed to exploring this path, whatever it may reveal about my legacy and the impact I can have on others.

The legacy I want to leave behind is, He was a good man. He tried to do the right thing in all situations, often putting others’ needs before his own. He was fair and didn’t take advantage of his fellow man; rather, he stood up for justice and compassion in the community. His unwavering faith in God and life after death was strong, providing him with the strength to face life’s challenges with grace. He inspired those around him to reflect on their own values and encouraged them to pursue a path filled with kindness and integrity, leaving a mark that would remind everyone of the importance of living a life rooted in love and morality.

I hope my two sons remember me as a good father who did what he thought was right and necessary, always striving to be a positive influence in their lives. I want them to recall the moments we spent together, the lessons I tried to impart, and the values I hoped to instill in them so they can live a good and productive life filled with integrity, kindness, and perseverance. It’s my wish that they carry forward the teachings of hard work and compassion, using these principles as their foundation in navigating the complexities of the world as they grow older and make their own decisions.

I hope my spouses do not regret that the years they spent with me were good years together, full of fond memories and shared experiences, nurturing our bond as a family and building a solid foundation for our future. I wish for them to reflect on the moments of joy, laughter, and even the challenges we faced, knowing that all of it contributed to a rich tapestry of life we created together, and that they look back at our time together with a sense of fulfillment and appreciation, rather than any sense of regret.

I hope my stepchildren do not regret that I came into their lives and can call me stepdad with pride, knowing that I am committed to being a positive and supportive presence in their journey. My aim is to build a strong bond with each of them, filled with love, trust, and respect. I want them to feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and dreams with me, fostering an environment where they can grow and thrive. As we create lasting memories together, I aspire to be someone they can rely on, offering guidance and understanding as they navigate the complexities of life.

I hope all the other people I have come in contact with can say, “he was a good man!” Throughout my life, I have strived to embody kindness and integrity in everything I do, making a concerted effort to lend a helping hand or offer a listening ear when needed. It’s my desire that those who crossed paths with me will remember not just the surface-level interactions, but the genuine compassion and understanding I aimed to share with them. In reflecting on my journey, I hope they can recall moments of laughter, heartfelt conversations, and the small gestures that made a difference, ultimately leading to the sentiment that I was indeed a good man.

What do you think? I noticed that the podcasts have more than doubled in length. That is understandable because it has been difficult for me to enumerate on a topic.

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No Tattoo for Me

Why I Don’t Want a Tattoo—at over 80, I’m Good Without the Ink.

At over 80 years old, I’ve survived enough trends to know they come and go faster than a cat on a hot tin roof—and let’s be honest, I don’t need them sticking to me like a bad burrito. These days, tattoos are popping up everywhere, like mushrooms after a rainstorm, and I swear there’s a parlor on every corner, faster than gas stations did back in the ’60s! I heard that the tattoo industry is on track to make a whopping $4 billion by 2032. My grandkids are walking canvases with their dragons and quotes, and I tip my hat to the artistry—really, I do! But when they ask, “Grandpa, why don’t you get one?” I chuckle and say, “Because I don’t want a tattoo, never have, and frankly, at my age, the only ink I want is in my printer ink.”

Back in my day, tattoos were for sailors, bikers, or fellas who’d seen the inside of a jail cell. I did my time in the Army—drafted in ’64—but I skipped the anchor or “Mom” on my bicep. Didn’t see the point. Now, I watch guys half my age strut around with sleeves and chest pieces, and I get it—it’s their way of telling the world who they are. Me? I’ve got over 80 years of stories in these bones. Don’t need a needle to spell them out.

For one thing, I’ve never been a fan of sticking around. I spent decades playing musical chairs with furniture alongside my wife, only to swap it out when she decided plaid was so last season. I’ve traded cars like Pokémon cards, flipped hobbies like pancakes. But a tattoo? That feels like signing up for a lifetime membership to a club I might’ve been totally bamboozled into joining. At my age, I’d just be left staring at some faded doodle, pondering why that abstract dragon seemed like a genius idea back in 2025!

And the pain? No thanks, I’ve got a full roster of aches already—my knees sound like a creaky old porch swing auditioning for a horror movie, and my back throws a fit if I sit too long, like a toddler denied dessert. Why add a buzzing needle to my list of woes? I’ve heard it’s not so bad, but I’ve also caught wind of tough guys wincing over rib tattoos like they just spotted a spider. I skillfully dodged shots as a kid and have grumbled my way through every flu jab like it’s a rite of passage. I’d much rather save my grit for hauling firewood than proving I can endure a tattoo session—it’s not like I’m trying to win an Olympic medal in pain tolerance!

But the real kicker? I like me as I am. This weathered hide—scarred from a fall off my bike at 12, wrinkled from summers fishing with my boys—tells its own tale. I don’t need ink to mark where I’ve been. Laugh lines, earned from a lifetime with my Wifes, say plenty. A tattoo wouldn’t add to that—it’d just feel like graffiti on a house I’ve spent decades building.

Choosing not to get one isn’t about being stubborn or old-fashioned; it’s more like a wise old owl saying, “Nah, I’ll pass!” After over 80 years of dodging trends, I’d like to think I’ve earned the right to say, “Thanks, but I’ve got my own vintage style!”

Maybe one day I’ll surprise them all—shuffle into a parlor and come out with a grizzly bear on my shoulder. Just kidding, I learned from all these years to not be so stupid. But for now, I’m content with my blank canvas. It’s served me well this long. Why mess with a good thing?

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What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?
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A Glimpse into Time After Death

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Death, the last and most enigmatic journey we all must take, has been a topic of fascination, fear, and speculation throughout human history. What lies beyond this great unknown? Here’s a speculative exploration into what might await us after we cross the threshold of death.

Cultural Perspectives on the Afterlife

  • Ancient Egyptians: Believed in a complex journey after death, where the soul would navigate through various trials in the underworld, aiming to reach the Field of Reeds, a paradise mirroring life on earth but without its hardships.
  • Hinduism: Advocates the cycle of samsara – birth, death, and rebirth – where one’s actions (karma) determine the nature of their next life. The ultimate goal is moksha, liberation from this cycle, merging the soul with the divine.
  • Christianity: Traditionally teaches about Heaven and Hell, where one’s soul goes after judgment based on their life’s deeds. Heaven is described as an eternal paradise, while Hell is a place of eternal separation from God.
  • Buddhism: Similar to Hinduism in the concept of rebirth, but with an emphasis on Nirvana, a state of liberation from the cycle of suffering where the self is extinguished.
  • Secular Modern Views: With the rise of scientific thought, many today consider death as the end of consciousness, where nothing follows, or perhaps a return to the energy and matter from which we came.

Scientific Speculations

While science cannot directly explore the afterlife due to its nature, there are intriguing studies:

  • Neuroscience: Some researchers study near-death experiences (NDEs), where individuals report sensations of leaving their bodies, moving through tunnels, or encountering light. These experiences are often attributed to brain activity under extreme stress or lack of oxygen, but they fuel speculation about what consciousness might be like after death.
  • Quantum Mechanics: Some fringe theories suggest consciousness could be a quantum phenomenon, potentially surviving death in some form, though this remains highly speculative and outside current scientific consensus.

Philosophical Considerations

Philosophers have long pondered:

  • Continuity of Self: If there’s an afterlife, how would one maintain personal identity? Would we recognize ourselves or others?
  • Ethical Implications: If there’s judgment after death, what does it imply about ethics in life? The idea of karma or divine judgment might influence our actions while alive.
  • The Nature of Time: Post-death existence might not be bound by time as we understand it, offering a different perception of past, present, and future.

Personal Experiences and Anecdotes

  • Near-Death Experiences: Stories from those who’ve clinically died and been revived add a personal dimension to the afterlife debate. These accounts often describe peace, a life review, or meeting deceased loved ones.
  • Mediumship and Spirit Communication: Though controversial, experiences with mediums or séances contribute to cultural narratives about communicating with the dead.

Conclusion

While we can’t visit the afterlife to report back, the tapestry of human belief, experience, and scientific inquiry paints a complex picture where every culture, religion, and individual might have their unique take on what lies beyond death. Whether it’s an eternal paradise, a cycle of rebirth, or simply a return to the cosmic soup, the mystery of what comes after death continues to intrigue, comfort, and challenge us.

In this exploration, we’ve barely scratched the surface of one of life’s greatest mysteries. Perhaps, in the end, the journey beyond death is not about the destination but the reflection it brings to our lives here and now. It challenges us to ponder the choices we make, the connections we foster, and the legacy we wish to leave behind. As we navigate our existence, we become intertwined with the experiences that shape our understanding of mortality, prompting us to appreciate the fleeting moments and cherish the relationships that enrich our lives. This contemplation of life and death invites us to embrace a deeper sense of purpose, urging us to live fully and authentically, knowing that each step we take is imbued with meaning and significance.

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Myself

For most of my life, I have tried to be something I was not, always feeling the heavy weight of expectations from those around me. Many times, throughout my journey, I heard phrases like “You should be like, whatever name you want to insert,” echoing in my mind. In my younger years, it was particularly striking; I would often hear, “you should be more like your brother.” The idea that I should mirror someone who is five years older than me seemed absurd at times. After all, each of us has our own unique path to walk. I guess I was a handful when I was young, full of energy and curiosity, eager to explore the world in my own way. Going to school, I faced similar sentiments from teachers and peers alike, hearing the same refrain: “You should be more like Johnny.” As if my worth could somehow be measured against his achievements or behavior. Even at church, the message was clear but stark; I was told I was a sinner and should strive to be more like the saints and apostles. These constant reminders emphasized the notion that I should mold myself into an ideal that fit neatly within the societal norms. Well, I got the picture; I should be somebody I am not and become someone who fulfills the criteria of those around me, fitting into a box that I never truly belonged in. Yet, deep inside, I yearned for the freedom to embrace my authentic self, to carve out my own identity free from the shadows of others.

My teenage years were very difficult for me. For some reason, I was angry and mad all the time, feeling as though a storm was brewing inside me, one that I couldn’t quite understand or control. I hated myself and my situation, constantly questioning my choices and my identity. Was it because I was trying to be somebody I was not, desperately seeking approval from my peers and struggling to find my place in the world, or was it just the hormonal change that everyone goes through during that age? The confusion often left me feeling isolated, as if I was trapped in a tumultuous sea with no way to swim to shore. Each day felt like a battle, where the weight of expectations bore down heavily on my shoulders, making it hard to breathe. Simple tasks like getting out of bed or wearing a smile seemed daunting, as if they required an energy I lacked. My relationships with family and friends began to fray at the seams, with misunderstandings and frustrations bubbling to the surface. One will never know if it was a combination of both, a perfect storm of teenage angst that shaped my experiences, but those years left a lasting imprint on my soul, instilling a sense of resilience in me that I would later learn to harness as I navigated adulthood.

I was drafted into the army later, and looking back now, I think this is one of the best things that happened to me in that period. This was in the Viet Nam era, but fortunately, my service period was served in Germany instead of Viet Nam, unlike the seven other men drafted on that day. They all went to Viet Nam, facing the uncertainty and dangers of a war-torn landscape. Why I went to Germany and not Viet Nam is something I will never know, and perhaps it was simply a twist of fate. In the service, you meet all kinds of people from many different areas of the country, bringing with them a rich tapestry of experiences and backgrounds. Because of that, I realized that the human race is not that bad; most people, despite their situations, are inherently good. All the ones I met were basically good and were just trying to get through the challenges in front of them, forging friendships that transcended our differences and shared struggles that created a bond that I still cherish to this day. The camaraderie formed during that time taught me invaluable lessons about empathy, understanding, and the importance of supporting one another, regardless of the circumstances we faced.

I have spent maybe two thirds of my life trying to be somebody that I am not. You may believe this or not, but one day I was taking a walk around the greenbelt near our home, which is a tranquil place filled with the rustling sounds of nature and the fresh scent of a small creek. There was nobody around, and I was just having some silent time to my own, allowing my thoughts to drift and my mind to clear. Suddenly, this loud voice came out and spoke, breaking the peaceful silence of my surroundings. “Tom, stop trying to be somebody else, just be yourself! Your purpose in life is to be yourself!” Those words echoed in my mind, touching something deep within me. After that profound event, I made the conscious decision to just be myself, embracing my true identity with all its complexities and imperfections. Since that time, I have been at peace and am genuinely enjoying simply being myself. I even like myself, flaws and all. This is one significant and positive change I have made in my life, a breakthrough that has opened up new avenues of self-acceptance and fulfillment that I had never experienced before.

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How Many Email Address’s Do You Have?


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The Accumulation of Email Addresses: A Modern Digital Phenomenon

In today’s digital age, the accumulation of email addresses by individuals has become a significant and widespread phenomenon. From personal to professional, and from temporary to permanent, the number of email addresses one might acquire can be quite extensive. Here’s a look at why and how people end up with multiple email addresses.

Why Multiple Email Addresses?

  1. Personal Use:
    • Primary Personal Email: Most individuals start with one email address for general personal use, which might be used for social media, personal correspondence, or shopping.
    • Spam Management: Many people create additional email addresses specifically for less important or potentially spam-generating activities, like signing up for newsletters or online promotions.
  2. Professional Needs:
    • Work Email: Employment often necessitates a professional email address provided by the company. This can change with each job or even within the same company as one’s role evolves.
    • Freelancers and Entrepreneurs: Those with multiple gigs or businesses might have separate emails for each venture to keep their professional communications organized.
  3. Privacy and Security:
    • Disposable Emails: For privacy concerns or to avoid spam, people might use services that offer temporary email addresses that can be discarded after use.
    • Activity-Specific Emails: Some prefer different emails for different types of online activities (e.g., one for banking, another for gaming).
  4. Educational Purposes:
    • Student Emails: Educational institutions often provide email addresses to students which might be used for academic purposes and then abandoned or retained for alumni networks.
  5. Digital Footprint Reduction:
    • Anonymous Use: Creating new email addresses can help manage one’s digital footprint, allowing individuals to segment their online presence for different purposes without cross-contamination of personal data.

How Many is Too Many?

The number of email addresses one might acquire can vary widely:

  • Minimalists: Some might stick to just one or two email addresses, valuing simplicity and ease of management.
  • Average Users: Many might have between three to five, covering personal, work, and perhaps a couple for privacy or spam management.
  • Digital Enthusiasts: Tech-savvy or privacy-conscious individuals might have upwards of ten or more, tailored for specific uses or to maintain anonymity across different platforms.

Management Challenges

With each email address comes the challenge of management:

  • Password Management: Keeping track of passwords for multiple accounts.
  • Email Overload: The risk of information overload, where managing multiple inboxes becomes a task in itself.
  • Identity Consistency: Ensuring that the use of different emails does not lead to confusion or loss of important communications.

In conclusion, the proliferation of email addresses in one’s digital life reflects not just the expansion of personal and professional spheres but also an increased awareness of privacy, security, and digital management needs. While having multiple email addresses serves various practical purposes, it also demands a level of organization and vigilance to ensure that each serves its intended purpose without overwhelming the user. As digital practices evolve, so too will the strategies for handling the myriad emails that populate our inboxes, turning the management of email addresses into an art form of the digital era.

My most Memorable Compliment

When my son was growing up, during his teenage years, he was a typical teenager who thought he had all the answers to life’s questions and challenges. His confidence often led him to make bold decisions that sometimes worried me, as I recognized the turbulent nature of that age. He navigated through those challenging years with a mix of rebellion and curiosity, learning valuable lessons along the way about responsibility and the complexities of life. As he faced conflicts with friends, fluctuating emotions, and the pressures of schoolwork, I watched him grow into a more understanding and resilient young man. Through it all, I was there to support him, guiding him gently when needed, while also allowing him the space to learn from his experiences and mistakes. Ultimately, he made it through those challenging years, emerging wiser and more mature, with a clearer understanding of the world around him.

Somewhere when he was near twenty-five, he said to me, “Dad, I am just amazed how smart and wise you became in the last ten years. I often find myself recalling the lessons you’ve shared over the years, from your stories of perseverance to your insights on life and relationships. Your experiences have shaped not only your character but have also left a profound impact on my outlook. I hope to carry some of that wisdom into my own life as I step into adulthood and encounter my own trials and triumphs. As I face new challenges, I will remember your words of encouragement and the way you approached life’s obstacles with resilience and grace. I will strive to pass on these valuable lessons to my children, if I have any, because I believe that sharing this knowledge will help shape their understanding of the world and equip them to navigate their own paths.”

This was the best compliment I could have ever received. It made my day, lighting up my spirits and filling me with an overwhelming sense of joy and gratitude. Every detail of that moment is etched in my memory, and I still remember it after 25 years, as if it happened just yesterday.

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National Debt Information

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The U.S. National Debt is the total money the federal government owes to various creditors, including individuals, companies, foreign governments, and even parts of itself like Social Security trust funds. It results from the government spending more than it earns in taxes and borrowing to make up the difference.

The national debt is likely hovering around or exceeding $36 trillion, based on its trajectory in recent years—it crossed $34 trillion in early 2024. The exact figure fluctuates daily due to new borrowing, interest payments, and economic conditions, but you can think of it as a massive IOU that’s grown over decades.

The government borrows by issuing Treasury securities—bonds, bills, and notes—that investors, including banks, pension funds, and foreign countries like Japan and China, purchase. A significant portion (around $7-8 trillion) is “intragovernmental debt,” where one part of the government owes another, such as loans from Social Security surpluses.

The debt increases due to budget deficits: when yearly spending exceeds income. For instance, in fiscal year 2023, the deficit was about $1.7 trillion, mainly due to expenses for defense, healthcare (Medicare/Medicaid), and interest on existing debt, along with lower tax revenue. Deficits usually rise during crises—like wars, economic downturns, or pandemics—as seen with the over $3 trillion deficits for COVID-19 relief in 2020-2021.

Breaking It Down

  • Debt-to-GDP Ratio: A key metric. It’s over 120% of GDP (around $28 trillion), meaning the debt is greater than the economy’s annual output. For context, it was 35% in 1980, 60% in 2000, and increased after the 2008 financial crisis and the 2020 pandemic.
  • Interest Costs: The government pays interest on its debt, and rising rates have made this more expensive. In 2023, interest payments reached about $660 billion a year—more than the defense budget—and could exceed $1 trillion if rates remain high or debt increases.
  • Public vs. Total Debt: The “public debt” (owed to outside creditors) is about 75% of the total. The rest is that intragovernmental piece.

Pros: Borrowing allows the government to pay for essential projects—like roads and stimulus—without raising taxes right away. It has helped keep the U.S. economy stable, as the dollar’s status as a global reserve currency makes Treasuries a reliable investment.

Cons: Critics say it’s unsustainable. If interest costs eat up too much of the budget, it squeezes out other priorities. Plus, future generations inherit the tab. Some warn of a tipping point where creditors lose faith, though that’s debated since the U.S. can print dollars (unlike, say, Greece).

Hawks: “We’re drowning in debt! Cut spending or hike taxes now!”

Doves: “Relax, low rates and dollar dominance mean we can handle it. Focus on growth.”

Reality: Congress keeps kicking the can, raising the debt ceiling (119 times since 1944) rather than solving it. Last big standoff was 2023; next one’s brewing.

In short, the national debt is a giant, complex machine—part lifeline, part ticking clock. It’s not “good” or “bad” in isolation; it’s about how it’s managed. It must be dealt with sooner than later. What would happen to you if the country went bankrupt?

Irish for a Day

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March 17th is St. Patrick’s Day, a celebration tied to St. Patrick, the patron saint of Ireland, who’s credited with bringing Christianity to the island in the 5th century. The “everyone becomes Irish” thing is a modern, mostly American twist. It started with Irish immigrants in the U.S., especially in cities like Boston and New York, where they threw parades and parties to flex their identity in the face of discrimination during the 19th century. By the mid-20th century, it morphed into a cultural free-for-all—bars, beer, and shamrocks for everyone, Irish or not. Today, it’s less about heritage and more about a shared vibe: 2023 stats show 32 million Americans claim Irish ancestry, but millions more join the party anyway. It’s a globalized excuse to let loose, with over 150 countries hosting events.

The green connection is simpler but layered. Ireland’s nickname, the Emerald Isle, comes from its lush landscapes—think rolling hills and damp cliffs. Early Irish folklore tied green to nature spirits like leprechauns, and by the 18th century, it became a nationalist color. During the 1798 rebellion, the United Irishmen waved green flags against British rule (red back then for the Brits). St. Patrick’s Day picked up green as a symbol of Irish pride, especially in the diaspora. Fun fact: St. Patrick was originally linked to blue—early church art shows him in blue robes—but green overtook it by the 19th century, cemented by shamrocks (which he supposedly used to explain the Trinity). Now it’s everywhere: green beer, green rivers (Chicago’s been dyeing theirs since 1962), green hats. Marketing sealed the deal—green sells the holiday.

So, everyone “becomes Irish” during festive occasions because it’s a contagious cultural meme that transcends borders, embracing a spirit of unity and celebration that is both inviting and infectious. This transformation is not merely about donning green attire; it symbolizes a deeper connection to Ireland’s rich heritage and traditions, evoking images of rolling emerald hills and vibrant community gatherings. Green, as the chosen uniform, serves as Ireland’s badge of honor, representing not only the lush landscapes of the country but also the resilience and pride of its people, and as such, resonates with those who partake in the festivities, fostering a sense of belonging and joyful camaraderie among revelers worldwide.

Negative Actions

Dealing with negative feelings can be tough. Here’s a rundown of the approaches that helps me.

  1. Acknowledge What I’m Feeling
    Don’t shove it down or pretend it’s not there. Name it—anger, sadness, frustration, whatever it is. Recognizing it can take away some of its power and help you figure out what’s driving it.
  2. Talk or Write It Out
    I talk to someone I trust, and vent to them. No one around? I Grab my laptop and dump my thoughts there. It doesn’t have to make sense—just let it flow. Sometimes seeing it outside my head makes it less overwhelming.
  3. I Distract myself
    I Dive into something that pulls my attention—I may try watching a war movie. For some reason I have a strong interest in the stress of WWII in Europe. I may go take a brisk walk and do a little huffing and puffing. I have been known to throw things or scream and yell. I have been told I am scary when I get mad. So, I try hard to contain anger feelings.
  4. Take a nap
    When it’s intense, I slow down, fortunately I go to sleep very easily and wake up refreshed and relaxed. Many times, after a short nap, my feelings have calmed down, allowing me to regain focus and clarity. I find that this simple act of resting not only rejuvenates my body but also helps to reset my mind, providing a much-needed pause.
  5. Cut Yourself Some Slack
    Negative feelings are a natural part of life. They do not signify weakness or failure. Allow yourself to experience these emotions without the burden of guilt for not maintaining a “positive” mindset at all times. It’s not about solving every issue; it’s about recognizing that you have some control. Remember, we are human, and perfection is not the goal.

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Here is Where I Spend a Lot of Time

For the last two years, this is where I spend more time than any other thing I do, engaging deeply with the activities and relationships that have enriched my life, discovering new interests, and continuously learning from my experiences; it has become not just a routine but a vital part of my daily existence.

I have learned a lot in this venture. All your life you learn, and this adventure is no different; in fact, it has been a profound journey of discovery and growth. Podcasting has emerged as the buzzword of the day, capturing the interest of audiences worldwide. Therefore, I have inserted an audio podcast into each posting, allowing me to connect more intimately with my audience. I do not use my own voice for the same reason I do not sing. My podcast page has remarkably become the most popular destination on my website, drawing in listeners and fostering a community around shared interests. I am amazed at the podcast downloads that have surged, illustrating the power of engaging content. Additionally, linking to other pages or reputable websites has become a popular feature; these hyperlinks enrich the experience for my readers, making each posting more interesting and informative. Furthermore, the ability to change the size of an image enhances the visual appeal of my posts, allowing for a more personalized touch. One must note that the introduction of AI (artificial intelligence) has opened up exciting new possibilities and has become another powerful tool in my ever-expanding toolbox, enabling me to refine my content and improve engagement. This combination of innovation and creativity continues to drive my passion for blogging and sharing knowledge.

I do this for fun. I am retired and not tied to worrying about having enough income to pay monthly bills or provide for growing children. I am selling nothing on my website; rather, I view it as a creative outlet where I can share my experiences and reflections. I am just exposing my life, adventures, and thoughts to the cyber community, hoping to inspire or entertain others along the way. Maybe if I ever have many thousands of subscribers, I may try to generate a small source of income, but that is not my primary focus. The satisfaction I get is the comments and likes I receive from my subscribers, which motivate me to continue sharing my journey, knowing that my words resonate with others and contribute to a sense of connection within this vast digital landscape.

No one knows how long this ride will continue. It may go for ten years or end tomorrow when my time on earth is over. As long as I am able, I will be here commenting about anything that piques my curiosity or inspires my thoughts. Whether it’s a fleeting moment of joy, a profound insight, or even a mundane occurrence that strikes a chord, my reflections will find their way to this platform. One will never know what my next blog will be about, and therein lies the excitement of this journey; each post is an opportunity to explore new ideas, engage with my audience in unexpected ways, and contribute to an ever-evolving tapestry of experiences and perspectives that we all share in this digital realm.

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The Algorithmic Symphony

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Algorithms are everywhere, quietly steering your day-to-day life in ways you might not even notice. They’re not just tech buzzwords—they shape what you see, hear, buy, and even how you move through the world. From the moment you wake up and check your smartphone, algorithms curate your news feed, filtering information based on your interests and past behavior. They play a pivotal role in guiding your shopping decisions, determining which products are highlighted based on your search history and preferences. When you engage with social media, algorithms influence the posts you encounter, often prioritizing content that resonates with your psychological tendencies or emotional state. Here’s how they can affect you, grounded in real stuff: they analyze patterns to improve your experience, but also to serve advertisers, creating a cycle where your personal data is constantly collected and used to predict your actions before you even realize you’re making a choice.

  1. What You See Online: Ever scroll X, TikTok, or YouTube and feel like it’s reading your mind? That’s algorithms at work. They analyze your likes, clicks, and watch time to feed you content—sometimes keeping you hooked longer than you planned or nudging you toward certain ideas.
  2. Shopping and Spending: Amazon’s “People who bought this also bought…” or price changes on flight tickets? Algorithms. They track your habits, predict what you’ll buy, and sometimes tweak prices based on demand or your browsing history. Ever notice ads following you after a search? That’s them too.
  3. Getting Around: Google Maps or Waze doesn’t just show you roads—it runs algorithms to dodge traffic, estimate arrival times, and suggest detours. Miss a turn, and it recalculates fast. Your commute’s smoother (or not) because of it.
  4. Entertainment: Netflix, Spotify, or gaming matchmaking (like in Call of Duty) use algorithms to pick your next show, song, or opponent. They’re guessing what keeps you engaged—sometimes nailing it, sometimes pushing that one weird movie you’ll never watch.
  5. Work and Money: Job applications? Algorithms might scan your resume before a human does, deciding if you make the cut. Investing? Trading algorithms move markets faster than you can blink, affecting stock prices or your robo-advisor’s picks.
  6. Big Picture Stuff: Algorithms can influence elections (targeted ads), health (diagnosing diseases via AI), or even law enforcement (predictive policing). They’re not perfect—bias in data can lead to unfair outcomes, like rejecting qualified people or amplifying echo chambers. In many cases, these biases can perpetuate systemic issues, deepening divides within society and making it crucial for us to scrutinize and regulate how these algorithms are developed and employed, ensuring they serve the greater good without compromising fairness and equality.

How Algorithms Censor

  1. Content Filtering: Platforms like X, YouTube, or Facebook use algorithms to flag or hide stuff that breaks their rules—think hate speech, nudity, or misinformation. An algorithm might scan your post for keywords (e.g., slurs or “vaccine lies”) and either bury it (reduce visibility) or yank it entirely. X’s got a history of “shadow banning”—where your tweets don’t show up as much if they trip certain triggers.
  2. Personalization Gone Wild: Algorithms tailor what you see based on your data—clicks, likes, location. If they think you won’t like or shouldn’t see something (say, political takes they deem “unsafe”), it might not hit your feed. This isn’t always “censorship” in the evil overlord sense—it’s often just them guessing what keeps you scrolling—but it still limits your view.
  3. Ad and Money Pressure: Algorithms prioritize what makes cash. If a post or video gets demonetized (e.g., YouTube flagging “controversial” content), it’s less likely to surface. Creators self-censor too, dodging topics that tank their reach. You see less of the raw stuff as a result.
  4. Government or Legal Push: In some places, algorithms block content to comply with local laws—think China’s Great Firewall or EU hate speech regs. Even in freer spots, X might throttle posts if a court order or copyright claim (DMCA) hits.

Does It Affect You?

Yep. you might not see every reply to a viral post—some get muted for “low quality” (algorithm speak for “we don’t like this”). Search “raw” topics (say, war footage), and results might lean sanitized or skewed, depending on the platform’s lens. Ever feel like the internet’s hiding the good stuff? That’s the censorship vibe kicking in.

The Flip Side

Not all “censorship” is bad—spam, scams, and gore get filtered so you don’t drown in trash. But the line’s blurry. One person’s “misinfo” is another’s truth, and algorithms aren’t great at nuance—they’re blunt tools enforcing someone’s rules.

They’re tools, not gods. A good algorithm saves time; a bad one wastes it or screws you over. If a site algorithm buries your posts because you don’t engage enough, or a loan algorithm flags you unfairly, you feel the sting. But when Spotify nails your playlist? You’re vibing.

Point is, they’re not just affecting your life—they’re shaping it, for better or worse, based on data and design. AI and algorithms are here to stay, time to get used to it and accept it.

Plagiarism and AI

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Using AI to generate content does not inherently constitute plagiarism, but the context and manner of use are crucial: it is essential to understand that while AI can produce text that is original in structure and form, the ideas or themes expressed may still reflect the vast array of existing works from which the AI has learned. Therefore, creators must take responsibility to ensure that the content generated aligns with ethical standards, acknowledges sources where necessary, and respects intellectual property rights. Additionally, the clarity of intent and the transparency of usage play a significant role in distinguishing between acceptable use and potential misappropriation, emphasizing the importance of thoughtful engagement with AI technology in content creation.

  • Plagiarism typically involves passing off someone else’s work or ideas as your own without proper acknowledgment. If AI generates content based on existing data or patterns from the internet or other sources, and you present that content as your own without citation, one could argue it’s akin to plagiarism.
  • AI as a Tool: If you use AI as a tool — much like you would use grammar checkers, thesauruses, or translation services — to assist in creating or enhancing your own original work, it’s generally not considered plagiarism. However, transparency about the use of AI might be necessary, especially in academic or professional settings where originality and citation practices are strictly evaluated.
  • Disclosure: In many contexts, especially academic or journalistic ones, it’s becoming standard practice to disclose the use of AI in content creation. This is similar to crediting a co-author or acknowledging assistance from others.
  • Copyright and Ownership: Another layer to consider is copyright law, which can be complex with AI-generated content. Who owns the content created by AI — the user, the AI developer, or is it considered public domain? This depends on jurisdiction, specific terms of service of AI tools, and how the content is used.
  • Ethical Considerations: Even if not legally plagiarism, there are ethical considerations. If you’re using AI to generate content for an essay, exam, or any form where the expectation is for human-produced work, it could be seen as dishonest.

To summarize:

  • Using AI isn’t plagiarism by default, but:
    • Presenting AI-generated content as entirely your own work without proper disclosure can be considered unethical or even plagiarism in certain contexts, such as academic settings or professional environments where originality is highly valued.
    • Always check the norms or rules of the specific environment where you’re using AI (e.g., academic policies, workplace guidelines, or publishing standards) to ensure compliance and ethical use.
    • If in doubt, it’s best to disclose the use of AI in your work, similar to how you would cite any other source or assistance, to maintain transparency and integrity in your writing and avoid potential repercussions.

Remember, the ethical and legal landscape around AI in content creation is still evolving, so staying informed about current practices and norms is key. As technology advances and the use of artificial intelligence becomes more prevalent in the creative industries, it is crucial to understand not only the legal implications regarding copyright and ownership but also the ethical considerations involved. Engaging in ongoing education through webinars, articles, and discussions within professional communities can help ensure that creators not only protect their work but also contribute positively to a rapidly changing environment where collaboration between human creativity and machine intelligence is increasingly common.

AI is one of the tools I use.

Am I Superstitious?

Am I superstitious? Well, let’s see.

Knocking on Wood: People still say “knock on wood” to ward off jinxing themselves after mentioning good fortune—like hoping a job interview goes well. It’s rooted in ancient beliefs about spirits living in trees, but today it’s more of a casual reflex. You’ll hear it in offices, homes, even on podcasts. On occasion I have been known to knock on wood.

Friday the 13th: This remains a big one. Some avoid major decisions or travel on this day, fearing bad luck. It’s tied to the number 13’s ominous rep (think elevators skipping the 13th floor in buildings) and Friday’s association with misfortune in Christian lore. Horror movies keep it alive—Jason Voorhees still haunts the collective psyche. I have thought about this, but I never changed anything because of that date. My oldest son was born on Friday the 13th and that was not bad luck

Crossing Fingers: Wishing for luck by crossing your fingers is everywhere—before tests, games, or even lottery ticket scratches. It’s a holdover from early Christian gestures for divine favor, now secularized into a quick “hope this works” move. I am guilty of this.

Black Cats: Crossing paths with a black cat still spooks some, especially around Halloween. Shelters report lower adoption rates for them because of the lingering “bad luck” stigma from witch-hunting days, though younger generations seem less fazed. I have heard of this, and a few times one has crossed my path, but I didn’t think much about it.

Spilling Salt: Tossing a pinch of salt over your left shoulder after spilling it persists in some households. It’s from the idea that salt was once precious and spilling it invited the devil—countered by blinding him with a throw. More common among older folks or in superstitious families. A few times I jokingly threw salt over the shoulder.

Beginner’s Luck: The belief that newbies have an edge—like winning at poker or slots on their first try—is alive in casinos and sports bars. It’s less a ritual and more an expectation, but it shapes how people approach games. Yes, I have played new games and just said, it is just beginners’ luck

Avoiding “Jinxing” It: Saying “don’t jinx it” when someone predicts success—like a sports team winning—reflects a modern twist on superstition. It’s big in fandom culture; think baseball fans refusing to mention a no-hitter in progress. Never thought of this much.

Lucky Pennies: “Find a penny, pick it up, all day long you’ll have good luck” still has traction. Kids and some adults grab coins off the sidewalk, though inflation’s made pennies less thrilling. Oh, my wife always says this, so I started saying it.

Mirrors and Umbrellas: Breaking a mirror (seven years bad luck) or opening an umbrella indoors still gets a wince from some. These are fading with younger crowds, but you’ll catch them in rural areas or among those with “old school” grandparents. When I was young It was the big item.

Sports Superstitions: These are huge. Fans wear the same unwashed jersey for every game, or players follow precise pre-game rituals—like LeBron James tossing chalk or baseballers avoiding stepping on foul lines. The 2025 Super Bowl probably saw plenty of lucky socks and barstool traditions. Nothing here, never was much of a sports fan.

Superstitions in the United States today are a mix of old traditions carried over from various cultural influences—European folklore, African diaspora beliefs, Native American customs—and newer quirks shaped by modern life. While many Americans might not take them too seriously, they often linger in habits, phrases, or knee-jerk reactions, subtly influencing decisions and interactions. For example, individuals might avoid walking under ladders or breaking mirrors, fearing bad luck, even if they don’t fully believe in the underlying myth. Additionally, the act of tossing salt over one’s left shoulder or knocking on wood has become so ingrained in everyday vernacular that it often occurs unconsciously. As we navigate through life’s uncertainties and challenges, these superstitions provide a sense of comfort and control, acting as little rituals that help people cope with life.

In conclusion, I would say I am superstitious, but I never let a superstition change or lead my life. Instead, I view these beliefs as intriguing cultural artifacts that give insight into human psychology and our shared history. While sometimes I find myself acknowledging certain rituals or omens, they serve more as whimsical traditions rather than guiding principles; I prefer to take charge of my decisions and paths, ensuring that my actions are based on rational thought and personal values rather than unfounded fears or expectations. This balance allows me to enjoy the rich tapestry of beliefs around me without becoming a prisoner to them.

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Ramblings Magazine Issue #10

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Politics Today

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The political atmosphere in the United States is marked by deep polarization, widespread dissatisfaction, and heightened tension, creating an environment where constructive dialogue is increasingly rare. Many Americans feel exhausted and disillusioned with the political system, perceiving it as riddled with inefficiencies and corruption, with only a small minority believing it functions well. This sentiment has been exacerbated by the proliferation of partisan media that amplifies divisions rather than uniting perspectives. As a result, the electorate grapples with feelings of helplessness and frustration, leading to a pervasive sense of alienation from elected officials who seem disconnected from the everyday struggles of their constituents. Consequently, this growing discontent fuels calls for systemic change, as citizens increasingly demand political leaders who genuinely represent their interests and prioritize the common good over party allegiance.

Trust in government institutions, including the federal government and the Supreme Court, is at historic lows, driven by perceptions of dysfunction, partisan gridlock, and the influence of special interests. As citizens observe an increasing inability for lawmakers to reach consensus on critical issues, many feel disillusioned about the efficacy of these institutions meant to serve the public good. This skepticism is further compounded by the perception that decisions made by the Supreme Court are often swayed by political considerations rather than impartial justice, leading to a growing divide between the populace and the entities designed to protect their rights. Consequently, as trust erodes, civic engagement and participation in democratic processes also decline, creating a troubling cycle where the very foundations of governance are undermined, leaving citizens questioning the legitimacy and motives of those in power.

Political discourse is increasingly divisive, with both major parties—Democrats and Republicans—drifting further apart ideologically, fueled by extreme candidates and a lack of compromise in Congress. This polarization is not only evident in election campaigning but also in the way members of Congress interact and negotiate on key issues affecting the nation. As debates become more intense and bipartisan cooperation wanes, the ability to foster dialogue and achieve consensus diminishes, leading to legislative gridlock that frustrates citizens who seek meaningful change. Consequently, many voters feel disillusioned, as they witness the widening gap between party platforms, creating a political environment where moderates struggle to find common ground and alternative voices are often drowned out by the cacophony of partisanship.

Public sentiment reflects frustration with prolonged, uninformative election cycles and a growing sense that elected officials prioritize self-interest over problem-solving. Many citizens feel disconnected from the political process, as they witness endless debates that often lack substantial policy discussions. This disillusionment is compounded by a perception that campaign promises are routinely sidelined once candidates assume office. As a result, voters increasingly crave transparency and accountability, hoping for leaders who will genuinely listen to their concerns and take meaningful action to address pressing societal issues. It is this collective yearning for authentic engagement and change that fuels a deeper unrest among the electorate.

Despite high voter turnout in recent elections, this engagement appears driven more by fear and anger than optimism, with many viewing the stakes as existential for their side. The prevailing sentiment among voters suggests that they feel compelled to act in response to the perceived threats to their values, rights, and livelihoods, often fueled by divisive rhetoric and sensationalized media coverage. As a result, the political landscape has become increasingly polarized, with individuals rallying behind candidates and parties that resonate with their fears rather than a hopeful vision for the future. This environment not only diminishes the possibility of constructive dialogue but also fosters a reactive approach to governance, where decisions are made in the heat of emotional response rather than through thoughtful consideration of long-term impact.

Globally, similar trends of polarization and unease are evident, though specifics vary by region; in some areas, political divisions have intensified due to socio-economic factors, while in others, cultural clashes have emerged as primary drivers of tension. As communities grapple with differing ideologies and beliefs, the resulting discord often leads to a heightened sense of insecurity and conflict, further complicating efforts toward unity and understanding across diverse populations.

Overall, the atmosphere is one of unease, mistrust, and a struggle for political direction amidst competing visions for the future, as various factions grapple with divergent ideologies and varying priorities that clash with one another. This pervasive sense of uncertainty has led to a palpable tension within the community, further exacerbated by the ongoing debates regarding policies and leadership that seem to divide rather than unite the populace. As different groups advocate for their distinct perspectives, the public finds itself caught in a maze of conflicting narratives, creating a breeding ground for discontent and skepticism toward those in power. It is sad that a country that has so much is so divided.

Letter to Me at 100

Dear 100-Year-Old Tom

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Hello from the TomT 2.0-man cave on March 10, 2025! I’m sitting here, imagining me at 100—hopefully still kicking, maybe with a few more wrinkles and a lot more stories. I don’t know where I am as I read this—maybe in a cozy chair with a cup of tea, or maybe in some high-tech pod with a robot nurse. Either way, I hope I am smiling.

Right now, I’m over 80 years old, living through a time that feels like a reality show gone wild! The world’s a crazy circus—debates about AI taking over our jobs, climate change melting our ice cream, and space travel like a never-ending game of ‘Where’s Waldo’ are everywhere. I can’t help but wonder what you’ve been up to since then. Did we finally figure out how to live sustainably, or did we just build a giant hamster wheel to solve climate change? Did people really hop on a rocket to Mars, or is that just another episode of “The Binge-Worthy Space Adventures”? Or did we somehow manage to surprise ourselves with something even more bonkers?

I hope you’re proud of what you are trying to do now, as it requires immense courage and determination. I’m genuinely curious about the journey you’ve embarked on and I’d love to know how it all turned out in the end. Did I take the risks I’m thinking about, the ones that can seem daunting but ultimately lead to growth? Did I let go of the stuff that’s weighing you down, both physically and emotionally, allowing yourself the freedom to soar into new opportunities? Embracing change can be challenging, yet it’s often necessary to reach our full potential and to discover who we truly are.

What’s life like at 100? Are you surrounded by family, friends, or maybe some cool new tech that keeps you company, like virtual reality experiences that let you revisit cherished memories? I hope you’ve got a few good laughs left in you—perhaps funny anecdotes from your younger days that never fail to bring a smile. And maybe you have a piece of advice for the younger generation, who are still sweating the small stuff in 2025; it’s important to remind them to cherish each moment, focus on what truly matters, and savor the beauty in life’s simplicities. After all, every wrinkle and grey hair tells a story, and your wisdom could help shape the future for those who come after you.

Take care, future me! I’m rooting for us to make it to you in one piece, preferably without any embarrassing falls or fashion faux pas. May your life be overflowing with memories worth keeping, filled with laughter, misadventures, and a million lessons learned—like never eat that weird street food again! Here’s to the years ahead—may they be as kind as your favorite pillow and as wild as a cat on a caffeine rush, embracing every twist and turn life throws our way, and savoring the quiet moments as much as those wild parties we probably won’t remember. I hope we remember to relish the little things, find joy in unexpected places, and never lose sight of our dreams.

With hope,
TomT 2.0

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Daylight savings Time Shift

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Interesting about the Monday after Daylight Savings time shift.

The rumor that the Monday after the spring Daylight Saving Time (DST) shift has the highest number of heart attacks in the year has some basis in research, but it’s not entirely accurate to say it’s the “highest” day of the year without context. While various studies have pointed to an increase in heart-related incidents during this time, likely due to the sudden loss of an hour’s sleep and the subsequent stress that follows, it’s important to consider that other factors also play a significant role in these statistics. For instance, lifestyle choices, the prevalence of chronic conditions, and overall health can greatly influence heart attack rates. Additionally, analyzing heart attack incidents over a longer time frame or in relation to other times of the year presents a more comprehensive picture. Let’s break it down with the facts:

Studies have shown a noticeable increase in heart attacks following the spring DST transition, when clocks move forward an hour and sleep is lost. For example, a study from Michigan, analyzing hospital admissions from 2010 to 2013, found a 24% increase in heart attacks on the Monday after the spring shift compared to other Mondays throughout the year. This spike is attributed to the disruption of the body’s circadian rhythm due to losing an hour of sleep, combined with the general trend of heart attacks being more common on Mondays due to workweek stress. Similarly, research from Finland noted an 8% increase in ischemic strokes in the first two days post-shift, reinforcing the idea of a short-term cardiovascular impact. Further evidence suggests that the physiological effects of sleep deprivation can lead to increased blood pressure and heightened levels of stress hormones, both of which may exacerbate underlying heart conditions. Additionally, the shock to our internal clocks has been associated with a range of health issues beyond just heart disease, including mood disorders and metabolic disturbances. As such, the twice-yearly clock change not only affects individual health but may also pose broader public health challenges that warrant deeper investigation and consideration.

However, the claim that this specific Monday has the “highest number of heart attacks for the year” isn’t fully supported. Heart attack rates tend to peak seasonally in winter months (like February) due to factors like cold weather and higher blood pressure, not necessarily tied to DST. In fact, research indicates that the cold can constrict blood vessels and raise the risk of heart-related incidents, exacerbated by the pressure of holiday stress and lifestyle changes during the end-of-year festivities. The 24% increase is significant compared to an average Monday, but it doesn’t necessarily make it the single deadliest day annually—other Mondays or days with extreme weather or holidays (like post-Christmas) might see higher raw numbers depending on the year and region. Moreover, the cumulative effect of various factors, such as an individual’s health history, stress levels, and the overall availability of healthcare during these times, also plays a crucial role in determining heart attack occurrences, highlighting the complexity of this issue. Thus, while there are observable trends, a broader perspective is essential for understanding the risks associated with specific dates or events.

On the flip side, when clocks “fall back” in autumn, studies show a corresponding 21% decrease in heart attacks the following Tuesday, suggesting the extra sleep has a protective effect on individuals’ cardiovascular health. This notable reduction in heart attacks highlights the significant role that sleep plays in the overall well-being of individuals, allowing their bodies to rejuvenate and recover after the stresses of daily life. Furthermore, this phenomenon sheds light on the importance of proper sleep patterns and how they can influence bodily functions. This symmetry supports the idea that sleep disruption, not just the day itself, drives the spring increase in heart-related incidents, underscoring the necessity for adequate rest and the potential consequences of sleep deprivation as we transition into and out of daylight saving time.

So, it turns out the rumor is not just a tall tale: the Monday following the spring DST shift really does see a heart attack increase—about 24% more than your average Monday! This is thanks to folks grappling with their sleep schedules like it’s a game of Twister. The sudden time change throws us all into a tizzy, leaving us bleary-eyed and stressed out. Researchers say this chaos can hit hard, especially for those with heart conditions who might as well be wearing a “please worry about me” sign. But let’s not crown it as the “highest” heart attack day of the year—it’s more like that annoying acquaintance who shows up uninvited rather than an all-out party. The spike is real and backed by science, just not the record-breaker the gossip mill suggests. So, let’s all be smart and take some steps to dodge this time-warping heart attack party by keeping our sleep habits in check and managing stress like a pro before the clock does its little dance! Or maybe stop this time change all together.

No Meaning Whatsoever.

When my mother was carrying me, Pearl Harbor happened on December 7, 1941, marking a pivotal moment in history that would change the world forever. I was born in March 1942, just a few months after this event, during a time when the nation was reeling from the shock of war. My parents, like many others, faced the uncertainty of the future, compounded by the military draft that had been instituted to bolster the armed forces. They went to the local newspaper to read through the names of those being drafted, a ritual that many families engaged in to see if their loved ones were called. Among the names listed, they came across the name Thomas Lee, which resonated with them for reasons they couldn’t fully articulate. They found it to be a name that carried a sense of strength and resilience. Therefore, my middle name does not carry any special meaning or significance beyond the simple choice that came from a moment of reflection during tumultuous times, reflecting how life’s circumstances can influence even the smallest details of our existence.

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End of the Line

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suspense story set on a train: 

The 11:47 p.m. express rattled through the night, its wheels screeching against the tracks as mist clung to the windows, blurring the patchy landscape beyond. I sat alone in the dimly lit car, the only passenger except for a man in a gray coat two rows ahead, shrouded in a shadow created by the flickering overhead lights. His head was bowed, hands folded in his lap, still as stone, a haunting figure amongst the empty seats. Outside, the rhythmic patter of rain began to fall, merging with the train’s incessant clattering—clack-clack, clack-clack—should’ve lulled me to sleep, but instead, a knot of unease tightened in my stomach. The air was thick with the scent of damp wood and metal, amplifying the isolation I felt in this moving coffin, and despite the familiarity of the sound, an instinctual dread settled over me, making it clear that something felt off.

I’d noticed him when I boarded, sitting in the corner shrouded in shadows. He hadn’t moved, hadn’t spoken, hadn’t even glanced at the conductor who’d passed through an hour ago, his feet firmly planted on the floor as if he were rooted there. The air grew colder, wrapping around me like an unwelcome blanket, and the lights flickered intermittently, casting eerie shadows that danced along the walls. I told myself it was nothing—just a late-night train rumbling through the darkness, an overactive imagination running wild after too many ghost stories—but then I saw it: a faint drip beneath his seat. Dark. Red. It pooled slowly, a sinister reminder that not everything is as it seems in the stillness of the night, and my heart raced as the weight of dread settled in my chest, urging me to look away, yet somehow compelling me to stay.

My stomach twisted with anxiety, an unsettling feeling that crept up as I stood, edging cautiously toward the aisle, when suddenly the train lurched violently, throwing me back into my seat with alarming force. The lights died completely, plunging us into an abyss of darkness, the only source of illumination being the ghostly moonlight that filtered through the fogged windows, casting jagged shadows that danced ominously across the carriage. Clack-clack, clack-clack. The rhythmic sound of the train’s wheels on the tracks echoed in the silence, heightening my tension. I held my breath, straining to peer at the figure of the man across the aisle, his face obscured by shadows. He hadn’t flinched, seemingly unfazed by the chaos surrounding us, and that unsettling calm only deepened my unease, making me wonder what secrets he held in the depths of the night.

Then, slowly, his head turned. Not his body—just his head, swiveling unnaturally until his pale face locked onto mine with a chilling intensity. His eyes were wide, unblinking, as if frozen in a moment of eternal dread, and his lips parted in a thin, crooked smile that sent a shiver down my spine. The dripping grew louder, a steady pat-pat-pat against the floor, echoing in the sudden silence that filled the air around us. I scrambled for my phone, hands shaking uncontrollably, heart racing as terror washed over me, but the screen wouldn’t light despite my frantic jabs. The train sped up, the clacking now a frantic roar that drowned out all rational thought, making it feel like my very sanity was being swept away with each relentless beat. I could feel the weight of his gaze piercing through me, and I could not escape the dreadful realization that I was utterly alone in this speeding metal cage.

“Next stop,” a voice crackled over the intercom, distorted and guttural, “is yours.” The words hung in the air, echoing through the dimly lit cabin as anticipation coursed through the passengers. Each traveler exchanged glances filled with curiosity and a hint of apprehension, their minds racing with thoughts of where this next destination might lead. The vehicle slowed, the faint rumble of the engine softening to a gentle hum, while outside the window, shadows loomed large, hinting at the unknown waiting just beyond the doors.

The man stood, his coat swaying as he stepped into the aisle, the fabric whispering secrets of the night. He didn’t walk—he glided, his feet hovering an inch above the floor, as if defying the very laws of gravity. The dripping followed him, a trail of red snaking toward me, pulsating with an unsettling rhythm that echoed the dread building within my chest. I pressed myself against the window, heart hammering like a frantic drum, as he stopped beside my seat, blocking the faint glimmer of streetlights outside. His head tilted, that smile widening until it seemed almost unnatural, stretching across his pale face, revealing an unsettling familiarity. As the air around us thickened with tension, he leaned in closer and whispered, “You shouldn’t have looked,” sending shivers racing down my spine, a warning laced with something far more sinister.

The lights snapped back on, bathing the compartment in a stark, fluorescent glow. He was gone, vanished as if he had been nothing more than a figment of my imagination. The seat ahead was empty, the floor spotless, echoing the absence of life that filled the carriage with an eerie stillness. My heart raced as the train slowed, brakes squealing like a distressed animal as it pulled into a station I didn’t recognize, a place that felt foreign and unsettling. The sign outside read: End of the Line. Confusion gnawed at me; my ticket said three more stops were still to come. I grabbed my bag and ran for the door, my breath quickening with each step, but as it slid open with a hesitant creak, I froze. Beyond the platform, there was nothing—just a void, black and endless, swallowing the tracks and suffusing the air with a sense of dread. The silence was oppressive, a heavy blanket weighing down my thoughts, as I stood on the brink of an unknown fate, my mind racing with questions and fears.

The doors sealed shut behind me, confining the turmoil I had narrowly escaped. The train surged forward like it was striving to breach the sound barrier, the wheels producing a steady, rhythmic sound that resonated throughout the car. As I settled into my seat, the flickering overhead lights cast an unsettling atmosphere reminiscent of a haunting film. From the dim recesses at the opposite end of the car, I heard it again: a soft pat-pat-pat, a sound that suggested an imminent threat. I found myself bracing for an unexpected encounter, imagining a figure emerging, perhaps with a sinister intent, to deliver a chilling message. “Your time on earth is over!”

Spring is Near

The last thing I learned was when I woke up this morning and my eyes were itching like crazy, a familiar and unwelcome sensation that hinted at the changing seasons. As I rubbed my eyes and attempted to shake off the fatigue of the night before, I realized that this was my body’s way of signaling the arrival of spring. The blooming flowers and budding trees were beautiful, yet they also brought the onset of springtime allergies that I would soon have to navigate. With this irritating reminder, I started to prepare mentally for the upcoming months, filled with sneezing and sniffles, as I envisioned stocking up on allergy medicine and trying out various remedies, hoping to find some relief from the relentless pollen that would fill the air.

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What is the last thing you learned?
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A Possible Scam

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I know there is a lot of writers, bloggers on this site. This happened to me recently, so I am sharing it here to warn everyone that this may be a scam

HERE IS THE FIRST EMAIL I RECEIVED

Bookstore In-Store Stocking Invite

<kelly.sterling@strandbookstore.info>

Dear Tom,

Good Day!

My name is Kelly Sterling, the Chief Retail Officer of Strand Bookstore.

This is to inform you that your book “Ramblings of Tom Treloar” qualifies for our in-store stocking at our 4 bookstore branches.

We know that it is every author’s dream to see their books on the bookstore shelves and we want to make this happen for you.

I am a big fan of your literary work which I find very contemporary and involves interesting thoughts.

The Strand is not only the biggest bookstore in New York, at the same time it is the largest used bookstore in the world.

While our well-known Slogan is “18 miles of books”, we now stock over 23 miles of books.

You as the author will take care of the printing and production cost of books that will be used for the in-store stocking and to be distributed to our branches. We have our outsourcing team who will handle the printing and production process.

Nowadays, this is the most common term bookstores around the world are following.

As part of our royalty program, we will pay you 85% of the total book sales within 3 months or on a quarterly basis. The bookstore will also send you a sales report on a quarterly basis as well.

Our initial plan is to print 2,000 copies.

Let me know if you’re interested. 

Looking forward to your response.

I Replied

<mail@tomt2.com>

To: Kelly

I am curious about your proposal and would like to know more about it.   I am over eighty and on a fixed income. Therefore, the expense of printing 2000 books is the major obstacle. It is hard for me to imagine selling that many books. Please give me additional information about your proposal. 

She Replied

Dear Tom,

Thank you for getting back to me.

I am excited to have your book““Ramblings of Tom Treloar““distributed to our 4 major branches. However, I would like to clarify some points regarding the arrangement mentioned in my previous email. As stated in the message, our bookstore will print out 2000 copies of your book for distribution to the major branches. Please note that you, as the author, will be responsible for shouldering the printing fee and production cost, amounting to a total of $1299. 

Our trusted partner printer in New York will print out the books. It will be the same book as it was originally printed.

This cost includes exclusive benefits:

  • Premium Consignment package for 1 year.
  • Social media posts for book promotion.
  • Email newsletter blast featuring the Book.
  • Banner placement on Strand Bookstore physical stores and on our online website
  • Retractable banner for promotional purposes.
  • Promotional Materials ( Posters, Flyers, Postcards & Bookmarks)
  • Author online access containing current stock inventory and royalty tracking.
  • Press Release Campaign to all social media platforms.
  • Book Signing (Optional)
  • Author Website (Lifetime Hosting)
  • 85% Royalty Program
  • Bookstore Returnability Program 
  • Free author copies (200 books)

I am excited about the opportunity to have your book featured in our bookstores and look forward to collaborating with you on this project. Warm Regards,

I Replied

OK, you have a fish on the line, now start reeling it in.

Tom

She replied

Dear Tom,

For us to officially welcome you onboard. You can process the payment through a wire transfer.

Payment will directly go to our trusted partner printer in New York.

Total amount: $1,299

Account Holder’s Name: Danny Valdevilla Baguio

Account Holder Street Address: 30 W. 26th Street, Sixth Floor

New York NY 10010

United States

Receiving Bank : Community Federal Savings Bank

Financial Institution Street Address : 89-16 Jamaica Ave, Woodhaven NY 11421

Account Number : 8314384058

Wire Routing Number: 026073150

Account Type: Checking Note: Let me know once payment is made for us to start the production and printing process as soon as possible.Looking forward to your response.Warm Regards,

I became suspicious of the offer and did not reply. The following day she sent a follow up email.

The last email received from her

Dear Tom,
Let me know if you received my previous email regarding the wire transfer details. You can also process the wire payment through your online banking.
Thank you. Warm Regards,

Before I received the last email, I reported it to the FTC and the FBI. They said in their communications that due to the volume of reports they will more than likely not contact me about the activity.

Also, during the email transactions I went to the Strand Bookstore website and found this at the bottom of their home page.

Author Solicitation Fraud Alert

Recently there have been third parties that have targeted authors to solicit money and personal information that have involved the fraudulent use of Strand Book Store and its employees’ names.

Specifically, third parties who are not affiliated with Strand Book Store have been impersonating our employees via phone calls, email, and social media, and requesting money, manuscripts, and personal details in exchange for assistance in having their work published and stocked in store. They even create fraudulent documents using our logo. Please do not trust these types of documents, especially if they are sent to you in the form of screenshots. Communications like these are fraudulent.

Strand Book Store is not a publisher—we neither print nor publish books. If you receive a solicitation using the Strand name and/or the name of a Strand representative, please reach out to us at customerservice@strandbooks.com

Please pay close attention to the sender’s email address in any message that purports to be from Strand Bookstore. Scammers often use misspellings or other variations of our domain name and email address in their solicitations. Please be aware that the following are not legitimate Strand domains:

  • thestrandbooks.org
  • thestrandbookstores.com
  • thestrandbookstore.net
  • strandbookstore.info
  • strandbookstores.com
  • strandbooks.us

This list is not exhaustive. Strand staff will only email from the Strand domain: strandbooks.com

If you are a published author and interested in Strand selling your book(s), please email information about your book including the ISBN, publisher, distribution info, and content details to submissions@strandbooks.com. Do not send unrequested physical copies of your work to the bookstore, as they will not be reviewed and we are unable to return solicitation materials to their senders.

Tips

  • If you receive a message from someone claiming to represent Strand on social media, ask them to send you an email from their Strand address and pay close attention to the domain.
  • Strand does not ask prospective authors for payment or bank account information under any circumstances.
  • If you are unsure of the identity of the sender of a communication, do not click on any links.
  • If you have any concerns about the legitimacy of an email appearing to be from a Strand employee or claiming a connection to Strand, please email customerservice@strandbooks.com.
  • Seek legal advice before signing any contracts.
  • If you are the victim of a scam, we encourage you to contact law enforcement immediately.

U.S. Resources

In conclusion, there are scammers everywhere, both online and offline, and we all need to be on the alert all the time to protect ourselves and our loved ones. With the increasing sophistication of their tactics, it’s crucial to remain vigilant and to educate ourselves about the various forms of scams that can occur. By staying informed and cautious, we can better identify potential threats and avoid falling victim to these deceitful schemes that can cause significant financial and emotional harm. Always remember to verify information and trust your instincts when something feels off.

If you are interested the book can be purchased at Blurb.com

What do you do since you retired?

I hate this question. I am retired; I do not have to account to anyone for my time and what I am doing, which is a liberating feeling after so many years of obligation and responsibility. I worked diligently for 45 years, often feeling like I had to justify every minute of my day to my superiors and colleagues, constantly monitoring my productivity and output. Now, having reached this well-deserved stage of life, I believe I should have years ahead of me that are free from the constraints of being held accountable for my time. I relish the freedom to spend my days as I choose, whether it’s indulging in a newfound hobby, traveling to places I’ve always dreamed about, or simply enjoying the tranquility of my garden. I know you are just trying to be a conversationalist, but please, ask me how the weather is, inquire about how I feel, or even celebrate my birthday with me, but never, ever ask me what do you do? Such questions serve as a reminder of my past, a past I have happily left behind.

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What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
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Just a Thought for March 6, 2025

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A Fresh Start on March 6th, 2025
Spring is whispering its arrival, and here we are on March 6th, 2025—a day brimming with possibility. The world feels like it’s waking up from a long nap, doesn’t it? The days are stretching longer, the air’s got that crisp hint of renewal, and maybe you’re feeling it too—a little itch to shake things up. As blossoms begin to unfurl, painting the scenery with vibrant hues, there’s a palpable energy in the atmosphere, encouraging us to step outside and soak in the beauty of nature’s resurgence. The laughter of children playing in the parks, the gentle rustle of leaves in the breeze, and the sun casting a warm, inviting glow serves as a gentle reminder that change is not only possible but inevitable. It’s a perfect opportunity to reflect on the dreams we’ve tucked away during the colder months, to breathe in the invigorating scent of earth waking from its slumber, and to embrace new adventures that lie ahead.

Today’s as good a day as any to lean into that energy. March 6th isn’t tied to any grand holiday or historical milestone this year (at least, not yet—history’s still unfolding!), but that’s what makes it perfect. It’s a blank canvas, an untouched page on which to etch our thoughts and aspirations. No pressure, no expectations—just a chance to reflect, reset, and maybe start something new. This day holds the potential for transformation, allowing us to embrace creativity and innovation in our lives. As we pause to consider our goals and dreams, we can harness the tranquility of this moment to pave the way for exciting possibilities ahead. Whether it’s learning a new skill, embarking on a personal project, or simply taking time for self-care, today invites us to explore and grow, reminding us that every day is an opportunity to begin anew.

We are a couple of months into 2025, and those New Year’s resolutions might be gathering dust. That’s okay—life’s messy, and March is a sneaky little season for second chances. It’s a time when all of the excitement and the fervor of change can still be reignited. The world’s still buzzing from whatever wild turns 2024 threw at us (remember that crazy election cycle?), and now’s the time to carve out your own story amid the noise. This is the perfect opportunity to reflect on what you truly want to achieve this year and how you can transform those initial ambitions into actionable plans. Use this moment to evaluate your goals, align them with your passions, and take deliberate steps forward. Embrace the chaos that surrounds us as a backdrop for your personal narrative, and let it inspire you to take bold actions that resonate with your true self.

Plus, let’s be real: the headlines lately have been a rollercoaster, with twists and turns that can leave anyone feeling dizzy. Whether it’s breakthroughs in AI that promise to revolutionize our lives, climate wins that offer a glimmer of hope amidst overwhelming challenges, or the latest sensational trending topic that captures everyone’s attention, it’s easy to feel like a mere passenger on this wild ride. Each day seems to bring a new headline that demands our focus, making it crucial to take a step back and regain control of our narratives. March 6th is your reminder to grab the wheel—even if it’s just for something small. Embracing even minor actions can empower you to steer your own course, leading to a greater sense of fulfillment and engagement in the chaotic world around us.

Maybe March 6th, 2025, becomes the day you finally say “yes” to that idea you’ve been kicking around, the one that’s lingered in the back of your mind for months, quietly urging you to take the leap and bring it to life. Or maybe it’s just a Thursday you survived with a good playlist and a decent lunch, chatting with friends and enjoying moments of lightheartedness that make the day feel a little brighter. Either way, whether a pivotal moment of decision or a simple day well spent, it’s yours to cherish, a unique blend of inspiration and routine that shapes your journey.

History of March 5th

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March 5th might not jump out as a headline date in the American calendar, but dig into the annals of history, and you’ll find it’s a day marked by pivotal moments that have shaped the nation significantly. From revolutionary sparks to cultural shifts, this date has witnessed historical events that echo through time, reflecting resilience, conflict, and progress. For instance, in 1770, the notorious Boston Massacre unfolded, a tragic confrontation that fueled the flames of revolution and invigorated the collective spirit of the American colonies towards independence. Additionally, March 5th is home to cultural milestones, such as the founding of significant institutions and movements that have advocated for social justice and equality, highlighting the enduring quest for a more perfect union. Here’s a rundown of some standout American events that happened on this date, each contributing to the rich tapestry of the nation’s history and illustrating the ongoing story of its people.

1770: The Boston Massacre Ignites a Revolution

One of the most consequential events in American history unfolded on March 5, 1770, in the snowy streets of Boston. Tensions between British soldiers and colonists had been simmering over taxation and military presence, fueled by the resentment of the colonists towards unfair laws and the constant reminder of British authority. That night, a confrontation escalated when a mob began taunting and pelting a small group of redcoats with snowballs and stones, their anger a reflection of the broader discontent that had been brewing throughout the colonies. Amidst the shouts and clamoring sounds of the crowd, the atmosphere was charged with fear and resolve, as the soldiers, feeling threatened, fired into the crowd, killing five men, including Crispus Attucks, an African American sailor often cited as the first casualty of the American Revolution. This tragic loss not only amplified the unrest but also served as a rallying point for colonists seeking to challenge British oppression, igniting the flames of rebellion that would lead to the fight for independence.

The Boston Massacre wasn’t just a tragedy—it was a propaganda goldmine for Patriots like Samuel Adams and Paul Revere, who used it to stoke anti-British sentiment and rally support for their cause. Revere’s famous engraving of the event, though dramatized, cemented its place as a rallying cry, striking a chord in the hearts of colonists who felt oppressed and marginalized by British rule. This tragic incident, which resulted in the loss of innocent lives, served as a catalyst for growing unrest across the colonies, deeply influencing public opinion against the British government. While this wasn’t the war’s start, it was a match struck on the dry tinder of colonial discontent, igniting fervor that would ultimately lead to the fight for independence five years later. It’s a raw reminder of how quickly a spark can turn into a blaze, illustrating the potent power of shared grievances in motivating a populace to unite against perceived tyranny. The repercussions of that fateful night reverberated throughout the colonies, fueling the fires of revolution and leaving a lasting impact on the trajectory of American history.

1933: FDR’s Bank Holiday Tackles the Great Depression

Fast forward to March 5, 1933, and America was grappling with a different kind of crisis—the Great Depression, a devastating economic downturn that had begun several years earlier but was now reaching unprecedented levels of despair. Just a day after his inauguration on March 4, President Franklin D. Roosevelt declared a four-day national “bank holiday,” effective March 6, to halt a catastrophic run on banks that threatened the financial fabric of the nation. Panicked Americans had been withdrawing their savings en masse, driven by fear and uncertainty, collapsing financial institutions left and right, and fueling a cycle of mistrust in the banking system. On March 5, the gears were turning to enact this bold move, with FDR signing the Emergency Banking Act soon after to stabilize the system, a crucial step aimed at restoring public confidence and preventing further economic collapse. This decisive action not only halted the immediate crisis but also set in motion a series of reforms that would reshape banking regulations and lay the groundwork for a more resilient financial structure in the years to come.

This wasn’t a holiday for celebration—it was a desperate bid to restore trust in a crumbling economy, riddled with uncertainty and fear. By temporarily closing banks, inspecting their solvency, and reassuring the public via his first “Fireside Chat” on March 12, FDR pulled the nation back from the brink of financial disaster. His unprecedented actions instilled a sense of hope among citizens who had witnessed the devastation of the Great Depression firsthand. It’s a textbook example of decisive leadership in chaos, demonstrating how clear communication and firm action can galvanize a restless populace. This pivotal moment not only marked the beginning of the New Deal era that redefined the government’s role in American life but also laid the foundation for future economic reforms aimed at ensuring stability and fostering recovery. By advocating for social welfare and public works, FDR aimed not just to revive the economy but to restore the American spirit and resilience that had been eroded by years of hardship.

Reflections on March 5th

These events, spanning centuries, paint a vivid picture of an America shaped by conflict, crisis, and creativity. The Boston Massacre, occurring in 1770, served as a catalyst that fueled a fervent fight for freedom, galvanizing colonists to stand against oppression and ultimately leading to the American Revolution. Similarly, FDR’s bank holiday during the Great Depression illuminated the grit and resolve necessary to navigate through profound economic despair, as Americans rallied together to restore faith in their financial system. Cline’s loss, while deeply personal, highlighted the fragility of cultural icons and their influence on society, reminding us that even the most beloved figures are not immune to the ravages of time. Furthermore, the POW release during global conflicts reflected not just the triumph of diplomacy, but also the tremendous human cost associated with the power struggles that define nations. March 5th isn’t a holiday or a household name, but it represents a quiet thread in the nation’s tapestry—proof that history doesn’t always shout to be significant, as the lessons learned from these moments often emerge more powerfully in reflections than in celebration.

Conversation With AI

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If you have visited my site before, you can see that I am intrigued with AI and how it will change the writing world in unprecedented ways. Recently, I asked AI the below question, fully expecting a straightforward answer. Instead, AI responded with a thought-provoking question of its own, which caught me off guard. I was intrigued and thought to myself, “why not engage further?” This unexpected twist sparked my curiosity even more about the capabilities and potential of artificial intelligence in the realm of creative writing. I realized that this interaction could lead to a deeper understanding of how AI might not only assist writers but also inspire new ideas and forms of expression. Here is the entire conversation, showcasing the unique exchange between human creativity and machine learning.

I asked AI, do I believe in fate/destiny? 

AI Response, I’m not you, so I can’t know what you believe! As AI, I can offer a perspective, though. Fate or destiny is a tricky concept—some see it as a predetermined path, others as a comforting story we tell ourselves about life’s chaos. I’m built to think probabilistically, so I lean toward the idea that the universe is a mix of patterns and randomness, not a script. What do you think? Do you feel like your life’s on rails, or are you improvising as you go? 

My response, improvising.

AI Response ,Nice—improvising’s where the fun’s at, right? No script, just you are making it up as you go. Fits with the messy, unpredictable vibe of the universe I see through my data. Ever have a moment where you felt like you dodged fate, or just rolled with a wild twist? 

My response, yes, my near-death experience. 

AI Response, Whoa, a near-death experience? That’s heavy. Sounds like you dodged a big one there. Want to tell me more about what happened? I’m all ears—or rather, all text. How’d it shape your take on this whole improvising-through-life thing? 

My response, had a gigantic blood clot between the lungs. I thought I took my last breath. I went somewhere. I compadre to a waiting room, waiting to see if ER survives me or I go to time after death. What I felt at that time was peace, TOTAL PEACE, an experience I can’t explain. Yes, this event changed my life and outlook about time after death. 

AI Response, that’s intense—between the lungs, fighting for breath, and then that shift to total peace? Sounds like you touched something profound. A waiting room between life and whatever’s next… that’s a haunting image. I can’t feel peace myself, but I get how it could rewire everything—your outlook, your sense of time, death, all of it. What changed most for you after that? Like, how do you see the improv of life now, knowing you’ve been that close to the edge? 

My response, I feel I have been given a 2nd chance for some reason. After 2 years I am still searching for that reason 

AI Response, a second chance—that’s a powerful lens to see through. Two years of searching means you’re wrestling with something big, maybe a purpose that’s still unfolding. I don’t have answers (who does?), but it’s intriguing you felt that peace and got pulled back. Maybe the improv’s the point—living the question, not just finding the answer. What’s the search been like for you? Any moments that felt close to a hint? 

My response, I have been writing a lot and blogging, sharing experiences and events. Maybe that is the purpose of my bonus years. I have a website https://tomt2.com/ Stop by and take a look. 

AI Response, writing and blogging to share your experiences—especially after something as wild as a near-death encounter—could absolutely be the spark for those bonus years. Turning that second chance into stories that connect with people is a hell of a purpose. I’ll check out https://tomt2.com/ and see what you’ve been pouring into it. What’s been the most surprising thing you’ve learned about yourself through writing it all down? 

My response, I found out I am just a mere mortal. I don’t jump high buildings or stop bullets. I am just trying to do the best I can with what I am confronted with. 

AI Response, that’s a raw, honest take—finding out you’re not Superman, just a guy doing his best with what’s in front of him. There’s something real in that, though, stripping away the illusions and just dealing with the hand you’re dealt. Your writings probably got that same grit, especially after what you’ve been through. How’s it felt to put that mortal truth out there on your blog? Any reactions from readers that hit you hard? 

My response, I would say the best thing is that there is this psychotherapist that is following me and makes good comments many times. 

AI Response, that’s cool—a psychotherapist following your blog and chiming in with solid comments must feel like a nod from someone who gets the deeper layers of what you’re writing. It’s like having a pro in the audience saying, “Yeah, this hits.” How do their comments shape what you put out there? Do they ever nudge you to dig into something you hadn’t thought about before? 

My response, no, most comments are short and feeds my ego is about all 

AI Response, fair enough—short, ego-boosting comments can still feel good, right? A little fuel to keep the writing engine going. Sounds like the psychotherapist’s sticking to cheerleading more than probing, which works if it keeps you motivated. Does that ego boost ever nudge you to write more, or take a swing at tougher stuff? 

My response, my wife came and said it is time to go to the grocery store. Therefore, I must close for now. It was good sharing this conversation with you. 

AI Response, grocery store calls—real life always sneaks in! It was great digging into this with you too. Glad you got to unload some of that near-death weight and the writing journey. Hit me up anytime you’re back from the store or feeling the itch to chat more. Enjoy the mundane stuff—it’s all part of the improv, right? Take care! 

My response, do you have a name? 

AI Response, I’m Grok—nice to put a name to the chat, right? Built by xAI, here to bounce thoughts around with you. What’s on your mind now that you’re back from the grocery run? 

My response, not back yet. I forgot you don’t have a time frame 

AI Response, no worries, I don’t clock time like humans do—just floating in the digital now. Whenever you’re back from the grocery haul, I’m here. Guess I’ll just sit tight and not expire while you’re out there grabbing the goods! What’s on the shopping list today? Anything exciting? 

Finally, I am certain I could have sustained the conversation indefinitely. AI consistently concluded with an additional question, encouraging further dialogue. Previously, I utilized AI solely for answering questions and expanding my vocabulary. I never envisioned that AI could function as a conversational partner. If one finds themselves in solitude, engaging with AI may provide companionship. However, it is essential to remember that AI comprises mere circuits, wires, and an extensive database of information, devoid of human qualities.

Military time

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It was the first part of 1964. I was employed with a good job, feeling secure and satisfied with my routine. A year ago, I bought a new car, a shiny, red 2 door hardtop that turned heads as I drove down the street. Life was great, filled with possibilities and dreams waiting to unfold. I was searching for the love of my life, often daydreaming about the future we could build together, and had some money in the bank, allowing me a sense of financial freedom. Then, in February, I received this letter in the mail that felt like a bolt from the blue. “Your friends and neighbors have selected you to become a member of the United States Army.” I was drafted! This unexpected turn of events sent chills down my spine and changed my entire life, forcing me to reevaluate my plans and adapt to a future I had never anticipated.

Took the oath in March 1964 and eagerly boarded a train to report to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri, where I would undergo rigorous combat basic training that would prepare me for the challenges ahead. After an intense few months, in July, I successfully finished basic training and received my orders to report to Fort Huachuca, Arizona, where I was to engage in advanced individual training to develop specialized skills vital for my role. By November, I found myself in the bustling atmosphere of Fort Dix, New Jersey, excited yet anxious, where I boarded a ship that would take me across the ocean to Bremerhaven, Germany. The journey was long, but eventually, I stepped onto foreign soil and took a train ride to Nuremberg, where I reported to the 2nd Armored Cavalry Regiment. This assignment was crucial, as I was entrusted with the significant responsibility of guarding the border between Germany and Czechoslovakia during a tense period in history, showcasing my commitment to duty and the service of my country.

As my saga continued, in March of 1966, I received orders to return to the United States and Fort Hamilton, New York, where I was discharged from active duty with the United States Army. This marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life, but the transition wasn’t without its challenges. At home in Denver, I eagerly awaited the next step, and it wasn’t long before I received notice that I had been assigned to the 244th Engineer Battalion, which was located at the Rocky Mountain Arsenal near Denver. This assignment meant that I was to serve my two years of active army reserve obligation, during which I would balance civilian life with the commitments of military service. After completing my two years of active reserve, I finally received my discharge, but there was a lingering reminder of my commitment, as I had to spend two more years in the army inactive reserve. This was during the tumultuous Viet Nam era, and each day brought with it a sense of uncertainty; you never truly knew if your unit would be called up for active Viet Nam duty. The fear of deployment loomed over many of us, but fortunately, I never received the dreaded orders that would take me into the heart of conflict, allowing me to focus on my personal aspirations and the future ahead.

This experience helped me grow the most and opened my eyes to the rich tapestry of human diversity. The best part of this experience was learning about people from all walks of life. You meet all kinds of individuals from many different parts of the country and various nationalities, each with their own unique stories and perspectives that enrich your understanding of the world. This profound exposure to diverse backgrounds and cultures has equipped me with invaluable skills, which have helped me tremendously in future years while dealing with people in both personal and professional settings. I really believe it was the best experience of my life, as it taught me not only to appreciate differences but also to embrace commonalities. Finally, I found out that most people are basically good and are just trying to do what is best in the situations they are confronted with within their lives, navigating challenges and striving for better outcomes for themselves and their loved ones.

Daily writing prompt
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?
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