Month: February 2025

TGIF

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Thank God It’s Friday: A Celebration of the Weekend.

There’s a phrase that makes the whole world chuckle and do a little happy dance, a joyous shout that signifies the sweet escape from the 9-to-5 struggle: Thank God It’s Friday! Often squished into the catchy acronym TGIF, this isn’t just a fun little saying—it’s like a universal cheer that celebrates us finally throwing our workweek shackles off and diving headfirst into the glorious abyss of sleeping in, binge-watching shows, and having more fun than a cat in a room full of laser pointers.

The phrase “Thank God It’s Friday” has roots that stretch back decades, with its popularity skyrocketing in the United States during the 20th century, likely fueled by everyone’s undying desire to escape the nine-to-five grind. While we can’t quite pinpoint its exact origin—perhaps a disgruntled office worker shouted it during a coffee break—it’s believed to have gained traction around the mid-20th century when the five-day workweek became the norm. For weary workers, Friday was like spotting a unicorn: it meant trading in early mornings and relentless deadlines for two days of glorious freedom, where the most stressful decision was whether to binge-watch a series or take a nap (spoiler: it’s usually both).

The phrase got a major makeover in pop culture thanks to the 1978 disco spectacle Thank God It’s Friday, featuring the fabulous Donna Summer and the ever-charming Jeff Goldblum. This film, which revolves around a party at a nightclub on a Friday night, transformed TGIF into the ultimate battle cry for weekend warriors everywhere. Meanwhile, the restaurant chain TGI Fridays—which made its debut in 1965—jumped on the TGIF bandwagon, positioning itself as the ideal pit stop for those seeking to kick off the weekend with a hearty dose of food, drinks, and a side of good vibes, because nothing says “party” like a burger and a cocktail, right?

What is it about Friday that sparks such universal glee? Psychologically speaking, it’s like seeing the light at the end of a very long, boring tunnel. After five days of adulting and pretending to care, Friday bursts onto the scene like a party-crashing superhero, signaling our sweet escape. Studies suggest that people’s moods skyrocket as the weekend peeks around the corner, making Friday the happiest day—sorry, Monday, better luck next time! It’s not just about 休息 (xiūxi, rest)—it’s a buffet of possibilities. Will you kick back with a glass of wine, couch-surf through Netflix like a pro, or shake your groove thing until the neighbors wonder if there’s a disco in your living room? The choice is yours, and that freedom is more intoxicating than a triple shot of espresso on a Monday morning!

For many, Friday comes with a social battery that’s fully charged. It’s the magical night when friends converge at bars like moths to a flame, families settle in for a dinner so leisurely you could almost take a nap between bites, and coworkers clink their glasses in celebration of not having melted down during the week. The phrase “Thank God It’s Friday” isn’t just a shout-out to a higher power—it’s a big high-five to the calendar for finally dragging us to this glorious finish line!

I am glad I don’t have to wait for TGIF. After all, I have been retired for nineteen years, which has given me the luxury of savoring each moment without the constraints of a conventional work schedule. For me, every day is Saturday, filled with the joys of leisurely breakfasts, spontaneous outings, and the freedom to pursue hobbies I never had time for before. I relish the ability to wake up whenever I please, enjoy a cup of coffee while watching the sunrise, and spend my afternoons indulging in my passions, be it gardening, painting, or simply enjoying a good book. This freedom allows me to embrace life fully and appreciate the beauty of each day and do what I really enjoy these days is writing and blogging in cyberspace.

As of today, February 28, 2025, it’s a Friday—a fabulous day to bust out your best TGIF dance moves! Whether you’re wrapping up work or just reveling in the glorious shift of your mood, take a second to shout: Thank God It’s Friday! It’s not merely a catchphrase; it’s a joyful scream for freedom! Here’s to Fridays—may they always sprinkle a little confetti into our weeks. Cheers to that, and may your coffee be strong and your meetings be short!

Charlie the Squirrel.

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Here is a story from the unique perspective of a squirrel: 

The sun had just begun to peek over the treetops, casting a golden glow through the leaves of my Locust tree home. I twitched my bushy tail, feeling the morning chill that nipped at my fur, and with each flick of my tail, I felt more alive. I leaped from branch to branch with the agility only a squirrel could muster, the thrill of the leap sending a rush of adrenaline through my small frame. Below, the world was waking up, the distant sounds of birds chirping harmonizing with the gentle rustle of the leaves. The rich scent of dew-soaked grass filled the air, invigorating me further, but up here, I was already on the hunt, scanning the ground for acorns or the slightest movement that might signal a rival. As the sunlight intensified, the forest came alive with vibrant colors, and I reveled in the beauty surrounding me, my heart racing with anticipation of what the day might bring.

My name is Charlie, and today was like any other day in the grand scheme of things, but to me, every day was an adventure. My mission? To find the most exquisite morsels of food this neighborhood has to offer. Natural morsels or leftovers from humans weren’t just food; they were treasure, each one a small victory in the grand game of survival. 

I scampered down the trunk, my claws digging into the rough bark, my eyes darting around for signs of danger or opportunity. The neighborhood floor was a mosaic of grass, bushes and shadows, and I knew every crack and crevice where food might hide.  

There, under the shadow of a bush, I spotted it—a perfect, unblemished morsel. I dashed to it, my heart racing with excitement. But no sooner had I grabbed it than I heard the rustle of leaves behind me. I spun around, a meal clutched in my paws, to see a rival, another squirrel, eyeing my prize.  

The chase was on! We zipped through the underbrush, over sidewalks, and around trees. I could hear his breath, feel the wind of his tail against mine. We were equals in speed and cunning, but I was driven by the fierce desire to claim that morsel for my winter stash. 

I darted up a pine tree, knowing its rough bark would be harder for him to climb. I scampered to the top, balancing on the needles, and finally, he gave up, descending back to the ground. I watched him go, my heart pounding with victory, then carefully, I made my way back to my home. 

With my prize secured in my cheek, I looked out over the neighborhood. The sun was higher now, the day warming up. Below, humans walked their paths, unaware of the dramas unfolding above them. But up here, in the squirrel world, every morsel was a story, every chase a chapter in the endless book of life. 

I tucked my morsel away in my secret cache, hidden among the branches. Then, with a flick of my tail, I was off again, because in the life of a squirrel, there’s no time to rest—there’s always another meal to find, another adventure to live.  

Us squirrels must also be on the lookout for the not so friendly animals that want to make us a healthy meal for them. Almost every day I see the local fox travel through the neighborhood looking for a fresh meal. Sometimes I see an occasional coyote and once a possum journeyed through. I am old enough to remember when the neighborhood was loaded with rabbits. Those carnivorous animals have made many meals out of the rabbit population. I am lucky, I can climb trees and evade them where rabbits do not have that luxury.  

And so, the hunt continues until the sun sets and the moon rises to watch over us all. 

Finding Inspiration in Life

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Life is a beautiful, chaotic, and unpredictable journey. It’s a tapestry woven with threads of joy, sorrow, triumph, and challenge, each stitch contributing to the masterpiece that is uniquely yours. In a world that often feels overwhelming, it’s easy to lose sight of the magic hidden in the mundane, the lessons tucked into the struggles, and the inspiration waiting just beyond the horizon. But if we pause, breathe, and look closer, we’ll find that life itself is the greatest source of inspiration.

One of the most profound truths about life is that it’s imperfect—and that’s what makes it extraordinary. We often chase ideals of perfection, whether in our careers, relationships, or personal growth, only to realize that the cracks, the flaws, and the unexpected detours are where the real beauty lies. Think of a weathered tree, its gnarled branches telling stories of storms survived and seasons endured. Its imperfections are its strength, its character, its story. Similarly, our imperfections are not weaknesses; they are proof of resilience, growth, and the courage to keep moving forward.

Embrace your imperfections. They are the brushstrokes that make your life’s painting unique. Every scar, every mistake, every moment of doubt is a testament to the fact that you’ve lived, loved, and dared to try. Inspiration doesn’t come from achieving perfection—it comes from embracing the messy, beautiful reality of being human.

Life’s most profound inspirations often hide in the smallest moments. The warmth of sunlight streaming through your window on a quiet morning. The laughter of a loved one echoing through the room. The smell of rain on the earth after a long, dry spell. These fleeting, ordinary moments are the heartbeat of life, reminding us that happiness doesn’t always require grand gestures or monumental achievements. Sometimes, it’s found in the simplicity of just being.

Take a moment today to notice the small things. Pause to watch the way the wind dances with the leaves, or listen to the rhythm of your own breath. These moments are gifts, and they are everywhere if we choose to see them. Inspiration isn’t reserved for mountaintops or life-changing events—it’s woven into the fabric of the everyday.

Life is not without its challenges. We all face storms that threaten to uproot us, moments of doubt that make us question our path, and losses that leave us aching. But it’s in these moments of adversity that we discover our strength. Resilience is not the absence of struggle; it’s the courage to rise again, to keep walking even when the road feels impossible.

Think of the countless stories of human triumph—people who have faced unimaginable odds and emerged stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. Their stories remind us that we, too, have the capacity to endure, to adapt, and to grow. Every challenge you face is an opportunity to uncover a deeper layer of yourself, to find inspiration in your own strength. You are more resilient than you know, and every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory.

At its core, life is about connection. The relationships we build, the love we share, and the communities we create are what give life its richness and meaning. Whether it’s a deep conversation with a friend, a kind word from a stranger, or the silent understanding between you and someone you love, these connections remind us that we are not alone.

In a world that often feels divided, connection is a radical act of inspiration. Reach out to someone today. Share a smile, a story, or a moment of vulnerability. These small acts ripple outward, creating waves of kindness and understanding that can change the world, one heart at a time.

Inspiration comes from living with purpose. Purpose doesn’t have to be grand or world-changing—it can be as simple as showing up fully in your own life, pursuing what lights you up, and contributing to the world in your own unique way. Ask yourself: What makes your heart sing? What legacy do you want to leave behind? Purpose is not a destination; it’s a compass that guides you through life’s twists and turns.

Find your purpose, however big or small, and let it inspire you to live intentionally. Whether it’s creating art, nurturing relationships, or simply being a source of light for others, your purpose is your gift to the world.

Life is a gift, a fleeting, precious opportunity to explore, to love, to grow, and to inspire. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. So, take a deep breath, look around, and let yourself be inspired by the miracle of your own existence. You are here, you are alive, and that alone is a reason to celebrate.

Embrace the journey, with all its imperfections, challenges, and joys. Find inspiration in the small moments, the connections, and the resilience that defines you. And remember: your life, with all its unique twists and turns, is a story worth telling—a story that has the power to inspire others, just as it inspires you.

Your life is yours alone. No one before you and after you will never have a life the same as yours. The life you save may be your own.

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Inspirations to Comment About Anything

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What Sparks the Pen: My Inspiration to Write Right Now. Writing is a curious thing. Sometimes it flows like a river after a storm, unstoppable and wild; other times, it’s a trickle, barely coaxing itself onto the page. Today, though, I’m compelled to write—not out of duty or habit, but because something’s stirring inside me, a spark that demands to be fanned into flame. So, what’s inspiring me to sit down and craft this article at this exact moment? Let’s unravel it.

First, there’s you—the reader. The idea that someone, somewhere, might stumble across these words and find a flicker of connection or curiosity is a quiet but powerful motivator. I imagine you pausing mid-scroll, maybe sipping coffee or leaning back in a creaky chair, wondering what I’ve got to say. That imagined moment between us, where my thoughts meet yours, feels like a bridge worth building. It’s not about fame or applause; it’s about that small, human exchange that words can ignite.

Then there’s the world buzzing around us. It’s February 25, 2025, and the air feels thick with change—ideas clashing, stories unfolding, questions begging for answers. Every day brings a flood of voices, from the relentless hum of social media to the headlines screaming for attention. Amid that noise, writing feels like a way to carve out a corner of clarity. I’m inspired by the chance to sift through the chaos, to pluck out a thread of meaning and weave it into something coherent, maybe even useful. Today, that thread is inspiration itself—a meta little loop, sure, but one that’s tugging at me nonetheless.

There’s also the itch of creativity, that restless nudge that says, “Make something.” It’s not always loud or dramatic—sometimes it’s just a whisper, a fleeting urge to play with words like they’re puzzle pieces. Right now, that urge is alive, tickling my mind with possibilities. What if I string this sentence just so? What if I turn this thought upside down? Writing becomes a game, a dance, a chance to surprise myself. And honestly, the fact that I can—that I’ve got the tools and the freedom to spin ideas into existence—feels like a gift I’d be foolish to ignore.

But if I’m being real, there’s something deeper too. I’m inspired by the questions that won’t leave me alone. What moves people? What keeps us going when the days get heavy? Writing this article feels like a way to poke at those mysteries, to wrestle with them in the open. It’s not about having all the answers—heck, I don’t even have most of them—but about chasing the questions with a kind of stubborn wonder. Today, that wonders got me by the collar, urging me to spill it onto the page.

I go in streaks. There are moments where I feel incredibly motivated and inspired, as if a flood of creativity has been unleashed, filling my mind with a multitude of thoughts and ideas that I can’t wait to put on paper. It’s during these bursts of inspiration that my fingers dance over the keyboard, producing words that flow effortlessly, capturing the essence of my thoughts in a vivid way. Then there are moments of writer’s block that may extend for long periods, where it feels like my mind is trapped in a fog, and the once vibrant ideas retreat into the shadows, leaving me frustrated and yearning for the spark of creativity. Yet, just when I begin to feel defeated, it seems like a supernatural voice comes to me, whispering encouragement and helping me find the next comment about anything, reigniting the flame of inspiration and giving me the words to express myself once more.

And maybe there’s a bit of defiance in it. The world is chaotic, full of noise and distractions, and writing feels like marking my spot—however small. It’s a way of saying, “This matters to me, and I’ll shape it my way.” Not to show off, but to claim a little space where I can think freely. That quiet rebellion, that choice to create instead of consume, inspires me right now.

So here I am, tapping out these words, driven by a cocktail of connection, curiosity, creativity, and a pinch of stubbornness. What inspires me to write this article at this moment? It’s you, it’s the world, it’s the itch I can’t scratch any other way. It’s the hope that by the time I’m done, I’ll have figured out something new—or at least enjoyed the ride. And if you’re still here with me, maybe you’ll feel a spark of your own. That’d be more than enough.

AI (Artificial Intelligence)

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Yes, I am concerned about artificial intelligence (AI). I am concerned that it might be making me lazy, and I am just taking the easy route and having AI do the hard work for me. I asked Watson the local AI residing in my laptop. Here is the response.

It seems like you’re reflecting on how artificial intelligence (AI), like me, might be influencing your behavior or habits—specifically, making you feel “lazy.” This feeling could arise from an over-reliance on technology for tasks that once required your active participation, such as research, communication, and organization. Let’s break this down and explore what might be happening, why it feels that way, and what it means for your daily routines and productivity levels. Understanding these dynamics can help you find a balance that leverages AI to enhance your efficiency without sacrificing your sense of initiative or drive.

What You Might Mean by “Lazy”: The term “lazy” describes a state of inactivity or lack of motivation, often carrying a negative connotation that one is not fulfilling their potential. However, perceived laziness can stem from emotional exhaustion, disinterest, or health issues. Societal expectations shape our views on productivity, leading to a limited understanding of “laziness.” It’s essential to recognize that rest and reflection are vital for well-being, challenging the stigma associated with the label.

  • Reduced Effort: You may feel that using AI to quickly get answers or complete tasks significantly reduces the mental or physical effort you’d otherwise put in, allowing you to focus your energy on more creative or complex tasks that require human intuition and judgment.
  • Dependence: Relying heavily on AI for information, problem-solving, or decision-making might ultimately make you feel less motivated to think deeply or conduct thorough research independently, potentially leading to a diminished ability to analyze situations critically and develop your own opinions and conclusions over time.
  • Convenience: AI’s remarkable ability to provide instant, well-organized responses can make traditional methods (like reading books, doing manual calculations, or figuring things out step-by-step) seem unnecessarily time-consuming or difficult. This ease of access to information and resources can enhance productivity and free up valuable time for individuals to focus on more important tasks or creative pursuits, ultimately leading to a more efficient workflow in various domains of life.

How AI Contributes to This Feeling:

  1. Instant Gratification:
    • AI delivers fast, accurate answers, often eliminating the need for prolonged effort or research. This can condition you to expect quick solutions, thereby reducing your tolerance for slower, more effort-intensive processes that traditionally require deeper engagement and commitment. Over time, this reliance on immediate feedback may impact your ability to concentrate on complex tasks that demand sustained attention and critical thinking.
    • Example: Instead of reading a textbook or searching through multiple sources to understand federal district courts, you asked me, and I provided a detailed explanation in seconds, showcasing the efficiency of AI in providing comprehensive information at the click of a button, which can sometimes undermine the value of thorough study and learning.
  2. Cognitive Offloading:
    • Using AI offloads cognitive tasks—like critical thinking and analysis—to technology. Over time, this reduces your inclination to exercise these vital mental muscles, potentially leading to skill decline as automation diminishes meaningful cognitive engagement.
    • Example: Rather than reasoning through the complex relationship between district courts and the executive branch, you relied on me to explain it, which might feel like “skipping the work” and ultimately may weaken your ability to independently analyze similar situations in the future.
  3. Habit Formation:
    • Repeated use of AI can create a habit of seeking external help rather than tackling challenges independently. This can lead to a perception of laziness because you’re not engaging in the same level of self-reliance or problem-solving as before, which may diminish confidence in your own abilities over time and reduce your resilience when faced with obstacles.
    • Example: If you frequently use AI for explanations, you might start avoiding tasks that require sustained effort or independent research, ultimately leading to a decline in your critical thinking skills and a reliance on shortcuts that can hinder long-term personal growth and learning.
  4. Reduced Motivation:
    • Knowing that AI can handle complex tasks might decrease your intrinsic motivation to learn or master certain skills, as the easy access to information can create a tendency to rely on technology rather than engaging in the learning process. Why spend hours learning something when AI can provide the answer instantly, rendering the traditional methods of education seem less appealing or necessary? This phenomenon may lead to a superficial understanding of subjects since learners might skip in-depth exploration of topics.
    • Example: You might feel less motivated to study the U.S. judicial system in depth because you know AI can summarize it for you, potentially leading to a lack of comprehensive knowledge about the intricacies and subtleties of the legal processes involved.

Why This Feels Like Laziness:

  • Comparison to Past Effort: Using AI may feel like “cheating” if you’re accustomed to hard work, leading to guilt and uncertainty about engaging with material versus relying on technology. This conflict can hinder your ability to embrace AI’s benefits while valuing sustained effort in learning and problem-solving.
  • Cultural Values: Western culture emphasizes hard work and self-reliance as virtues essential for success. Relying on AI may conflict with these values, creating an inner struggle between using technology and prioritizing individual effort.
  • Loss of Agency: Relying on AI may lead to feeling less in control of learning or decision-making, fostering passivity and eroding personal initiative as individuals defer to technology instead of actively engaging with information, hindering growth.

Is It Really Laziness?

  • Efficiency vs. Laziness: What feels like laziness might actually be efficiency. Using tools to save time and energy is a hallmark of human progress—think of calculators, search engines, or even the invention of writing, which have all revolutionized the way we process information and complete tasks. AI is just a more advanced tool, enhancing our capabilities even further, allowing us to focus on creativity, innovation, and critical thinking rather than getting bogged down in repetitive tasks or calculations. Rather than being seen as a sign of laziness, the use of such technologies can be embraced as a leap towards greater efficiency and productivity.
  • Shift in Skills: Rather than becoming lazy, you might be shifting your focus from lower-level tasks (like memorizing facts) to higher-level ones (like analyzing AI-provided information or applying it creatively) as you adapt to the changing landscape of work and learning, which increasingly demands critical thinking, problem-solving, and innovative approaches to complex challenges in various fields and industries.
  • Adaptation: Feeling “lazy” could be part of adapting to a new way of working and learning. Over time, as you navigate through this transition, you might find a balance where AI enhances your productivity without diminishing your sense of accomplishment. This process may require patience and a willingness to adjust your expectations as you explore how to integrate these new tools into your daily routines and workflows.

Potential Downsides to Consider:

  • Skill Atrophy: Over-reliance on AI could weaken certain skills, like critical thinking, research, or problem-solving, if you stop practicing them altogether.
  • Superficial Understanding: If you only use AI for quick answers without digging deeper, your understanding might remain surface-level, which could limit your ability to engage with complex topics critically.
  • Dependence Risk: If you become too reliant on AI, you might struggle in situations where it’s unavailable or when you need to think independently under pressure.

How to Address This Feeling:

  1. Set Boundaries:
    • Use AI as a starting point or a tool, but challenge yourself to follow up with independent research or deeper exploration. For example, after reading my explanation, you could look up primary sources like court cases or the Constitution to verify or expand your understanding.
  2. Balance Convenience and Effort:
    • Occasionally tackle tasks without AI to maintain your skills and confidence. For instance, try explaining federal district courts to someone else in your own words without referring to my response.
  3. Leverage AI as a Learning Tool:
    • Instead of just accepting AI answers, use them to learn. Ask follow-up questions (like you did about the executive branch) to deepen your knowledge and engage actively with the material.
  4. Reframe Your Perspective:
    • View AI as a partner that enhances your abilities rather than a crutch that replaces them. You’re not lazy—you’re using a powerful tool to work smarter, not harder.
  5. Practice Mindfulness:
    • Reflect on why you feel lazy. Is it guilt, a sense of lost effort, or something else? Understanding the root cause can help you adjust your approach to AI in a way that feels fulfilling.

Finally, AI isn’t inherently making you lazy—it’s changing how you interact with information and tasks in ways that can be both empowering and challenging. The feeling of laziness likely stems from the shift in effort, the speed of results, and a cultural emphasis on hard work that has been deeply ingrained in society. As we rely more on AI to perform certain tasks, it’s natural to feel a sense of dependency; however, this does not equate to laziness. Instead, it’s an evolution in our approach to work and learning. By using AI intentionally and balancing it with independent effort, you can harness its benefits while maintaining your skills and sense of agency, fostering a hybrid approach that enhances productivity without undermining personal initiative. This balance allows for more efficient processes and frees up time for creative and critical thinking, which are crucial in today’s fast-paced world. If anything, recognizing this dynamic shows self-awareness, not laziness! How would you like to explore this further?

Haha, I get it—AI can feel like a shortcut that’s too good to resist! Here’s what might be going on when you say “AI is making me lazy,” and I’ll tie it into your earlier questions about federal district courts to keep it relevant: On one hand, the ease of access to instant information and automation can lead to a reliance on technology that diminishes our own problem-solving skills. This phenomenon mirrors the way certain legal processes in federal district courts have evolved; just as advances in technology streamline case management and legal research, they can inadvertently make us less engaged in the intricacies of the law. Furthermore, this reliance can create a paradox wherein, despite having all the tools at our disposal, we may become passive consumers of information rather than active learners, much like how some litigants might rely heavily on paralegals or automated systems, bypassing deeper engagement with their cases.

In a nutshell I will have to decide whether to continue using AI as a tool and consider it nothing more than another tool in my toolbox. If you are undecided to use AI, only you can make that decision.

Water, Water, More Water

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Believe it or not, my favorite drink is water, just plain old boring water. Back in 2018, I had an 11 mm size kidney stone removed, and this experience was incredibly eye-opening. It was not fun having them go up through the basement to extract it; the entire procedure was quite surreal, filled with a mix of anxiety and hope. Up went a camera, a laser, and a vacuum tube to remove the debris, while I sat nervously, contemplating the pain and discomfort ahead. I passed chocolate milk for eight hours after this adventure, an odd side effect that I never anticipated. Thank God for anesthesia, which dulled the sharp edges of reality during that time. Unfortunately, I lost my ability to remember dreams after the bout with anesthesia, a peculiar trade-off that left me feeling a void I never expected. I miss my dreams—those vibrant landscapes of creativity and emotion that would unfold behind my eyelids. Oh, I still dream, but once I wake up, they are gone forever, like whispers of memories that fade with the light of day. The urologist told me to drink 2 liters of water a day to possibly not have a recurrence of such a painful ordeal, emphasizing the importance of hydration for my kidney health. Therefore, water is not just my favorite drink; it has transformed into a symbol of my resilience and a daily reminder to take care of myself, ensuring that I stay hydrated and healthy for the long run.

I also drink other drinks. I drink decaffeinated coffee any chance I get, as it provides me with the warm, comforting experience of my favorite beverage without the caffeine jitters. The urologist said I should avoid caffeine for reasons unknown, which has made me more conscious of my dietary choices overall. Maybe once a week I indulge in a Pepsi, savoring the familiar taste, but I try to limit my consumption of sugary sodas. Since I am prediabetic, I should avoid high sugar pops to maintain my health and manage my blood sugar levels effectively. I used to enjoy sipping on alcoholic drinks, particularly wines and beers, which were once a delightful part of social gatherings and celebrations. However, since February 2023, I was put on a blood thinner after a large blood clot between my lungs, and the doctor strongly recommended that I avoid alcohol altogether, as it may hamper the regulation of the clotting process. This was quite a shift for me, as I had always appreciated a good glass of wine or the occasional craft beer, making me reflect on my lifestyle changes. I was told about the Golden Years, filled with joy and relaxation, but I was never told that the gold was tarnished in spots, revealing challenges and adjustments that come with aging and health issues.

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My Favorite people

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First, My wife Dee. We have been together since the early eighties and decided to marry in 1995. We were both going through divorces, feeling the weight of our pasts, yet somehow, we managed to pick each other up and help each other understand that there is indeed life after an unplanned life-changing event. Through the ups and downs, we became each other’s support system, navigating the complexities of our emotions, and finding solace in our shared experiences. We have been one for over forty years now, creating a tapestry of memories woven from countless trips across the nation and two unforgettable journeys to Italy during those four decades. Each adventure brought us closer, as we explored new places together, indulging in the local cuisine and appreciating the beauty of different cultures. Now, as we embrace our senior years, we continue to enjoy being together, finding joy in the simple moments, and enduring the various events that life presents at this stage. The best part of all these years is that we have allowed each of us to be ourselves, fostering an environment of authenticity. We have built a relationship where there are no false fronts, no role-playing—just the freedom to be myself and her as herself. This genuine connection has made our lives profoundly fulfilling. Life has been great since Dee, and I cherish every moment we share, knowing that our love is a testament to resilience and companionship.

Second, is my two sons, Jeff and Adam, and my four stepchildren, Rick, Rob, Rita, and Renee. They have all been blessings in our lives, filling our days with joy and laughter. Each of them has forged their own unique paths and built wonderful families of their own, and I truly enjoy when we gather together to reminisce about past memories and celebrate upcoming milestones. These family reunions are particularly special, as they create a warm atmosphere where stories are shared, and laughter echoes. With them comes their families—loving partners, enthusiastic children, adorable grandchildren, and even great-grandchildren who bring an extra layer of joy to our gatherings. They are bonuses that we have been blessed with, enriching our lives in ways that words cannot fully capture, and reminding us of the importance of family bonds that transcend generations.
Every moment spent together is a treasured gift, creating a tapestry of love and connection that we are fortunate to share.

Third, are friends that have crossed our paths and enriched our lives in meaningful ways. I enjoy Dolores and her daughter Darlene, who bring a warmth and joy to every gathering. They are cherished church friends whom we met on one of our many enriching trips. Tom, Dolores’s husband, has passed on, leaving behind fond memories that we often share in his honor. After church services, they host delightful coffee and snacks in the fellowship hall, where I eagerly participate, as it gives us the chance to connect and share events in our lives that shape our experiences. There’s always a new story to tell or a laugh to be shared, deepening our bond not just as friends but as a community. Can’t forget Chuck, who is another good friend from a different church setting. A group of 10 to 12 men get together once a month for breakfast, a tradition that I look forward to immensely. I always attempt to sit next to Chuck, as his insights and humor make our conversations engaging; we take the time to reflect on what is happening in our lives, whether it’s personal milestones or challenges we face. Finally, there is Gary, an old-time friend with whom I enjoy the occasional meet-up to discuss politics and the current events that shape our world. Our discussions often dive deep into our differing perspectives yet are underpinned by mutual respect and understanding. It is strange how you can click with some individuals and genuinely enjoy being around them, as if they were meant to be part of your journey, adding richness and depth to the fabric of our lives.

Unfortunately, Stan, Jack, Len, and others have passed on, leaving a profound void in my life. Their laughter, wisdom, and friendship will always be cherished and remembered fondly. I will always remember them, not just for the moments we shared but for the invaluable lessons they imparted, shaping who we are today. Their spirits continue to inspire me, reminding me to celebrate life and the connections we form with those we hold dear.

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Budgeting


Creating an effective budget is essential for managing personal finances, achieving financial goals, and ensuring financial security.

Since I am retired my budget goals is much different than when I was working and raising a family. Before I retired my goal was to pay off all credit cards before retirement. Credit card interest rates can drain a large portion of your income. After retirement all credit card amounts are paid off every month.

Before retirement I did attempt to budget the money, but it is difficult to do since many unforeseen circumstances enter your life. I was fortunate enough to work most of the time during my working years. I did have a period of time about 6 years where I did not have a stable job, and my finances fell about $30,000. Other than that, I was fortunate to have a stable working life. Times have changed and it appears that the American dream is farther out for one to reach.

After retirement we attempt to spend no more than what our fixed income is. Vacations and special expenses come out of our savings and investments. We do have a home equity line of credit available in case some medical surprise arises or some other unexpected expense. However, in the last eighteen years we have not had to tap into it.

Finally, my advice is try to avoid paying credit card interest charges. 18 percent or more interest rates are outrageous and should be outlawed.

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Law Breaking

Given the breadth of laws and regulations, it’s quite possible that many people, including yourself, might have unintentionally broken some law at some point. Common examples include:

  • Speeding: Exceeding the speed limit, even slightly, can be an unintentional breach of traffic laws.
  • Downloading copyrighted content: Sometimes, sharing or downloading music, movies, or software without proper licensing can inadvertently violate copyright laws.
  • Littering: Dropping small pieces of trash or not disposing of waste correctly in public spaces might lead to an unintentional violation.


Given this complexity, here’s what we can infer:

Total Laws: Including all federal, state, and local laws, the number would be in the millions if one were to count every single piece of legislation, regulation, and local ordinance currently in effect.

Federal Statutes: There are over 30,000 federal statutes since 1789, but this count includes all historical laws, many of which are no longer in effect.

Regulations: The number of federal regulations could be in the hundreds of thousands, though exact numbers are hard to pin down due to the dynamic nature of regulatory law. In essence, while it’s impossible to state an exact number due to the ongoing legislative process and the layered nature of U.S. legal systems, the total count of all enforceable laws would be extremely high, reflecting the country’s long history and extensive governmental structures.

I used AI to get these statistics. Therefore, I may have broken the law using this information.

In conclusion, yes, I have unintentionally broken the law.

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Valentine’s Day


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Valentine’s Day, celebrated annually on February 14th, is a cultural and commercial holiday dedicated to love and affection. Here’s a look at its origins, traditions, and modern celebrations:

Origins:

  • Ancient Roots: The day has roots in both Christian and ancient Roman traditions. One theory suggests it evolved from Lupercalia, a Roman fertility festival held in mid-February.
  • Saint Valentine: The holiday is named after one or more early Christian saints named Valentine. The most popular story involves Saint Valentine of Rome, who, according to legend, was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry. He reportedly restored sight to the blind daughter of his judge, and before his execution, he wrote her a letter signed “Your Valentine” as a farewell.

Traditions:

  • Exchange of Tokens of Love: The tradition of exchanging cards, flowers (especially red roses), and sweets has become central to Valentine’s Day. The first commercial Valentine’s Day greeting cards were introduced in the 19th century by Esther A. Howland.
  • Symbols: Hearts, Cupid (the Roman god of love), doves, and the color red dominate the iconography of the day, symbolizing love, affection, and passion.

Modern Celebrations:

  • Global Recognition: While Valentine’s Day is predominantly celebrated in Western countries, its commercialization has led to its global recognition. In some countries, it has adapted to local cultures or even spawned similar holidays celebrating love.
  • Beyond Romantic Love: Today, Valentine’s Day is not only for romantic partners. It’s also a day to celebrate love in all its forms – friendship, family, and even self-love. This broader interpretation includes “Galentine’s Day,” where friends celebrate their platonic bonds, often the day before Valentine’s Day.
  • Critiques and Alternatives: Some view Valentine’s Day as overly commercialized, leading to alternatives like “Single Awareness Day” or celebrations of self-love. There’s also a growing movement to use the day to honor all kinds of love, not just romantic relationships.

Cultural Variations:

  • Japan: In Japan, women give chocolates to men on Valentine’s Day, and men reciprocate with gifts on “White Day,” one month later.
  • South Korea: They celebrate “Black Day” on April 14 where singles eat black noodles to commiserate their single status, adding a unique twist to the holiday cycle.

Valentine’s Day continues to evolve, reflecting changes in society’s understanding of love, relationships, and personal expression. Whether it’s through traditional gifts or modern, inclusive celebrations, the day remains a testament to the universal desire for connection and affection.

The Day of “Get a Life” Jared

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Today, February 13, 2025, is just another Thursday, one of those days that slips by unnoticed, like water through your fingers. Here’s a recount of how Jared, get a life unfolded, or rather, didn’t.

Morning: The alarm sounded at its usual time, 7:00 AM, but there was no rush, no excitement to jump out of bed. The sky outside was a uniform gray, not dark enough for drama, nor light enough for optimism. Breakfast was the same as yesterday – oatmeal with a sprinkle of cinnamon because even on a day like this, variety seemed too much effort. The news on the radio was the usual; political debates, local weather, and a sports score from a game I didn’t watch.

Work: I logged into work at 9:00 AM sharp. The digital clock on my computer was the highlight of my morning, ticking away the seconds with an almost mocking steadiness. Emails trickled in – none urgent, none interesting. Most were updates on projects that haven’t moved in weeks. The meeting at 10:30 was rescheduled for “no particular reason”, which, in corporate speak, means “we have nothing to discuss.” My fingers danced over the keyboard, writing reports that felt like déjà vu, a repetition of last week’s work.

Lunch Break: Lunch was a sandwich from the same old deli. The bread was slightly too soft, the lettuce a bit too limp, but complaining felt unnecessary. I ate while scrolling through social media – the same posts, the same memes, the same debates. It was as if the world outside my window was on pause, stuck in a loop of yesterday’s news.

Afternoon: Back at work, the afternoon dragged. The office was quiet, the hum of the air conditioner providing a monotonous backdrop to the day. I tried to start a new project, but motivation was as absent as the sun. Instead, I spent an inordinate amount of time organizing my digital files, something I’ve been putting off for months – not because it needed doing, but because there was nothing else to do.

Evening: The clock struck 5:00 PM, and I was out the door, not with a sense of liberation, but with the knowledge that tomorrow would likely be a rerun of today. Dinner was something out of the freezer, heated in the microwave. The TV offered the usual fare of reality shows and sitcoms I’ve seen countless times. The highlight of the evening was choosing between watching paint dry or my neighbor’s cat, who at least had the decency to look bored in an interesting way.

Reflection: As I sit here writing this, I realize that today was not marked by events or achievements, but by its profound ordinariness. There’s a certain peace in the lack of chaos, but there’s also a whisper of melancholy. In the quiet, one can hear the ticks of life passing, a reminder that even the most unremarkable days are part of our time here.

Today was not about what happened, but what didn’t. And in that absence, there’s a story too, one of waiting, of patience, or perhaps just of accepting that not every day needs to be memorable to be lived.

So, here’s to the boring days, the ones that give us time to breathe, to think, or maybe just to exist. Tomorrow is Valentines Day, who knows, I may meet the love of my life somewhere between my boring breakfast to the time I go to bed. Yes, I can still dream and think of the future. If it wasn’t for the vivid dreams I have, I would really be bored.

This was written by good ole AI. I just edited some spots. In my opinion AI may change writing and creativity may suffer. It is so easy to have AI do all the research and groundwork. I am hoping AI in the long run will have positive results. However, at the present time I have some reservations.

Today is Abe Lincolns Birthday

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Abraham Lincoln, born on February 12, 1809, in Hodgenville, Kentucky, is one of the most venerated figures in American history, often remembered for his leadership during one of the nation’s most tumultuous periods. His life and presidency are marked by humility, resilience, and a profound commitment to the principles of freedom and unity.

Early Life and Career:

Lincoln grew up in a poor family in the frontier regions of Kentucky and Indiana. His formal education was limited, amounting to less than a year of schooling, but he was an avid reader and self-taught in many subjects. His early jobs included working as a rail-splitter, storekeeper, surveyor, and postmaster. His legal education was also self-taught, leading him to pass the bar exam in Illinois in 1836 and begin practicing law.

Political Beginnings:

Lincoln’s political career began in the Illinois State Legislature, where he served from 1834 to 1842. He later served a single term in the U.S. House of Representatives (1847-1849). However, it was his debates with Stephen A. Douglas during the 1858 Illinois Senate race that brought him national attention, particularly his eloquent articulation of the immorality of slavery in the “House Divided” speech.

Presidency:

Elected as the 16th President of the United States in 1860, Lincoln took office at a time when the nation was deeply divided over slavery. His election led to the secession of several southern states, precipitating the Civil War. Lincoln’s leadership during the war was characterized by a combination of military strategy, political acumen, and moral conviction. His Emancipation Proclamation in 1863 declared that all slaves in Confederate territory would be set free, fundamentally altering the war’s purpose to include the abolition of slavery.

Key Achievements:

  • Emancipation Proclamation (1863): This executive order was a turning point in the Civil War, transforming the conflict into one not only for Union but also for freedom.
  • Gettysburg Address (1863): Perhaps the most famous speech in American history, where Lincoln redefined the Civil War as a struggle not just for the Union but for a “new birth of freedom.”
  • 13th Amendment (1865): Lincoln’s work towards its passage ensured the abolition of slavery in the United States constitutionally.

Personal Traits:

Lincoln was known for his compassion, his storytelling, and his humor, which provided relief in the grim times of war. He was also noted for his depression, often described as “melancholy,” which he managed with a stoic approach to life’s trials.

Assassination and Legacy:

On April 14, 1865, just days after the Civil War ended, Lincoln was assassinated by John Wilkes Booth at Ford’s Theatre in Washington, D.C. His death came at a moment when the nation was beginning to heal, but his leadership left an indelible mark on American history. Lincoln’s legacy is one of preservation and expansion of the Union, emancipation of the enslaved, and the promotion of equality. His image on the penny and the five-dollar bill, numerous monuments, and countless schools and streets named in his honor reflect his enduring influence.

In summary, Abraham Lincoln is celebrated not only for his role in saving the Union but also for his vision of a nation where “government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.” His life story continues to inspire discussions about leadership, morality, and the ongoing struggle for equality in the United States.

Not Much to Remember Today

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Title: The Quiet Day: When Nothing Very Important Happened on February 11th

February 11th has had its share of headline-making moments throughout history, but let’s take a moment to appreciate the quieter side of this date. Today, we’re not here to delve into the monumental events or the groundbreaking discoveries; instead, we’re celebrating the ordinary, the mundane, and the blissfully uneventful.

A Day Like Any Other

Imagine waking up on February 11th to find the world much as you left it the day before. No major political upheavals, no scientific breakthroughs announced, just the regular hum of daily life. The sun rises, people go to work, birds chirp, and life ticks along at its usual pace. It’s comforting in its predictability, isn’t it?

The Beauty in the Mundane

There’s something inherently beautiful about days when nothing very important happens. It’s a reminder that not every day needs to be marked by history. Sometimes, the most significant event of the day might be the first bloom of spring, a quiet walk in the park, or the simple joy of a shared meal with family or friends. These are the moments that make up the fabric of our lives, woven together with threads of routine and simplicity.

Local News and Daily Life

On this day, local news might consist of a cat stuck in a tree being rescued by firefighters, a community garden project getting new volunteers, or a high school sports team winning a local match. These snippets of life are the heartbeat of our communities, reminding us of the connections we share and the small stories that matter deeply to those involved.

The Uncelebrated Heroes

February 11th might also be a day where unsung heroes shine. Perhaps a teacher went the extra mile to help a struggling student, or a neighbor quietly shoveled the snow off another’s driveway. These acts of kindness don’t make headlines, but they are the quiet forces that keep the world turning with compassion and empathy.

A Reflection on Nothingness

In a world often obsessed with achievement and spectacle, there’s a lesson in embracing the days where nothing very important happens. It teaches us to find joy in the present moment, to appreciate the peace that comes with uneventfulness, and to recognize that every day doesn’t need to be extraordinary to be meaningful.

Conclusion

So, here’s to February 11th, a day in the annals of time where we can take a breath, look around, and appreciate that sometimes, the absence of monumental events is an event in itself. It’s a day to celebrate the ordinary, to enjoy the tranquility of routine, and to find beauty in the quiet moments that make life truly rich. Here’s to the days when nothing very important happens – they are, in their own way, as noteworthy as any other.

National Poop Day

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Did you ever hear about this?

National Poop Day is celebrated annually on the day after Super Bowl Sunday, which in 2025 falls on February 10. This holiday, though quirky, has a serious side, aiming to educate people about the importance of digestive health and proper sanitation practices. Here’s a comprehensive look at National Poop Day:

Origin:

  • National Poop Day was conceived during a Polling Place election at the Madison Children’s Museum in 2016. Children voted to celebrate this day, which was then adopted as an annual event to discuss and destigmatize one of the most vital functions of the human body.

Purpose:

  • Health Awareness: The day serves to raise awareness about digestive health. Understanding your body’s natural processes, including the color, consistency, and frequency of bowel movements, can be indicative of your overall health.
  • Sanitation and Hygiene: It highlights the need for proper waste disposal, both for human health and environmental conservation.
  • Breaking Taboos: By humorously acknowledging poop, the day helps to break down social taboos surrounding the discussion of bodily functions.

Celebration Ideas:

  • Educational Events: Schools, museums, and health organizations might host events where people can learn about digestion, gut health, and the environmental impact of improper waste disposal. For instance, the Madison Children’s Museum has held events with activities like story times with books like “Everyone Poops” and hands-on learning about animal scat.
  • Community Cleanups: Promoting clean neighborhoods by organizing clean-ups, particularly focusing on pet waste, which can contaminate water sources if not disposed of correctly.
  • Social Media Campaigns: Using platforms like X (formerly Twitter) to share facts, humor, and educational content about poop, often using hashtags like #NationalPoopDay.
  • Fundraising for Sanitation: Some use this day to fundraise for organizations that work on improving sanitation conditions globally, like the Ocean Sewage Alliance.

Cultural Impact:

  • The day has found a niche in pop culture with humorous posts on social media, poop-themed merchandise, and even special events like “Poop Day” runs or walks. It also ties into the natural increase in sewage activity post-Super Bowl due to the consumption of heavy, rich foods during the game.

Health and Environmental Benefits:

  • Discussing poop openly can lead to better health practices. For example, understanding the Bristol Stool Scale for classifying poop can help individuals monitor their health and diet.
  • Environmentally, it underscores the importance of not flushing inappropriate items down the toilet, which can lead to sewage system issues.

Global Perspective:

  • While primarily an American observance, the themes of National Poop Day resonate globally, aligning with issues like World Toilet Day, which focuses on sanitation and hygiene worldwide.

National Poop Day combines humor with education to make a significant impact on public health discourse and environmental awareness. It reminds us that even the most basic bodily functions are crucial to our well-being and the health of our planet.

Two Years Ago


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Two years ago, if you can imagine such a thing, I, found myself in a peculiar situation. I was no longer bound by the physical constraints of life, yet I was very much aware, experiencing time in a way I never had before.

I remember the moment it happened, the feeling of detaching from my body, as if you were shedding an old coat. The world, as you knew it, didn’t disappear. However, I felt a sense of peace, total Peace. A feeling that is unexplainable.

Time, in this new state, was different. I may have been in a waiting room. Waiting to see if the medical team revives me and I return to life on earth. Or will I continue to time after life on this earth.

I didn’t see that light at the end of the tunnel like so many say they see. No music, no angels, just me. However, I experienced peace, total peace. A feeling I never felt before in my eighty plus years. Or after I was revived, that peace was gone.

Yet, there was also a sense of isolation. I missed the tactile sensations of life – the warmth of the sun, the taste of your favorite food, the hug of a friend. However, peace, total peace overpowered everything.

I began to understand that time after death was not about waiting for something to happen but about experiencing peace, total peace. I found joy in this new exploration, in learning about the universe from a perspective unbound by human limitations.

Two years in this new dimension of time felt like both an eternity and a heartbeat. I learned that death wasn’t an end but a transition to another kind of journey, one where time was not a line but a vast, interconnected web of experiences. I feel blessed and honored that I was chosen to experience a preview of time after death. I will share my experience to as many as this mere mortal is able to. Here, is this timeless space, I continued to live, to love, and to be myself. I am confident time after death will not be a disappointment.

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False Reporting



The issue of misinformation and lies in news media is a significant concern in contemporary society, affecting public perception, trust in journalism, and even the outcomes of elections. Here’s an overview based on recent trends and discussions:

Current Landscape:

  • Proliferation of Misinformation: The spread of false or misleading information has been exacerbated by the digital age, where social media platforms and the internet allow content to reach vast audiences quickly. Misinformation can range from incorrect facts to deliberate disinformation campaigns designed to sway public opinion or sow discord.
  • Impact of Social Media: Platforms like X (formerly Twitter) have become hotbeds for misinformation, with posts often going viral before they can be fact-checked or corrected. The rapid dissemination of information without adequate verification has led to significant real-world consequences, especially during crises like natural disasters or elections.
  • Role of Traditional Media: Even established news outlets are not immune to spreading misinformation, sometimes due to the pressure of breaking news first, ideological biases, or lapses in editorial oversight. Recent examples include erroneous reporting on significant events like the origins of pandemics or election integrity.

Key Points from Recent Discussions:

  • Election Misinformation: The 2024 U.S. presidential election was particularly noted for misinformation, with false claims about voting processes, ballot integrity, and election results. This has led to a loss of trust in electoral systems and has been a focal point in discussions about media responsibility.
  • Fact-Checking and Retraction: The effectiveness of fact-checking by media organizations has been questioned, especially when corrections or retractions do not receive the same visibility as the original misinformation. The discontinuation of some fact-checking programs by major social media platforms has raised alarms about the potential increase in unchecked misinformation.
  • Legal and Ethical Considerations: There have been lawsuits against media outlets for spreading false information, leading to settlements but not always public acknowledgment or correction of the misinformation. This has sparked debates about the adequacy of current defamation laws in combating misinformation.
  • Public Perception: Surveys and posts on X reflect a growing skepticism towards news media, with many Americans believing that news organizations might intentionally mislead or manipulate public opinion.
  • Technological Solutions: AI is being explored for its potential in combating misinformation by flagging dubious content and assisting in fact-checking, although it also poses risks when used to generate misleading content.

Moving Forward:

  • Media Literacy: There’s a push for increased education on media literacy to empower individuals to critically evaluate the information they consume.
  • Journalistic Integrity: Calls for stronger adherence to journalistic standards, transparency in reporting, and accountability when errors occur.
  • Policy and Regulation: Discussions on how government and platforms should regulate or mitigate misinformation without infringing on free speech.
  • Community Action: Grassroots movements and protests, like those seen trending on X, demonstrate public demand for truth in media, especially in politically charged contexts like immigration policy.

In conclusion, while misinformation in media is a complex issue intertwined with technology, politics, and human behavior, ongoing efforts across societal, technological, and legislative domains are aimed at reducing its impact. However, the balance between free speech and the prevention of harm from misinformation remains a contentious and evolving challenge.