Daily writing prompt

What advice would you give to your teenage self?

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If I had to do it over again, I would have wholeheartedly embraced being myself instead of conforming to the expectations set by others around me—so many times I heard phrases like, “you need to be more like your brother or like Johnny down the street.” Each time, I felt the pressure to change who I was to fit a mold that simply didn’t represent me. I spent many years of my life trying to emulate someone else, desperately seeking approval and validation, instead of being true to my own identity and values. It took me a long time to realize that the unique qualities that make me who I am are far more valuable than any imitation of someone else. The journey to self-acceptance has been long and sometimes painful, but ultimately, it has taught me the importance of authenticity and the strength that comes from embracing my individuality.

A short time after I retired about twenty years ago, I was taking a peaceful walk around the greenbelt, enjoying the fresh air and the gentle rustle of leaves. The only things around me were the soothing sounds of the creek, the winding pathway beneath my feet, and some waist-high foliage that danced in the breeze. Suddenly, from nowhere, this profound voice emerged, echoing through my mind, and said, “Tom, just be yourself! Stop trying to be somebody you are not. You were created to be you, so, just be yourself.” It felt like a life-altering revelation that struck me with clarity. This was an eye-opening experience, one that made me reflect deeply on my life choices and the masks I had worn for so long. Since then, I have actively decided to embrace my true self, shedding all the pretenses I had been carrying. I have stopped trying to be someone I am not, and in doing so, I have uncovered a sense of freedom and authenticity that was previously hidden away. I am so much happier now being myself instead of being somebody that I thought would be better than just me; I cherish the person I am, no longer bound by the expectations of others or the fear of judgment. Each step I take in this newfound authenticity brings me closer to a fulfilling and genuine life, filled with peace and contentment.

THEREFORE, JUST BE YOURSELF!