When my son was growing up, during his teenage years, he was a typical teenager who thought he had all the answers to life’s questions and challenges. His confidence often led him to make bold decisions that sometimes worried me, as I recognized the turbulent nature of that age. He navigated through those challenging years with a mix of rebellion and curiosity, learning valuable lessons along the way about responsibility and the complexities of life. As he faced conflicts with friends, fluctuating emotions, and the pressures of schoolwork, I watched him grow into a more understanding and resilient young man. Through it all, I was there to support him, guiding him gently when needed, while also allowing him the space to learn from his experiences and mistakes. Ultimately, he made it through those challenging years, emerging wiser and more mature, with a clearer understanding of the world around him.

Somewhere when he was near twenty-five, he said to me, “Dad, I am just amazed how smart and wise you became in the last ten years. I often find myself recalling the lessons you’ve shared over the years, from your stories of perseverance to your insights on life and relationships. Your experiences have shaped not only your character but have also left a profound impact on my outlook. I hope to carry some of that wisdom into my own life as I step into adulthood and encounter my own trials and triumphs. As I face new challenges, I will remember your words of encouragement and the way you approached life’s obstacles with resilience and grace. I will strive to pass on these valuable lessons to my children, if I have any, because I believe that sharing this knowledge will help shape their understanding of the world and equip them to navigate their own paths.”

This was the best compliment I could have ever received. It made my day, lighting up my spirits and filling me with an overwhelming sense of joy and gratitude. Every detail of that moment is etched in my memory, and I still remember it after 25 years, as if it happened just yesterday.

Daily writing prompt

What was the best compliment you’ve received?

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