Both of my parents at the age I am now are enjoying PEACE, TOTAL PEACE. They have cultivated a serene environment filled with joy and tranquility, surrounded by the warmth of family and the comfort of cherished memories. This peace stems not only from the stability they have built over the years but also from the understanding and love that binds us together. Each day is a reminder of the importance of mindfulness and the simple pleasures in life, such as listening to the soothing sound of nature outside their window or sharing laughter during family gatherings. It’s a time for reflection, gratitude, and the pursuit of new passions, as they relish the freedom that comes from years of hard work and dedication.
First, my mother was stricken with bone cancer, a cruel diagnosis that shattered our lives and turned our world upside down. Despite her bravery and fierce spirit, she passed away when she was 75, leaving behind a legacy of love, strength, and unwavering support that continues to inspire me every day. Her battle against the illness was filled with moments of hope and despair, but through it all, she taught us the importance of family, resilience, and cherishing every moment we have together.
Three years later, my father unexpectedly had a heart attack and passed away when he was 75, leaving our family in a state of profound shock and grief. His passing shattered the sense of security we had felt, as he was not only a loving father but also a pillar of strength and wisdom in our lives. We had always taken for granted the countless stories he shared, the advice he offered in times of trouble, and the warmth of his presence at family gatherings. In the aftermath of his sudden departure, we struggled to come to terms with our loss, reminiscing about cherished memories while grappling with the emptiness left behind.
When I turned 75, I wondered many times if I would follow their legacy, reflecting on the footsteps they left behind and the wisdom they imparted. As I reached this milestone, the memories of their achievements and the values they instilled resonated deeply within me, prompting questions about my own path. Here I am over 80, looking back with a sense of nostalgia and realization that I did not follow the legacy, not out of defiance but rather because I forged my own journey, one shaped by different circumstances and choices, filled with unique experiences that diverged from their expectations.
I often find myself lost in thoughts of Mom and Dad as I traverse the winding path of my life, reflecting on the countless lessons and priceless experiences you have bestowed upon me. Your unwavering love and guidance have been my North Star, helping me navigate the intricate tapestry of life. I cherish the beautiful memories we’ve woven together, from moments around the dinner table to our family adventures. My heart swells with love for you, and I eagerly await the day my journey reaches its end, determined to carry forward the values you instilled in me, making you proud every step of the way.
TomT2.0 